I want to give my take on this whole Monique Netflix thing
Women keep doing this “I’m not getting paid what this other person is getting paid” thing and it needs to stop.. what women don’t realize they’re pushing for is one set wage for everyone.. that’s what they are essentially pushing for
Companies want to get the best candidates and they pay based on credentials, the interview, how long they expect you to stay- etc.. and they also pay based on various other factors such as what their budget is at the time.. I’m not saying its always fair but you have autonomy- it’s called accept the offer or turn it down
Women are so stupid because if they keep pushing this crap companies are just going to pay everyone an even 30k just to stay out of litigation
Women have to understand that different wages allow for growth.. this is what these idiotic women don’t understand because they are too busy looking at someone else’s plate to enjoy their own food
I’ve been in situations where other people around me make more money than me but I’ve never ranted and complained about it.. I figure they have their reasons whether fair or not but ultimately personal accountability (something women sorely lack) says “let me try and either find out why they make more and accomplish that or if it actually is discrimination then let me leave”
I remember one day at my job I told two different girls I was making like 2 or 3 times what they were making as like a joke (we were all doing the same job) .. their reactions were crazy.. they were both like uncontrollably angry.. they were both like ready to cry.. one of them got quiet and sat there looking pitiful and the other one was cussing and looking like she wanted to fight
The reality is if you have accepted a pay rate then you should be fine, but no women don’t have the ability of objectivity.. they think they deserve everything other people have without regard to circumstance and situation or any of the backstory behind the reasons why this or that occurs
What makes this stuff worse is that women are hypocritical
It’s just like how women want to say “women can be beautiful at any size” but they still deem men who are short or men who are overweight as undesirable.. it’s the same with money.. women want to say “those men are making more than me!” or “this person makes more than me!” but if a woman makes more than others around herself you won’t hear a peep out of her
That’s hypocritical, how can you scream and rant and rave about inequality, but when you’re on the “winning” side, you’re completely mute
Another thing I want to point out is that Monique is a textbook jezebel.. after dealing with my ex g/f for 10 months or however long it was, I can spot certain things a mile away
Monique is jezebel and her husband is ahab.. jezebels are basically narcissists who infect people with their stupid rhetoric.. the more you listen the worse off you are unless you are one of the people who sees through their crap
They take reality and totally distort it with conviction.. they are terrible people.. jezebel is empowered by ahab because ahab either gives her power and/or validation.. ahab is jezebel's enabler.. knowingly or unknowingly.. he enables her through silent compromise/complacence or even through arguing, bickering, or fighting with her because the bible says tolerating jezebel is sin in God's eyes.. meaning even if you fight with her- that can still be considered tolerating her because that back and forth still gives her opportunity to speak, "seduce," manipulate, distract, and infect you...
(remember, in many ways they feed on dysfunction.. so u may think you're standing up for what's true and right when you try to talk sense into her, but in reality oftentimes they are just pulling you into their realm of crazy with their neverending nonsensical rebuttals and confusing behavior... understand they are actually being "fed" by your attention and frustration)
my understanding is you have to destroy her- likely by uprooting her "power" (meaning pray against that demon in her and/or target and talk sense into those who enable her and show them her ways) also if possible, revoke her ability to influence, or (this is possibly the best course of action) REMOVE HER OR GET AWAY FROM HER COMPLETELY
Anyway.. one thing about jezebels or narcissists is they are the victim in every situation they get into.. they can get into verbal fights with different people every single day and somehow none of the incidents are their own fault
That is what Monique does.. we are supposed to believe she has had constant problems in the industry that has treated her so well and yet none of these issues are her own fault
The thing about these women is your best defense against them is to not listen to them.. want an example? Ok.. think about how many people thought Monique was an idiot for bashing Netflix when all they did was offer her a gig.. but now that she’s been on shows like breakfast club- look at how many people think she was in the right after listening to her
What I’m saying is.. a jezebel will spit on you and tell you it’s raining.. and you will clearly see she spit on you, but the more you allow her to speak, the more she will twist your reality into something different
Just like how the bible says she teaches and seduces.. all she needs is your listening ear she would jump at the chance to distort your reality and fill your mind with her own praises
Another thing I’ve noticed about these women is they tend to make friends into enemies and enemies into friends..
(sidenote: one way you see this in women in everyday life is when a woman gets a good man and she treats him like dirt but she meets a guy who just uses her and she treats him like a king and offers her body to him with no qualms about it… again- they treat friends like enemies and enemies like friends.. let me give one more example.. if you see a woman who is at odds with her family but she just loves all her acquaintances she met within the past year- consider that she may have the jezebel spirit.. ok back to what I was saying)
so here you have a woman who was offered a well-paying gig and she repays them by publicly calling them bigots and trying to get people to boycott them.. effectively turning a potential business partner into an enemy
Since when is being offered a job you don’t want a cause for a public boycott?
Also- should I base my worth on what they are paying others in the company? If your answer to that is yes then remember to be fair about it.. if you come in making more than someone else then scream and yell and fight for that other person’s right to make the same amount u make.. if you refuse to do that, you’re a HYPOCRITE
I am currently looking for jobs, if a job doesn’t pay up to my standard, is it my responsibility to get revenge ????
Which brings me to another issue with jezebel.. she is the most vindictive woman you could ever come across
My ex used to ALWAYS have her finger on the revenge trigger with me.. there were so many times I wasn’t even aware of what she was mad about but she was bent on “getting me back” for some perceived slight.. but they are always thinking you’re trying to slight them
Whenever you hear things like “when you do __ its all good but when I __ it’s a huge problem” or “you make __ but i only make __” or “when you wanna do something I’m expected to __ but when I wanna do something you just __”
When you hear these types of statements, chances are you’re dealing with a crazy jezebel .. she is selfish and self-centered.. I mean just re-read those statements I just wrote, they make the situation look like they are being wronged but the reality is they just want their way.. they are PERPETUAL VICTIMS
just think about the fact that she is going around doing press to bash netflix.. she doesn't even have anything to promote lol.. really think about that.. no book, no special, no movie.. just doing press trying to be vindictive against netflix and throw them under the bus while simultaneously attempting to paint herself as a victim
Oh, and they have a sense of entitlement.. this is what makes Monique think she deserves this and deserves that
“I’m the most decorated comedian in the world” smh.. you’re the most arrogant and entitled is what you are
They are so entitled that they think rules don’t apply to them.. that’s why a jezebel can NEVER be trusted, because they don’t see people as people, they see people as pawns on their game board
So if you are not helping them to win, in their eyes you’re the enemy.. they don’t see you as a human, you’re just something to manipulate for their own ends
Anyway.. I’ve said a lot here
My last relationship was HORRENDOUS but it has taught me a lot about what is out there in the world
If you think Monique makes sense about anything she is saying or about how she chooses to go about what she is saying, you have been duped by a jezebel
her suggestion to boycott doesn't even have any kind of end game lol.. like say a bunch of people did actually boycott.. ok then what? does she think she'll get a better offer after that? smh, it was a dumb idea any way you slice it
should we feel sorry for Monique? Are there factors involved in how much she is offered? DO WE EVEN KNOW THE WHOLE SITUATION? Should her problems be our problems? Is she handling the situation with class and couth? Can we actually blame race and color bias when black men and white women have gotten what she wants? The questions can continue.. but the fact is, the best thing to do with a jezebel is TUNE. HER. OUT.
to a jezebel demon, making actual sense is not a prerequisite to speaking
i want to talk about one thing my ex used to do that i will never put up with again
that thing is she used to threaten to leave me
she would make little comments about how i can be replaced or other guys want her or she'll leave me and i'll just be alone etc etc
i remember one time she said she would leave me and i would just be back to my life or something and she sat there and laughed about it.. the laughing part was really what hurt in that instance, because i didn't even understand why a person would get pleasure out of that
she also made comments sometimes about how she wanted me to get her pregnant so she could have our baby and leave me and raise it alone.. of course these were "jokes" but who jokes like that? (quick sidenote: referring to the pregnancy thing.. no we didn't have sex, i believe sex is for marriage)
anyway.. here's what i came here to say
i will NEVER EVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE EVER deal with a woman telling me she will leave me EVER AGAIN
what i learned is they use that as like a "do what i say" button or a "u should be afraid" button or an "i can threaten you" button
since i don't operate that way, i was unfamiliar with that- i didn't know it was just another trick in a woman's myriad of manipulations
i believe when it comes to certain things, oftentimes it takes one to know one.. it takes a thief to spot a thief.. it takes a liar to spot a liar.. with women, they are able to see through a woman's manipulation clearly because they tend to operate on that same wavelength
as for me though.. since i don't walk around trying to manipulate people, i never saw any of that stuff coming
but over time you realize you're just dealing with a scumbag
so once you realize- "ok she doesn't even mean what she says, she's just saying this to appear unaffected or to turn the tables" you see what your actual course of action should be
today if a woman told me she would leave me she better be prepared to actually leave because i refuse to be threatened or henpecked by a useless skank
and YES she is useless because if she is telling you she is going to leave you then she is essentially telling you:
"YOU'RE NOT WORTH FIGHTING FOR"
so she is useless to you because she will use that belief as an excuse or justification to treat you however she wants (aka like crap)
a woman better not EVER say she's going to leave me because i will show that skank the door IMMEDIATELY and i live on the second floor so she better hope she doesn't fall down the stairs when i throw her belongings at her on the way out
i hope some man will read this and learn from me on this
if a woman makes any type of comment about leaving you (even in an argument) tell her you're all about making wishes come true and CUT HER OFF
be flat, cold, and stoic
why? because women, thrive on attention
meaning even when the attention is negative they thrive
so in their pea brains that means giving you grief and headaches can actually be better to them than just leaving you alone or allowing you to have peace
so you have to cut off their source.. meaning revoke all attention from them.. but the key is to MEAN IT.. meaning you can't revoke attention and come back later.. just revoke it and forget she exists like FOR REAL, like FROM THE HEART
this is for two reasons 1. self preservation and 2. to show that dumb skank she can't treat you any way she feels like treating you
the truth is you really do deserve better.. how do i know? because i did.
when i was in that relationship i was a good boyfriend, i was loving, caring, attentive, giving, patient, everything a parent would want for their daughter, i embodied that.. but not one bit of it was appreciated.. i deserved better and if you're a man reading this and relating to what i'm saying then the truth is you deserve better too.. and i'm not saying that like some cliche, i mean from OBJECTIVE REALITY, you deserve better than a woman who doesn't properly reciprocate, no matter how good she looks
hopefully what i've said helps some guy and sheds light on some situations
anyway.. like i said- i will never deal with that again i don't care if you have the roundest booty and the biggest boobs and the prettiest face i don't care at all about any of that because guess what?
none of that matters if you don't treat me with respect
i really mean every word i'm saying here from the heart.. if a woman threatens to leave me she better hope we're not on the interstate
these are the top reasons i want to get out of renting and finally get a house
1. to get away from this situation where they just raise my rent every year for no reason
2. to put money in a home that can actually be paid off or sold, as opposed to an apartment that can never be paid off or sold
3. to be able to exercise at home if i want to (i'm currently on the second floor, exercising would be an obnoxious thing to do to the people below me)
4. i won't have to listen to other people have sex above me
5. to be able to make as much noise as i want whenever i want (recording isn't always the best when you know the walls are paper thin)
6. i want the experience of getting a house so i can know what its like.. just in general, it seems like a good thing to have some knowledge on the ins and outs of getting a home
7. a house is one piece of the foundation i would like to build for myself and my family.. on a song i once said "all i wanna build is a foundation/ so my family can stand like a proud nation/" that was a legit line as far as how i actually think.... i think men generally concern themselves with foundational type things like job, house, car, etc.. women generally concern themselves with the details of the given foundation
this is the song i'm currently working on.. this is just a short clip
ok here's part 2 of how to win over lust
these are just personal observations of mine
1. watch what you talk about
i've noticed if you talk about sexual things you may be tempted to do sexual things.. i don't really know how this works but it seems to ring true
just keep sexual things out of your mouth.. sometimes i'll see a woman and i'll get the urge to say something to myself like: "wow she has a big butt" ... but lately i try to just not say it and it seems to help me to keep away from lust
2. this one is obvious but watch what you look at.. its obvious because what you see can stay with you and lodge itself in your subconscious
but the non obvious part is like....... the visual may seem harmless
for example.. a female acquaintance of mine named eleni sometimes sends me pictures and she is like extremely pretty.. so its like.. i'll have pictures of her and in the forefront of my brain i'm saying "oh thats eleni" ... but over time i've noticed my subconscious brain is like "if only i could get my hands on her"
i was wondering why my brain kept going back to sex and i prayed and i felt like that's what God showed me.. the pictures of eleni were like triggering me so i had to delete them
so if you're trying to overcome lust you may have to get rid of the non-obvious sources of visual stimulation.. like pictures of your female friends, maybe even images of some anime characters .. sometimes things we keep that seem harmless are actually somewhat of a stumbling block
3. remember God's voice may grow dim if you are in sin
remembering this may help you to want to stop any type of lust issue you may have.. for example, sometimes when i go to sleep i lay down hoping the Lord will speak to me in a dream so that i can use whatever He says as a guide in my life
but if i have been up all night looking at butt-cheeks, i doubt if the Lord will give me an important dream
you want to be in a position to be able to hear the voice of the Lord as much as possible but how are you going to hear it clearly and often if you are always indulging in something that grieves the Holy Spirit?
that's it for part 2... hopefully this helps someone who is trying to be pure, not only in deed but also in thought
weird things have been happening to me lately.. it seems like peeps keep telling me they're praying for me
it makes me wonder what might be around the corner for me.. why do people feel the need to pray for me? what is on the menu for me in 2018?
i am thankful for the prayers
i know that 2019 won't be the same as this year.. i don't think i'll have the same job or live in the same place so i know some things are up in the air for me at the moment
i have a certain depression i've been dealing with
i think some of the reasons for this are
being alone (try finding a wife in this batch of women lol)
having somewhat of an identity crisis
needing to get out of my current job
and some more things... i'll spare you
i really like garlic pills.. if u haven't tried them i recommend trying them out.. i tried some and i don't know exactly what they do but my guess is they help your blood flow
all i know is i take them and i feel some sort of boost
my mom recently told me i need to get off the internet, and get out the house, and stop eating like a teenager, and get in the gym, and have some fun in life lol
she said one of the best things i did was when i flew out to see angela in seattle a few yrs ago because i did something different for once
she said i live in a box
she was right to some extent
i have a lot of lyrics right now.. the only issue is i don't have any completed 16s.. i just have a lot of random lines
my hope is that i will be able to work compiling my lines into full 16s at work.. i really am just hoping we will have a few moments of down time where i can sit and get everything together
i am really wanting to spit something.. i haven't rapped since before grad school
i am soooo tired of my job lately.. i haven't been getting too many call backs from the jobs i've been applying to
i want to double my income
my current job is super annoying because i work with this guy and any time i mention anything remotely "black" in culture he bashes it
like if he were to ask me what albums i was listening to that day.. if i said smashing pumpkins he'd be like oh.. but if i said bone thugs in harmony he would scoff and tell me how bad they are
he does this literally like all the time
to him erykah badu "sucks"
kendrick lamar "sucks"
katt williams is "racist against white people"
its just nonstop this guy is crazy.. and he never seems to see that i don't want to hear that every day
like the other day he asked me what i was doing for the weekend and i said "i'm going to see black panther" and he immediately scoffs and tells me he doesn't want to see it because it's like wonder woman.. which i guess was his way of saying he thinks its some type of political statement?
this guy is AWFUL
he said he was going to boycott the nfl because players were taking a knee.. lol
i never go up to him and say "your church is garbage" "that music is crap" "that neighborhood is crap" etc but he will do that stuff to me all day every day
his rhetoric really has started to bring me down.. he's one of those white people who will purposely mispronounce 2pac as "2-pack" just to try and get a rise out of you.. never stopping to actually inquire as to whether or not you actually listen to his music in the first place, instead he just assumes he's your favorite artist
he doesn't understand that i don't care, its just hearing his negativity all day gets old
i don't care if u hate democrats.. like i'm not a democrat or a republican and i didn't even vote in 2016 so i LITERALLY DONT CARE
so the problem isn't always that i disagree.. the problem is him coming up to me telling me stuff i don't care about all the time and calling people stupid all day every day
i think he is full of demons really... because when you look at him he has this permanent smug grin on his face and he loves to argue and bash people
he's one of those people who u almost wish would lose everything so they could see their illusion of being better than others is just that
he's really helpful and cool when it comes to work though so its a trip because its like... u have a person whose actions are cool but their attitude and words are awful
but what's crazy is i've dealt with this my whole life.. so its nothing new
anyway i'm out for now.. i'm kinda tired of typing at the moment
she can say it and get a bunch of thumbs up but i say it and i'm hating on women, right?
netflix and chill, no strings attached, friends with benefits, situationships
its all whoredom and its not leading women any place they actually want to be
my mom wanted the whole family to see black panther today so i agreed to go
i'm not really a movie guy but i agreed for the sake of family
the movie was pretty good, i just want to talk about an issue i had with the outing
my sister showed up late and didn't sit by us... she came in when it was dark and likely didn't see us.. but even then she should have texted to find our position
if you show up late and u don't sit by us it defeats the purpose of a family outing
i just feel like my sister's priorities are out of whack
what else was she doing? like its saturday so where are you? also you knew ahead of time so why can't you arrive on time?
its frustrating to see her act this way time and time again.. she always acts as if she has something better on her agenda than family
even at thanksgiving and things, she is always late
this is not a diss to her, its just me expressing my disappointment in my safe space where i can vent
i just don't like what her actions say
we have thanksgiving and she's late
we have family outing and she doesn't sit by us
we're all at home talking but she's in a room somehwere on the phone
i go to her house and her kids are there but she isn't
this type of stuff has meaning and these things add up.. this irreverent behavior imo is why she isn't married anymore
but who am i?
i'm just chronically single james sittin on the sidelines right?
its really disappointing to see her do things like this time and time again.. its deeper than just those moments, its her priorities in general.. the word i want to use to describe her is "silly" and not the cute silly
but she's my sister and i know ultimately i just need to keep her in prayer
i believe there is a connection between women who say stupid things like "put me in my place" and women who were never spanked as children
they never got boundaries growing up, but deep down somewhere inside they knew they needed them and so when they become adults they crave some type of "discipline" from you
the problem is that as a man you want to love your woman, not police her or have a parent-child relationship with her where you have to continually wrestle her back down
of course you want her to grow so there is some grooming you will do to bring your woman to a place where she's the best she can be.. but when a woman is actively saying things like "i want you to put me in my place" this is a sign that she either doesn't know the boundaries, and needs you to constantly tend to her inevitable foolishness, or she does know the boundaries but REFUSES to abide by the laws of decency without your active prompting
if you run into a woman who says something like "i need a guy who can handle me" or "i want a man to put me in my place" it likely means she did not get spanked enough as a child and she is out of control
one easy way to tell is her mouth
if her mouth is out of control then so are her actions (whether you see them or not)
if a woman has a foul mouth and you have to try and "remind" her to have class, then she is a cold hearted whore... (i put remind in quotation marks because she is most likely merely acting like she doesn't know right from wrong but the fact is she DOESN'T CARE about right and wrong)
these women will naturally lack humility, they're entitled, they will be argumentative, and they will lack accountability.. they will also be promiscuous whether you have seen it or not- they are promiscuous
if you get with a woman like this she will not give you peace.. she will only be submissive during sex which means she is actually only good for sex
this brings me to another point........ when you hear a woman say "guys only want sex" you should be careful because oftentimes that means: "i'm only a tolerable woman during sex and maybe for a little while afterward.. the rest of the time i'm a controlling, masculine, gremlin jezebel, and a vindictive, nagging, complaining demon who wants to put you on a constant rollercoaster ride of trying to please me with my everchanging wants and desires"
again.... steer clear of any woman who says she never got spanked or whooped or beat .. she is useless (except for one thing)
these women don't have real relationships they just have short term or long term sex partners.. these are the women who will tell you they're single and you wonder why she never seems to "connect" with you.. it's because of one of two things..
1. she is withholding things from you (secrets, lies, her true intentions)
2. she is in a sexual relationship.. she is too short-sighted to see that the sex she is having with the hidden guy is ruining any potential connection she could have with the guy who is marriage-minded
i really used to wonder why some women seemed cold and they remained cold no matter what you did.. but i was assuming these women were actually single
these days i think women will tell you they are single when it really means "i am having sex whenever i want but i'm not in a relationship"
newsflash u hollow-headed sperm magnet.. you're not single if you're having sex
their own whoredom keeps them from having the ability to form a connection
so anyway.... i got a little off topic but stay away from females who were not properly disciplined as children because they will want you to be their pseudo father.. the problem with this is they will naturally (acting in a child-like role) LACK ACCOUNTABILITY (and of course it would be nice if "child-like" meant submissive.. but no.. it just means lacking self control)
this will bring about a plethora of problems, don't be the guy saying "i'll be the one to help her!" because trust me she will bring you down before you bring her up
stay away from this woman i've described because she is a foul whore
have you ever seen farrah abraham from teen mom? that is an example of a woman who has enablers as parents who never properly disciplined her.. you see the fruit of all of this in her actions... again.. this is a woman who has shown time and time again she is only good for sex
and for any guy thinking i'm too harsh.... take a quick look in your mental rolodex of idiotic former girlfriends... am i lying?
this (below) was a comment i left on youtube in response to this guy who made a video against mgtow
i just wanted to post it because i think what i said is important.. we can't oversimplify the issue
in his comment he was hitting me with that whole "women are bad but men are bad too!" crap
read on to see why that argument doesn't hold up
i was respectful to him but i had to keep it a buck also:
I have respect for you and your walk with Christ, and i appreciate your discourse here. I don't want to rebuttal, i just want to explain where i think we differ in our beliefs. I think one place where we differ in belief is you say "women are bad but men are bad too" While i wholeheartedly agree with that, i believe it's a bit of an oversimplification. Women have been indoctrinated by society's default feminist ideals for over 40 years.. in the 50s you could say "men and women both have issues" but in 2018 its more like: "yes, men have issues but women have gone off the deep end"
Why? because men didn't have 40 years of public indoctrination telling us how not to be good to the opposing gender, but women have had that.. its on tv and movies and in the colleges and its not fun trying to deal with their programming man.. women as a whole are not normal anymore.. my last g/f argued with me about EVERYTHING.. they LITERALLY believe being difficult is a good thing.. i never said men don't have issues and sins, we totally do! but women have been deceived on a mass level.
Let me give a quick example, tell 3 men they should love their wives. They will likely agree. But tell 3 women they should submit to their husbands and get ready for world war 3!!!!!
true or not?