what she is saying here is SOOOOO real i don't agree with her bisexuality, but what she's saying about women is so real
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i posted this comment on youtube about women being a hindrance instead of a help today and i like what this guy commented after me.. thought i'd post it
Cloud Air2 days ago according to the bible women are supposed to be a helper to us but unfortunately today they are a hindrance Dark Magician56 minutes ago Cloud Air That's an instant red flag for me. Masculine women aren't going to use their drive to fit your mold and help you reach your goals, they are trying to mold you so that you do that for them. Relationships in western cultures are basically the opposite of the natural order. one thing that bothers me about women today is they take a man's desire to make them happy and stab him with it
so what happens is a man's natural sacrificial type of love gets taken advantage of and trampled on instead of appreciated in the 50s, sacrificing for a woman was cool because she was submissive and loyal and she did her part.. today you sacrifice and a woman makes u into a simp by just complaining that you should do more than what you're currently doing and she can even make a fool of u by not even being faithful to you while you're out there working and sacrificing for her so with that said i want to share what to look for.. tips on how to know when your efforts are being lost on the wrong woman these tips should help you to avoid being deemed a simp (these are some notes i wrote down so i'm just sharing it today) sacrificing for a woman is fine.. the place where it falls apart and the man is taken advantage of is when he is met with ungratefulness, unwillingnes to follow, or an unwillingness to give/reciprocate that's what i wanted to share so any men.. if you begin seeing any of those 3 things.. you are leaving "love" territory and moving into "toxic relationship" territory if you see one of those things i just mentioned.. drop her.. you are worth more than that.. and i'm not saying that superficially.. i mean seriously if you are doing for her then she should not be ungrateful, unwilling to follow your lead, or unwilling to give back to you or reciprocate so those are the things to look for to see if your sacrifice is bordering on simping btw.. this just popped in my head, if she is unable to take a "no" then that's another bad sign these are some notes i took down.. i think they're pretty good so i decided to share them here.
1. empath wants peace with spouse and lives by golden rule 2. narc sees empath's devotion/dedication and interprets it as they have no boundaries (backbone) 3. narc begins pressing buttons to see where boundaries are 4. empath gets upset and asks narc to stop (to empath this is a boundary) 5. narc doesn'tsee it as a boundary they see it as a "games" because to them the empath's request for them to stop is a suggestion since it doesn't come with any type of "do this or else" sentiment (there is no underlying threat or consequence) 6. empath doesn't give "or else" because they want to remain in the rel. and don't want to "rock the boat" especially since given the circumstances they are already likely feeling insecure in their position.. but this is picked up on by the narc which is why they never take the empath seriously 7. empath must learn the difference between a request and a command (or asking and telling) i saw this on a comment section on youtube.. apparently its from tom leykis
its a list of dont's for men.. it was longer than this but i removed the ones i didn't like i thought these were pretty good though and worth sharing the heading was: rules all men should live by Never do what you don't want to do. Don't ask a women what she wants to do. Never tell a women how much money you make. Never date a single mother. Never answer the phone on the weekend. Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. Never approach a woman who has her girlfriends with her. ok now that i posted them i want to talk quickly about them from my experience Never do what you don't want to do. because doing so actively removes you out of your comfort zone, out of independence/masculinity, and out of the leadership position Don't ask a women what she wants to do. you think you're being polite but women view it as you being "too weak to make a decision" .. ultimately she is wrong and you are right, but why try to explain quantum physics to a child? just accept the fact that this is how she sees it because it makes things easier especially if your girl is young or has disney expectations of what a man is Never tell a women how much money you make. if you do, she will first compare your salary to her own, if she makes more she will lose interest and respect.. if you make more then she will compare your salary to other men's who are within her reach which is most likely of course another bad thing for you.. also she will not respect you for sharing information because women like a man who is "mysterious" so when you freely share information you get placed low on the totem pole.. finally.. she will not think of you as being in the process of working on your career- she will likely look at you for where you are today and put you in a box/category.. this is the same concept behind that old mike jones song "back then they didn't want me, now i'm hot and they all on me" Never date a single mother. if you are a single male with financial freedom and no children then you are needlessly selling yourself short by doing this.. you should use your freedom as leverage to get a woman who doesn't already have children by another man.. you want to be the king of your castle you don't want another man having a say on what goes on in your home and you don't want your woman saying "this is my child" as opposed to our child.. you have the ability to be the coveted TRADITIONAL patriarch/husband, but she is no longer the corresponding traditional woman, so don't waste your time Never answer the phone on the weekend. women devalue men who are "too available" ..the reason for this is because women look at things from the standpoint of social cues and assumptions.. they oftentimes see things through lenses of "weak and strong" "high value low value" "high status low status" they have a limited capacity to see a thing for its intrinsic value to themselves, they see a thing through how society largely sees the thing.. which is why people say women are social creatures.. with that said, being "too available" is another social cue where women will say "he has nothing going on, no one is checking for him so why should i?" Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. in my opinion you could actually lower that dollar amount.. women don't appreciate effort, they value the interaction itself- so don't go into it thinking effort equals appreciation.. if you do its likely only a matter of time before you end up angry at what you will perceive as a blatant lack of reciprocation Never approach a woman who has her girlfriends with her. this could work if you are high status- because it would trigger the competition and jealousy thing in women... but if you are regular status they are likely to attempt to pick you apart to her when you leave and/or emasculate you to your face when you're there this was a pretty good discourse.. just thought i'd share.. these are comments from youtube
i'm cloud air... this guy greg has some on point thoughts for sure the original comment by "Daniel" said: "crazy girls are the equivalent to men of women's bad boys" Greg Campbelle4 weeks ago I don't agree with that. The quote on quote "bad boys" that many young and immature girls are attracted to, to spite their fathers, are not nearly as dangerous to a women as crazy chicks are to man. Physical violence is of course a concern for women, but she has the entire weight of the system stacked in her favor, and it is not as prevalent as the mental abuse and destructive, crippling behavior that comes hand in hand with every crazy chick, and the physical violence against men happens almost a frequent from psycho chicks. Most women who go through their "bad boy" stage have to deal at most with pump and dump, a deadbeat who uses her, or maybe he knocks her around a little bit, but he is not generally emotionally attached to her or the relationship in the way a crazy chick is, nor does he possess the vindictive, spiteful and evil nature of the crazy chick and the encounter has less lasting consequences for her. Like the coach says, a crazy chick can absolutely be the end of a man with good intentions. Yes some naive women pay the ultimate toll when they burn the coal or lay with some other criminal douchebag, but it doesn't happen nearly as often as a simple naive man having his life simply ruined by a psycho crazy chick. Show lessREPLY 'Cloud Air1 day ago Greg I agree.. i especially like "nor does he possess the vindictive, spiteful and evil nature of the crazy chick" .. SO true.. my crazy narcissistic ex g/f seemed to take everything i said as an insult and so she was always trying to "get me back" for some perceived slight that wasn't even real.. i remember one time i corrected her on something she said that was wrong when we were on the way to dinner at a restaurant, and when we sat down she didn't speak to me the whole time.. i almost can't express how much that hurt- to take someone out and have them just eat food you bought and act like you're not even there.. they are demonic.. i would never deal with that again.. that "relationship" was nothing short of traumatic.... they use your love for them against you Show lessREPLY Greg Campbelle5 minutes ago That is exactly what they do. They use your love for them against you. All women do this really, since they can't seem to reciprocate love in the same way that men understand it, but the crazy chick does this without any semblance of a governor. She's literally a bomb ready to detonate. It IS almost what we might call demonic in the total chaos and destruction that literally revel in unleashing. I woke up in the middle of the night in the spare bedroom, to my soon to be ex wife holding a knife to my throat whisper growling "Why don't you love me?", with our young kids literally feet away down the hall. This was after she had already cheated on me, had told me that I no longer turned her on, that I wasn't a man, that she hated my guts yadda yadda yadda etc and then laughed and called me pathetic when I cried. She wasn't even what I would call your total crazy chick. Lord knows she had her moments, but I've seen much crazier than her before and since. It is no joke when I say that every single horror movie I ever saw about demonic possession flashed before my eyes in that moment. One of my friends said that when he found out his wife was cheating on him, her entire personality and even her facial features seemed to almost change. He said it was the creepiest thing he has ever witnessed in his life. Like who is this, or rather what the hell is this? I just told him, brother, they are chameleons. Show lessREPLY this is what women are today what disgusts me is how she acts "cutesy" and like submissive and agreeable and giggly but she probably treated her husband like crap
this is literally how women are, they submit to the guy who just uses them for sex, but the guy who truly cares about them gets used as an emotional punching bag the guy who just wants to use her as a slut is treated as a king and the guy who wants to honor her with commitment and protection gets nothing but complaints and abuse i just need to get this off my chest
why do women always talk about how men need to be leaders? how can a man be a leader to you if you're always saying things like: "i'm independent" or "i'm grown" or "i don't need a man" ??? if you aren't going to get on board with a man then why tell men they don't lead? seriously what does that even mean? "my body my choice, i can have an abortion if i want" "i can have sex with whoever i want, i have needs" "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" women have continually established the fact that they don't care to listen to us, they don't care to be submissive, they don't care to be wives and mothers, they would rather have friends with benefits and abort their children or become single mothers... time and time again women have told us this verbally as well as with their actions yet and still- they have the nerve to complain about MGTOW they have no business talking about "men need to lead" when they don't have a mind to follow.. even when there is provision and protection in it for them- they still don't have a mind to follow, so WHY ARE THEY ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HOW "MEN NEED TO LEAD!!!!" LEAD WHAT!? LEAD WHAT!? YOU DENSE FEMINIST WHORE? LEAD WHAT!? This entry is for anyone who has wondered why women attempt to gaslight so much
It definitely seems like most women in the dating pool have narcissistic tendencies, and narcs are basically crazy Gaslighting is a form of lying.. its telling someone their reality is different from what it actually is, this is used to manipulate people and break them down and “mold” them into how you want them to be Ok so with those out of the way here’s what I want to say The reason why women gaslight so much is because it is a direct deflection of the fact that they are crazy For example In my last relationship I would say normal things like: “would you stop rolling your eyes at me?” “would you stop telling me about how much you like Puerto rican guys?” or even something as simple as “you don’t need to lose weight I like your body the way it is” normal responses to these things would be like acknowledging that what I’m saying is valid and then responding accordingly however I would be gaslighted (told my reality was incorrect and I was dysfunctional) and my requests were never addressed and I was subsequently insulted so it was like this: “would you stop rolling your eyes at me?” “I give what I get” “when do I roll my eyes at you?” “that’s not for me to explain, u figure it out” there you can see that instead of acknowledging her own dysfunction in the form of an attitude problem that expressed itself in eye rolling, she instead told me that I was the problem.. even with no evidence so that’s what I mean when I say that gaslighting is oftentimes a deflection of the fact that they have issues or they are crazy or they are impulsive or they have bad habits so this is why they do it.. because they do not want to be held accountable for their actions next example: “would you stop telling me about how much you like Puerto rican guys?” “you’re overreacting again” “you make me feel like I’m last on the totem pole in your life” “you’re so dramatic” (note these scenarios actually happened, none of these scenarios are made up) so here you see instead of acknowledging that what she was saying was hurtful to me, she just told me I was dysfunctional in how I saw it there is no way to deal with a person like this.. this is why mgtow is a thing- because many women are narcissistic today and many men have come to realize they aren’t worth the effort anymore there is no way to deal with someone who blames you for their transgressions if it was a child you would just beat them but women are adults for example.. say your child stole something you tell your kid to stop stealing and they say “well I wouldn’t steal if you would just buy me what I want” that’s how modern women are… and there’s nothing you can do except save yourself the headache and get away from them I remember I said “you don’t need to lose weight I like your body the way it is” and she yelled at me saying “you never support me, you only care about yourself blah blah blah” I mean she went on and on I remember that was one of the first days where I realized something was abnormal about her because many women would have been happy to know their boyfriend likes them just the way they are But she found fault in everything She would diss me for everything it seemed like So the gaslighting there was “you’re totally selfish james!” as opposed to “he likes me how I am” ..why? because they want to change your reality and force you into a bad guy role so they can be a victim Gaslighting is a distraction from the fact that they are crazy Let me say it again: GASLIGHTING IS A DISTRACTION FROM THE FACT THAT THEY ARE CRAZY to them its a relief from themselves.. a moment of respite, to place blame on someone else instead of deal with their plethora of problems.. to you its a toxic oppression and a pulling of the wool over your eyes to who you're truly dealing with Think about it like this Say you don’t study and you keep getting low grades on tests So one day a classmate comes up to you and says: “hey why do u keep getting bad grades?” and your response is something like: “the teacher plays favorites” that’s what these women are like they would rather throw someone else under the bus than face the fact that they have issues they need to work on they have an attitude problem, they don’t know what men are about, they have no respect for men, they have a chip on their shoulder, they lack self control, they are mean spirited, they don’t trust, they have buried their ability to love and they call it “protecting their heart” etc etc all of their negative traits get thrown onto you because they refuse to face them the person who has been getting bad grades should say: “I don’t study and don’t care to” as opposed to “the teacher is biased” but look… this is why they can’t tell the truth.. because they don’t want to tell you “I’m crazy” “I can’t control myself” “I am damaged goods” “I’m unstable” etc to you as a man, you would appreciate a direct response like that because it would explain why they act the way they act and then give you a choice on whether you want to stay and help or not but they won’t be honest, instead they will just treat you like dirt and expect you to be a mind reader.. they expect you to somehow see that her rolling her eyes at you is a direct result of being hurt by some man 10 yrs prior so anyway.. I just wanted to point this out, the reason they gaslight is to distract from their own dysfunction and the reason they don’t tell you the truth is because it would amount to an admission of personal issues and problems its like telling someone: "crap, i must've left my wallet at home" as opposed to saying “I am unemployed and broke” by saying “my wallet is at home” its like saying “I have the money” but the reality is they don’t similarly, when women say: “I only do this because you do that” its like saying “I have the capacity to treat you right” BUT THE REALITY IS….. THEY DON’T women say “I treat you like crap because you treat me like crap” when the reality is.. they treat you like crap because they have no love, integrity, accountability, they’re selfish, they’re full of pride and arrogance, and they don’t care about your wellbeing so i hope this helps to explain the reasons for gaslighting.. ultimately, it comes down to- admit you are crazy and dysfunctional, or gaslight and women being much more image-conscious than men are very likely to gaslight ace made a good point about how women speak to us with the intent to invalidate and destabilize us (my ex did this to me constantly)
then i made a point about women being backwards.. so true about modern women |
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