one thing i always say is fornication has consequences
it is interesting to me to hear people complain about the consequences of fornication unwanted pregnancies / stds / broken relationships / etc etc you hear people complaining about these types of things a lot but people don't really take accountability the way i know this is because people oftentimes point the finger at the other person, and also because people never talk about abstinence anymore.. people talk about "wrap it up" or "be smart about who you're with" or whatever.. but no one just says: "my actions of sex outside of marriage led to this, so i will stop doing that, and instead live a life of purity" i remember one girl i know was sexually active and got pregnant, then aborted the child, then fell into deep depression when she got out of that hole, one day she said to me "i finally got birth control" to me that was like saying "i didn't learn anything from all that stuff i went through" if sex outside of marriage led you to that horrible place in your life where you actually participated in murder, then why would you go back to that? if u take nothing else away from this post, take away "fornication has consequences" look around in your life, do you see people dealing with those consequences? are they worth it?
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a lot of people on this forum seemed to like one of my posts so i decided to screenshot it and post it here (my comment started with "i agree")
here we have an ex porn star who wants to be treated the exact opposite of how she has acted.. if u don't want to watch the whole thing, start it at 1:30 she wants to be treated THE EXACT OPPOSITE of how she has lived her life
THE EXACT OPPOSITE another perfect example of modern women she has a large body count, even without them indicating it, you can just tell based on her decisions
the body count affects her dating choices, she attempts to create or recreate certain relationships as opposed to organically allowing something healthy to approach u don't have a taste for love/companionship until its too late.. the enemy has you thirsting for a "6-pack and smile" which is like saying: 6-pack = presentation ... smile = charisma... presentation + charisma generally equals what? PLAYER which confirms what i say about women wasting their best years on thugs and players (keep in mind she described herself as a "jerk magnet") she has successfully lost her opportunity.. she spent her 20s, 30s, and 40s banging different men, always thinking there is a better option.. i know that because she has no children.. if she didn't feel like there was a better option all the time then she would have gotten off birth control at some point the enemy has women thinking "i can bang this guy and then when the right guy comes, i will hop on that train" but the thing is, the fact that you are banging that guy means you are not ready for the train when it arrives let me put it like this, a ring doesn't make you a wife, you need to practice being a wife.. if you practice sex outside of marriage, then guess what- you are practicing infidelity.. you are not preparing yourself to be a wife and mother anyway.. watch the video if you didn't.. these women today are clowns.. i'm out i finally got every person out of my life who was not really someone valuable to me
ten or eleven people altogether the most recent one i got out of my life was the last one i was holding on because she was pretty and i enjoyed speaking to her about celebrity news but she had some weird opinions that kinda made me question if we should really be familiar with one another anyway like 2 days ago we had a discussion where she ended up calling me a hypocrite over some stuff but i disagreed because of the circumstances.. but she wouldn't stop talking about it so i finally said "stop talking to me" she said "oh trust me i will" to me this just means we won't speak anymore.. which is fine because i figure more arguments like these would occur if we did so finally my circle is as small as a cheerio how do i feel about this? i feel great about it.. i feel like "free" like i am not trying to hold onto anything and instead i am leaving my social life up to the Lord He can shape it the way He wants as opposed to me trying to keep people in my life who shouldn't be in it and i'm not saying that in a negative way toward them, more like in a negative way toward myself.. those people are who they are- i was the one trying to keep relationships and trying to maintain friendships that were not really about anything i am thankful to just be alone and have a sort of "clean slate" because maybe this will give the Lord room to do certain things.. or maybe He will say "james you took so long to get to this point that you can forget about help from here" i'm not sure which way the Lord will take things but i am thankful to have all the people out of my life who i was just trying to keep for no reason.. they can go do what they want and stop pretending to care about me and i can do what i want without begging peeps to tolerate my presence this is video is a perfect example of what i mean when i say "modern women" this woman tells a story about being in whoredom with some guy for 18 years then she turns 35 and wants to stop lol... this is a perfect example of what i mean when i say modern women are just not wife material what guy wants to marry you at age 35? especially when you have 18 years of bodies and soul ties on your resume you have a rolodex body count and you're 35 and you are thinking about getting married now and having a long term relationship but how many commitment minded men did you ignore because you were in this "situationship" ??? i know all about this because i have been that commitment minded guy and i have tried to take women out and treat them well but they are not in tune because (as i've said before here on this site) they have these sex buddies in the background i can make your favorite dish, it doesn't matter... i could be the best chef in the world, it doesn't matter YOU WILL NOT WANT WHAT I COOK, IF YOU ARE ARE ALREADY FULL THIS IS WHAT MODERN WOMEN ARE, THEY ARE OUT HERE SCREWING THESE MEN, AND OVERLOOKING THE GUYS WHO ACTUALLY WANT TO MARRY THEM, THEN WHEN THEY ARE 35 THEY START THINKING "WAIT A MINUTE, IM ALONE" another thing a lot of these women will do is gaslight you and try to make you think their rolodex of sexual partners and experiences don't matter.. but this woman said in this video at about 13:47 "we met in college, so anybody i meet after the age of 20 isn't going to mean as much as you do just because of the numbers" in other words.... (and i want you guys to really hear me on this because i used to wonder why women did not properly react or reciprocate or grow in love and affection despite all my efforts) SHE NO LONGER HAS THE ABILITY TO PAIR BOND ok so... i think i have made my points when i say these types of things (the things i said in this entry) people tend to say i am crazy or bitter or i hate women, but i have not said anything that isn't true.. i have not said anything outlandish.. this is really what modern women are and why they are not worth anything today.. think of it like this.. if you said to a woman "men these days no longer provide or protect and they all live with their mom" she would be like.. "wow.. ok i guess i'll just be single" that type of sentiment is where mgtow and sysbm have come from.. women are no longer worth it today.. women are the exact opposite of what they are supposed to be, and they are no longer worth pursuing they are whores, they abort their kids, they take no accountability for anything they do, they lie, cheat, manipulate, gaslight, they waste their youth and best years on players and thugs, they are just utterly horrible.. i mean seriously look at this woman.. she thinks she is ok but in my opinion her life is a trainwreck.. she could have had kids, been married for at least 15 years.. she could have some type of help and some type of love in her life, but instead she has just been in an 18 year long friend with benefits relationship with no title and when i point this out people tell me i'm misongynist but this is the reality of the situation.. i didn't add anything to what she said, this is really her life.. if you think this stuff is cool then hey- go ahead and live like her, have at it anyway, i could continue but i think u all get the picture.... oh... but before i go.. i'm not saying to watch these videos, but take a look at the titles of them again- they reek of the modern woman so she apparently knows everything about contracting stds (which is of course a product of whoredom) and she knows nothing about submitting to a man, as her video states that submitting to a man is "bad advice" and that fantasia (who is married) is wrong for doing it.. so a single woman who was in an 18 year pump and dump thinks she can tell a married woman what works and what doesn't in relationships this is the modern woman
you go girl lol go drive off a cliff youtube is constantly deleting my comments.. so tonight i was leaving a comment on a video and i figured youtube would delete it.. i was right
so in hope that it is not wasted, i will just post it here this was in response to some woman trying to bash mgtow: she can yap all she wants, the truth is women are not the same as they used to be and men are tired of it.. men ARE still the same as they used to be.. WOMEN are the ones who went from skirts to pants WOMEN are the ones who went from caretakers to 9 to 5ers WOMEN are the ones who went from having babies to aborting them WOMEN are the ones who had 50 years of feminism WOMEN CHANGED, MEN HAVEN'T... and men are tired of trying to squeeze a wife out of a skank.. it just doesn't work.. we are done and we have left the building.. enjoy your cats that was the comment.. and as a general rule i feel that this is one of the main issues with people who diss the manosphere.. they omit the fact that women are no longer the same they do not acknowledge that women are not anything like they were two generations ago THEY DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE IT because of this, their comments are not valid.. it is not valid to say "men and women are both bad" when ONLY ONE GROUP HAS CHANGED men are still the same, we still wear the same clothing, we still have the same gender roles, we still want the same things: a beautiful wife and a stable family.. we did not have 50 years of rhetoric like women did.. WOMEN had feminism telling them to be the opposite of who they should be.. MEN HAVE NOT HAD THAT MEN ARE TIRED OF WOMEN, stop trying to make this whole modern gender issue sound like men are just bitter and angry for no reason, when the truth is we have just woken up to what is happening.. it is not "bitter and angry" to logically recognize and remove a narcissistic vampire skank from your life.. we don't have wives anymore, only skanks and skanks on a break WOMEN initiate 80% of divorce, NOT MEN i get so tired of people trying to make the gender issues equal, they are not equal, women are running amok in this society.. why get upset when men let go when you never wanted to properly participate with us in the first place? i think narcissism is a sexually transmitted disease
i don't think anyone really ever thinks of it that way, but i do i think this is for primarily 2 reasons: 1. when u have sex with people and things don't pan out in the relationship, you learn to build a wall over your emotions and only look out for self so you basically learn selfishness, deception, manipulation, etc.... which essentially amounts to narcissism 2. if sex is spiritual and "two become one" then people who are sexually active are likely exposing themselves to other peoples' demons if you were a saint, you wouldn't be having sex outside of marriage.. so this illicit sex that is happening out here in these streets is not a thing where "iron sharpens iron" and you both become better and enjoy intimacy- no, its two people basically living in lust, exchanging demons, and making each other worse so basically, on one hand- illicit sex leads to learned narcissism, and on the other hand it leads to a spirit based narcissism i think women are more affected than men for a few reasons: 1. women are the "receivers" 2. i think women have more sexual partners than men on average 3. women oftentimes like criminals and thug type men- they seem to like men with low morality, so if they are with these men then the most negative things are rubbing off on them what do u peeps think do not watch if sensitive to language, the language in this is horrible.. but the message felt really good to hear it feels good to have a woman say this stuff for sure you can tell she knows about the games women play but she knows the destruction it causes these women today are so demonic, it is just nearly unbelievable.. their minds are gone
let me just take a moment to explain some of the things that are wrong with their minds 1. i looked up birth control side effects last year and i found that they oftentimes cause women to have more emotional instability and weight gain... a lot of women are on birth control 2. the sex women are having is affecting them mentally and emotionally also.. some ways this occurs: - the sex with different men causes up and down behavior (keep in mind that different men's semen fight when they come into contact.. women are similarly conflicted when they have sex with multiple men) - abortions are destroying women's conscience and sensibility - they are being alpha widowed .. that term means they find some "alpha male" and he gives them this great sexual experience, then he disappears on them because these guys are not commitment minded.. so this breaks women down and all they can do is try to find a replacement.. through being alpha widowed they may deal with many different emotions, sadness, anger, regret, etc etc 3. women are on psyche meds.. these oftentimes allow women to function, but they are not growing or becoming better as people or elevating.. also over time they can circle back to depression or suicidal thoughts, which is why sometimes these doctors are giving women a different brand each time they go for a re-up so there i just rattled off 3 things that heavily affect a woman's mental state and there are more issues, but those are just the ones i wanted to point out for now these women today are just utterly horrendous imagine being a man who is ready for marriage and these dumpster divers are what you have to choose from bossy, loud, narcissistic, psychotic, lying, promiscuous, gaslighting, attitude having, manipulative, contentious, baby aborting, filthy vagina having, skanks acting like they are marriage material when they are anything but so in my entry yesterday you can see what i said about invalidation well a funny thing happened, when i got up a few hours ago, i looked up a video on cobanermani.. cobanermani is a video game youtuber and i never watched his videos but i used to see them here and there and i just kinda knew about him from seeing him around on youtube well he apparently quit youtube so just out of curiosity- i looked him up to see why he quit and i came across the video below what's funny about this video is it is the exact same type of situation i was in in my relationship with questa.. everything he explains is what i dealt with.. lies, manipulation, gaslighting, etc etc etc and one thing that really stuck out to me about this video is he used the word "invalidation" multiple times if you want to see what it was like for me being in that horrible "relationship" just watch this video.. i never expected this video to be like a mirror of my situation with questa but that's basically what it is |
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