recently a girl at work who "likes thugs" asked me to take her to and from work for the next two weeks
ok its like this modern women want to basically give to scumbag type guys when i say "give" i mean be nice to, spend time with, have sex with, be affectionate with, etc but women want to take from good guys when i say "take" i mean wear u down with their stupid head games, treat you like you owe them something, withhold gratitude that is due to you, and use up all your money or resources this is real but the crazy thing is that when you say it outloud, people want to tell you you hate women or that you're a misogynist so when you learn how women really can be- and you decide to step back from their abuse, people say that you're hateful toward women i say don't let this bother you.. just let your knowledge be your power and move forward accordingly so anyway.. back to this girl.. i did not agree to help her.. i just won't do it i will not help a woman who likes "badboys" because her love of badboys is 9 times out of 10 the very reason why she needs/wants help in the first place she must deal with the root of her issue which is ultimately just her own stupidity in my opinion, all good guys and nice guys need to do what i did.. SAY NO DO NOT HELP THESE WOMEN WHO ADMITTEDLY DONT LIKE OR APPRECIATE YOU they like the guy who is in and out of jail, they like the guy who is a hothead, they like the guy who sells drugs, they like the guy who is a manwhore, they like the guy who is abusive, they like the guy who adds nothing of value to their lives so we good men need to just let these women have their fun.. DO NOT SAVE THESE WOMEN they will not learn from words, only from actions so in my case, when i run into a woman whose child's father is in prison- and she has hit hard times and wants a ride to and from work.. it is not my job to step in, GO GET YOUR CHILD'S DAD, oh wait... that's how it works .. if you want the good man, you must come correct to the good man.. otherwise stay over there with your grown up child you call a "roughneck" i am tired of these dumb skanks trying to use me and my brethren.. i'm over it and i'm not helping these women my last paycheck i got, i paid my rent and fixed my car and that was the bulk of my check.. now men, i really want you to think- how would i look out here neglecting my own responsibilities to try and help a skank out of a jam- when the truth is she will turn right around behind my back and tell one of her friends how "james isn't my type because he doesn't have enough of an edge" she will say something like this while using my washer and dryer, or using up my time and gas money for rides, or eating food i bought to show her retarded behind a nice evening i just want any man reading this to really understand, the reason you should not help women is because in many ways your better lifestyle is your leverage.. so when you take from yourself and give to her, you are essentially giving away your leverage she needs to see your life and see your peace, your clean house, your haircut, your clean car, your lack of drama, your lack of stress, your nice shoes, your nice clothes, your hobbies, the fun you have, the contentment you have, etc etc that's why i say don't help them because when you help them- you begin changing this dynamic you don't want her saying "i can flirt with him and experience some of the good things in his life" you want her to say "if i want to experience some of the good things in his life i must step my game up altogether and be a better woman, otherwise i will always be stuck with these guys who just use me and leave me" put your good attributes behind a paywall.. do not give to these women, keep your substance and keep your leverage... do not reward bad behavior if you see a woman who is in a hard time, i say let her experience the burn of it because helping her will not allow her to grow and come to the conclusion that good men are the superior option if all of us good men just refuse to accept crap from women then women will be forced to step up but even if they never do- still don't give to them because then you are essentially handicapping yourself for someone who would not do the same for you
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