I ran across this guy's channel today.. I thought I'd post this for any men who may not have seen his channel.. any mgtow men or men going through something with women- give this guy's channel a listen.. he's got a lot of truth here.. and the other thing I like about him that stands out is he tells his personal issues he has had with women some of these guys talk like superheroes who never had a bad situation with a woman.. but this guy tells the whole truth, not only on a societal level, but on a personal level and that is a valuable thing imo
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i kid you not, i literally woke up this morning thinking.. "why should i even keep writing on my site?" i was thinking "james, u get no comments and you get no compensation... yeah you enjoy writing but you also want to help people but it seems like no one cares" and i kid you not.. right after that i ran across a video which snapped me RIGHT out of it in this video, the guy refers to a comment i left on a previous video he did (i am cloud air) i actually wrote about this guy's first video on my site so i will leave a link to that entry as well as my original comments on his video
his original video consisted of him saying he was leaving mgtow and all the reasons why he was going to make it work with his wife again.. so in my comment i took some of his quotes and broke them down a bit here is the main comment i left on his video that he is referring to here: dude this isnt sounding too good 1. “your actions make it or destroy it” 2. “you have to bend” let me speak on these statements: 1. your actions dont always mean anything.. if treating women well worked then mgtow wouldnt exist.. mgtow is full of men who displayed good actions but were repayed with attitude, infidelity, and disrespect 2. bending is a problem for many reasons A. you’re the man so she is supposed to do the bending, not you.. if ur saying u need to bend thats a sign that your woman isnt submissive B. women live in a gray area while men live in a black and white.. if u join her in her gray area she will repay u with disrespect and tell u “ur not a leader” thats what women do.. they nag u to get u to do something and once u finally do it, they diss u for it- so u might as well just stick to your guns C. even if bending was ok- women take it too far.. they are too controlling, u bend a little next thing u know they got u bending over backwards with a banana in your anus while telling jokes.. women dont have a natural sense of limits.. overall u sound like ur in a bad position man.. i want things to work for u but u sound like u have went back to the plantation.. if she didnt come back saying “i will do better” then im not sure itll work.. she needs to do her part.. she cant just get in an argument with u and call another dude and say “we’re on a break” or “we’re separated” .. she needs to really be committed to you here is the second comment i left on that same video: did she have sex with any guys during the separation? why does she want to come back now? what changed? now here's a link to when i wrote about him on my site.. i wrote about him on my site right after i had left those comments on his video (this link will show his original video also) http://poolboyjames.weebly.com/2018/leaving-mgtow-good-luck-with-that overall, i'm really happy to see that something i said has helped someone to see the true nature of what is going on! i really do write a lot of my comments and commentary hoping that it helps someone.. i think many men are blindsided when they realize women treat relationships like warzones, so i hope i can help to equip more men with the knowledge they need! this is amazing, i'm so happy to see i helped someone! that means a lot since he has shown me appreciation i hope to keep him in my prayers and i hope the Lord blesses him and prospers him! I heard a short clip of this on a podcast.. I thought it was catchy so I looked it up by typing in the words in google.. after listening to it, all I have to say is- wow amazing! things men used to have but no longer have:
1. rite of passage / coming of age ritual .. this only exists in the modern day now for jewish people in the form of a bar mitzvah.. no wonder there is what people call an "extended childhood" today.. no one recognizes that a man is a man at all, let alone recognizing who a man is and what a man does 2. patrilineal inheritance.. male children used to receive an inheritance of property or something of value when they would leave home 3. dowry.. a woman's family gave something to a man when he married their daughter- this was to help him to provide for their daughter 4. women of virtue.. pure women were trained to be good wives and given to men as a reward to them for coming of age, or being respectable/honorable men.. today women are just whores with foul mouths, and even if a man wants to love one- he can't... take it from me, i tried to love my ex g/f but you can't love someone who argues with everything you say, is full of lies and deceit, is vindictive, has emotional issues, compares you to other men, is ungrateful, etc.. you literally can't do it.. it doesn't matter how hard you try 5. respect .. media shows men as bumbling idiots who can't do anything right- life ends up imitating art in many ways 6. an identity .. women (with help of the media) are constantly doing this "anything a man can do, a woman can do better" thing.. its meant to strip men of any sense of identity or self worth 7. motivation.. if you don't have money, you don't have respect, your woman is used up and/or disloyal, and you have no identity.. how can you really have motivation? after a while men look around and say "what am i doing all of this for?" you have a knight in shining armor fighting battles, but there is no prize.. after a while morale will just leave the building- once this happens women are on their own men have been stripped of the things that have defined us.. we have been stripped of the tools we've traditionally used to maintain not only ourselves and our positions, but also our families guys like me have pretty much given up on everything.. what is the point? you feel like you're on a hamster wheel -you work and still have debt -you get advanced degrees and still are disrespected -you treat women well and they treat you like dirt -you are given nothing, yet everything is expected of you i ran across this and man....... kirk franklin is just gay... you can't be straight and be like this... when i see him, i see the same spirit that's on ne-yo and tyler perry i just had to post this because this is just crazy, like if anyone takes him seriously as a gospel artist then they are deceived this is just fruity behavior.. i mean, prince wouldn't have even been caught doing this kind of stuff! even just the fact that i'm sure kirk thought this was funny- even THAT is gay because this is the type of thing women laugh at.. so even his sense of humor is that of a female its like how you see women taking those snap chat pictures with bunny ears and dog faces and they seem to think its cute and funny but as a guy you just think "wow i thought you were an adult" .. as a man you would never join them in those stupid animal selfies because you're above it.. and a grown man like this should be above this behavior unless he is gay.. i mean this just reeks of attention seeking anyway... dude needs serious help smh I just want to get this off my chest
When I was with my ex I used to tell my parents about how she was always doing something rude, or disrespectful, or crazy, and they constantly found ways to tell me it was my responsibility to change her or her bad behavior was my fault because I forgot to do this or that or didn’t make her comfortable enough or blah blah blah basically I was the bad guy and my ex was perfect.. that was always the narrative.. even my ex would tell you the same if she could So basically I would look to them for some type of validation or guidance but I was just being told it was all my fault.. because they tend to have this belief that I’m crazy or I’m chauvinist or I hate women etc I don’t hate women I just think modern women are out of line.. I want them to be traditional.. I want a biblical type of woman, not a strong independent feminist whore with a foul mouth and disrespectful attitude I treat women really well- that’s what people don’t understand about me.. I don’t use women.. how can I use a woman when I don’t even have sex? All I do is date them hoping we will have enough good times and peace to lead to marriage where I can take care of them but they typically end up being a huge disappointment in the end So anyway.. they continually told me to go back in the ring of that relationship and get my anus handed to me I finally at some point came to the conclusion that they don’t listen to me and so I gave up and stopped trusting them.. I didn’t stop trusting them in a vindictive type of way or in a way like “I don’t trust anything about you” … but I stopped trusting them to A. hear me and B. give me good advice But here’s the thing The other day, like two days ago.. my mom was actually acting like she understood me for the first time I don’t know where this came from.. I’m not sure if my mom had a talk with my sister about me or what, but for the first time, my mom was actually acting like she understood that the relationship was painful and I didn’t ruin it, sabotage it, or throw the baby out with the bathwater.. it was more like there was no baby in the bathwater and the bathwater was scalding hot and nearly burned all my skin off lol my mom even said to me “you know james I never told you this but remember when she kept saying someone was breaking into her apartment? I never believed that.. none of it made any sense I never believed that for a moment” I was thankful she tried to finally for once offer some type of understanding and open up, but this is like over a year too late why did my mom never say that back then? I’m not mad, maybe she felt like I would have attacked her, but hearing it now just kinda makes me feel like I was left out to dry back when I was in the middle of that crazy relationship like now you act like you understand me? Now you tell me you think she was lying about something? I’m not mad at my parents at all, but I’m just saying like.. I could’ve used some understanding, or validation, or warnings when I was going through all of that stuff Some peeps held me down.. 4 people held me down during that time.. kb, devon, jacquetta, and bro bolden all gave me good advice and listened to a brotha My parents just didn’t though.. they didn’t have my back.. and again I’m not mad at them AT ALL, I love them all the same I’m not upset with them on any level.. ultimately the whole bad relationship with my ex was my fault, so I’m not blaming my parents.. I just wanted to get this off my chest It just feels crazy to not get validation for so long from someone and then one day out of the blue u get some My guess is my sister spoke to my mom about how I felt though because recently I told my sister that I felt like my parents didn’t believe anything I said Anyway.. just wanted to speak on it holla in this entry i want to say a few random things
++++++++ i have a job interview tomorrow and i'm thinking about going out and trying to find some clothes to buy so i can look my best i haven't had any extra money lately but if i get this job it'll fix that problem i think i'm going to get the job ++++++++ i was watching a show about people addicted to drugs and i put myself in the position of a father who was watching his daughter do drugs and pawn off all of his tools i sat and thought about what i would do in that position and i came to a conclusion on what my course of action would be what i would do is record my daughter stealing some of my things and then i would call the police on her and have them take her to juvenile or prison or whatever i feel like that's a good plan.. the only way it wouldn't work is if they didn't actually take her away for some reason but if they took her away everyone would win i would get peace and quiet back in my household and i wouldn't have to watch my child self destruct and my daughter would be out of harm's way (out of the streets) and she would be forced to get clean while she's in prison or juvenile or whatever i also wouldn't have to pay for some huge expensive treatment center the only things i would lose are the items i basically "allowed" her to steal.. but that's a small price to pay in that situation i think do u guys think that would be a good plan? i felt like the alternatives were awful: -let her keep stealing my things and destroying herself with drugs -kick her out and let the streets completely devour her ++++++++ women's obsession with gay men is disgusting i really have no more tolerance for this type of thing from women what is with women having no standards in their lives when it comes to moral conduct? i find it to be so irritating when i see women gallivanting around with their gay male friends.. they think its so fun and entertaining to have him cracking disgusting jokes and wearing ridiculous outfits and calling himself a diva i guess we can't expect better from the world.. but i'll say this.. to any of you women out there- if you call yourself a christian you should understand light hath no fellowship with darkness many of you should also be ashamed of yourselves for bringing these gay men around your children... that man who switches his hips is NOT a proper role model for your son ++++++++ i saw a thing on k michelle recently where she admitted the reason she got butt implants was because she was having issues with men i want to explain why that wasn't good logic the reason is because if you keep having men come and go then the problem isn't your looks.. the problem is you as a person what i mean is.. if men come into your life then your looks are up to par.. if you are attracting men then you don't need a bigger booty because you are able to attract men already..... but if they don't stay- then the issue is your personality, your disrespect, your attitude, your mood swings, the way you act, your disloyalty, your smart mouth.. etc etc she didn't seem to understand that getting a man and keeping a man are totally different things i think women put too much emphasis on their looks sometimes but not enough on who they are.. i think men have the opposite problem a man can be the best dude in the world but look like nothing special women in many cases look phenomenal but they are oftentimes useless argumentative whores with stds who literally have murdered multiple babies through abortion women always try to demonize men and act like we are all brutes, but the truth is- the worst man you know has never killed a baby men and women live in totally different dimensions ++++++++ anyway.. what do you think of that new god of war on ps4!? i want that game it looks phenomenal right now i'm playing persona 5.. it feels more like a visual novel than a game so far but its not bad.. i'm still really early in the game... the last thing that happened is the blonde chick got her persona so far i still like ultra despair girls more than this game (not sure if thats a fair comparison) but persona is not bad and i'm interested to see where the story goes from here ++++++++ one thing i haven't told you peeps is the Lord set me free from caffeine addiction again i have been free before.. like maybe 2 yrs ago.. but i picked up the habit again over time but i got free again this past march one thing i want to say to u peeps is to give your life to the Lord and He will do mighty things for you I got off of coffee then a week later i poured out the remainder of my dr pepper i'm just very thankful to be free of that ongoing habit.. it was almost like a ritual.. get up and pour your coffee.. i almost didn't know what to do with myself at first when i quit coffee/caffeine.. it was like as if i was missing a "step" in each day smh ++++++++ anyway.. thanks for peepin my thoughts have a good rest of your day peaCe he hit the nail on the head in this video.. this reminds me of my entry called "why women don't learn anymore" ok so i don't really listen to rap too much and i REALLY don't listen to mainstream rap, but i came across that new drake video "nice for what" recently
this song and video really seems to have broken the camel's back for me when it comes to drake i've always known about drake and what he does but this song and video took everything too far in my opinion what i mean is.. drake has always sort of had the LL cool j lane.. the "i'm here for the ladies" thing but i have to be honest i feel like "nice for what" took it over the edge... its like its no longer a style, now its just full on pandering he's like the world's biggest simp with money and status his lyrics pump women up and validate them in their dysfunction no matter how bad it is and the video is LITERALLY like "i am woman, hear me roar" or like some type of feminist propaganda i mean he just took it way too far he has that lauryn hill sample in the background, then his lyrics aid women in their lack of accountability with his "girl you're right, and fabulous" type of stance he takes, then he has all those female actresses in the video which is just plain WEIRD because when you stand back and look at it.. it just looks like female worship like there's no story involved, its just like "you're so great let me put the spotlight on you" like for no reason.. he's giving his platform to women who have nothing to do with recording a song or background dancing or anything what is the purpose of having all these female celebrities in your video? what are you saying with this? to me it looks like he's saying: "girl you got it goin on" which is really like a borderline gay message for a grown man in his 30s to convey his message is like "girl, you are fierce" or something and i feel he has just taken what used to be a style (being the ladies man) to low-level pandering and literal gynocentric worship and idolatry this guy has sunk to a new low.. he is just publicly worshiping the feminine .. its just weird and i can see how this is another tactic to push young men into further subservience to the modern masculine and "independent" woman |
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