i posted this as a comment on youtube and i decided to post it here because i think its important
the guy on the video said he envied that women can just "turn their feelings off" i don't agree with that i think there are factors involved with that women want us to believe they are "unbothered" .. they have an innate sense that making us feel like we have had absolutely no impact in their lives makes us feel small, and they like to play on that whether its by comparing us to other men, or by saying we have small penises, or by leaving us and posting "happy" pictures with the new bae the next day anyway.. let me just post the comment i wrote and dip out.. u all see if u agree with me on this or not: i'm not quite done with this video yet but i must say i disagree that women can just turn their feelings off.. imo that is their whole illusion.. if there was an actual real breakup and she didn't have a new guy then she would have a normal reaction to the breakup.. like sadness and thoughts, maybe some tears etc.. but the thing women do is as soon as a relationship looks like its getting worse they start packing their bags and securing other guys on the low.. so by the time there's a real issue and a breakup ensues, she just transitions to the other guy.. or even if she doesn't have a backup or standby, chances are she can get one quickly (emphasis on quickly.. she can literally get a compliment at the gas station wednesday and be in a hotel room friday) so what we are seeing looks like they don't care, but that's not true.. it's just that their fear of being alone (coupled with their plethora of options and lack of humility and accountability) causes them to move on to the next guy even if its just a rebound.. but if women actually had to be alone the way a lot of us men have to after a breakup (because we don't have 10 other women waiting to be with us) then they would show that they do have feelings and pain, we would hear them actually apologize and see them put forth genuine effort to try to make it work, the reason we don't is because they just replace us immediately through chance encounters with men, guys who compliment them on social media, or the 10 ex b/fs they have in their cell phone of course women want to paint it like they don't care and don't have feelings but the truth is they just have so many options that they oftentimes don't have to check themselves, they can remain in pride, they don't have to apologize, and they don't have to mourn a relationship, they can just immediately distract themselves with a new one update a few hours later: the guy who made the video felt what i said
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