have you ever noticed how much modern women praise men who act like women and women who act like men?
they promote this crap and cheer it on nonstop in everything gay men are modern women's best friend and biggest sources of entertainment or comedic relief and women who act like men, or rule over men, or who emasculate men, or who just plain defy good men are modern women's heroes
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a guy on youtube asked the question.. "have u lost any friends since you took the red pill?"
i thought that was a good question so i left a comment.. i figured i'd share my answer here too i'm not posting my whole comment, but here's about half of it in a sense maybe some people would say i've lost friends after becoming red pilled but in my mind i just feel like i've lost neediness... when the red pill fully digested and went through my system i realized i was trying to hold on to people who really didn't care about me.. even my own sister.. whenever i spoke to my sister i always thought she was keeping me at a distance in her life.. and i even went to her house once and she scolded her kids for "opening the door" ... i'm their uncle so i was offended by this but i didn't say anything... but after the red pill i just don't bother with her anymore.. i don't deal with being treated like i don't belong.. she can do whatever she wants, i don't try to stop her from making bad decisions or anything i just don't care anymore.. its like i've just gotten a new self respect where if i'm not accepted fully then i don't bother so the red pill imo is great.. i don't feel like i've lost friends i feel that i've lost neediness (which leads to personal compromise) and gained self respect one minute, they're caping for darker shades and saying they're proud to be black the next minute they have colored contacts, blonde hair, a nose job, and bleached skin a lot of this nonsense is a byproduct of women finding themselves unable to keep a man once they realize they can't keep a man they think they need to change something about their looks.. they think "men must like women who look different from me" or "i must not be pretty enough to keep a man" i have said before.. if you are able to get dates then YOU ALREADY LOOK GOOD ENOUGH but if you get dates and can't keep them around THEN YOUR PERSONALITY IS THE PROBLEM this makes me wonder, why don't women get it? how many times do we have to say the same things to them? how many times do we have to say be submissive to your man? how many times do we have to say show your man respect? how many times do we have to say stop being promiscuous? how many times do we have to say stop being argumentative? like how many times and how many ways do they want us to say these things? how long will these women need to be on the conveyor belt of new relationships that ultimately go nowhere before they realize the way they act is what is keeping men from committing to them? how many guys do they need to date before they realize we don't want to put up with their mouth and their crazy irrationality and instability for the rest of our lives if we men have to sacrifice our sanity and/or manhood to be with you then guess what? YOU WILL ULTIMATELY BE ALONE!!!!!! its not always about the color of your eyes or how big your butt is or the shade of your skin!!!!!! why do women not get this? how many times can we say "don't be contentious?" how many times do we have to say "feminism is cancer" before they actually hear it and act like real women? we keep on saying the same things over and over and women just don't hear it looks are nice, i'm not going to lie about that.. but looks aren't everything as a woman you have a role to play.. it's called helper.. if you are a hindrance YOU. WILL. BE. ALONE. i was thinking about something concerning my ex g/f that i wanted to get off my chest
basically it's like this.. one thing i've noticed about women is they will sometimes say they want something, but the reason they want it a lot of times won't be obvious.. it'll be deceptive one example i've used before is your daughter may say she wants to eat at mcdonald's for dinner, but the truth is she just wants to go there because some guy she likes works there i just want to talk about a time when i think my ex did this to me i believe she did this to me when she used to say she didn't want to live in my city "spring hill" because "there's too many white people" i used to think that was stupid because spring hill is a really nice area, almost every building is new, there's almost no crime, people are friendly, anything you could need is here, there are good schools, no nearby prisons or toxic waste dumps or anything.. there isn't even a traffic problem so i thought.. who cares if black people are the minority here when its such a nice area? but here's what i realized: "there's not enough black people here" actually meant "there aren't enough people here i could potentially replace you with" we all know how much women like attention, and we know they don't want to be accountable for their actions.. so living in an area with more black men in her mind likely meant "relationship security" if i said something she didn't like she would have someone she met in a grocery store on standby.. if i told her no when she wanted a yes she could just call up the flirty guy who gave her an oil change the week prior basically "there's not enough black people in spring hill" really meant "i can't replace you as easily here as i could in a place with more black people" or "i can't talk to other guys as easily here as i could somewhere else" one crazy thing is my ex g/f chose to live in a more hood type of area and then she kept complaining that someone was breaking into her house and taking dumps in her toilet when she was gone.. one day she said she woke up and the tv was on when she specifically remembered turning it off before she went to sleep i filed a police report, and she bought an alarm to put on her door, and so you would think she would see this and say "maybe james was right, maybe the safety of the suburban area is more important than the diversity of where i currently live" but no... why? because if you're a female who is two hours away from where you grew up- which would you choose.. the part of town where you go to the store and get what you want and come back home? or the part of town where you go to the store and 4 or 5 guys compliment you, flirt with you, and ask for your number before you get home? i believe since all her backup men were technically two hours away, she wanted opportunities to build up more of an archive of standbys and backups here having men who are legitimately checking for her was like a way to keep the "upperhand" in our relationship.. that is how women keep the status of "the one in the relationship who cares the least" ...having nearby backups was important to her because it's a roundabout way to escape accountability and to always have an out you wonder why you get in an argument with your girl and she seems unaffected, its because she knows she's going to use it as an opportunity to date someone else this is how women escape learning and growth during moments where they should be thinking about how to work with their man, they instead just frolick with a new one so what do u all think? am i on track here? was it really about diversity or was it about options and opportunity? so this is just a reminder to all men, to remember to think about your girl's true motives/desires because they can truly be deceptive i posted this as a comment on youtube and i decided to post it here because i think its important
the guy on the video said he envied that women can just "turn their feelings off" i don't agree with that i think there are factors involved with that women want us to believe they are "unbothered" .. they have an innate sense that making us feel like we have had absolutely no impact in their lives makes us feel small, and they like to play on that whether its by comparing us to other men, or by saying we have small penises, or by leaving us and posting "happy" pictures with the new bae the next day anyway.. let me just post the comment i wrote and dip out.. u all see if u agree with me on this or not: i'm not quite done with this video yet but i must say i disagree that women can just turn their feelings off.. imo that is their whole illusion.. if there was an actual real breakup and she didn't have a new guy then she would have a normal reaction to the breakup.. like sadness and thoughts, maybe some tears etc.. but the thing women do is as soon as a relationship looks like its getting worse they start packing their bags and securing other guys on the low.. so by the time there's a real issue and a breakup ensues, she just transitions to the other guy.. or even if she doesn't have a backup or standby, chances are she can get one quickly (emphasis on quickly.. she can literally get a compliment at the gas station wednesday and be in a hotel room friday) so what we are seeing looks like they don't care, but that's not true.. it's just that their fear of being alone (coupled with their plethora of options and lack of humility and accountability) causes them to move on to the next guy even if its just a rebound.. but if women actually had to be alone the way a lot of us men have to after a breakup (because we don't have 10 other women waiting to be with us) then they would show that they do have feelings and pain, we would hear them actually apologize and see them put forth genuine effort to try to make it work, the reason we don't is because they just replace us immediately through chance encounters with men, guys who compliment them on social media, or the 10 ex b/fs they have in their cell phone of course women want to paint it like they don't care and don't have feelings but the truth is they just have so many options that they oftentimes don't have to check themselves, they can remain in pride, they don't have to apologize, and they don't have to mourn a relationship, they can just immediately distract themselves with a new one update a few hours later: the guy who made the video felt what i said i'm so glad he recorded this, because this is legitimately how women act this is how they really treat us.. they treat us like crap this might as well have been me talking to my ex.. this type of exchange is SO familiar.. the only diff is if this was my ex she would've had a rebuttal and a blameshift for everything.. some things they definitely have in common are: playing dumb, being disrespectful, and answering questions with questions this is why stuff like mgtow exists any woman looking at this.. do u all think this is acceptable to a man who is interested in you? is this type of behavior ok to you for a man who treats you well and is giving and attentive to you? THIS IS WHY WE ARE DONE
sometimes i feel like i'm too different to be considered normal in this society and stuff like this confirms it cuz time and time again i find that what is normal to the majority is actually ridiculous for anyone who doesn't know, there's this thing called the 80/20 rule
the 80/20 rule says that 80% of women want 20% of men i thought about it in terms of narcs and empaths under no circumstance would it surprise me that 80% of women are narcissistic and 20% of men are narcissistic (i honestly think it could be 90% of women and 10% of men or even 95% of women and 5% of men...... but let's just stick to 80/20 for the purpose of argument) so my question is.. is the 80/20 rule showing that women only want the top 20% of men with money, status, body, etc? or is it essentially just a reflection of the fact that narcs only want other narcs? just something to think about |
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