i was talking to a white male friend of mine and there was a point where he didn't like some of the stuff i was saying
he was saying i hate women and bash them all the time basically one thing he said that stood out to me was "no women in my life act the way u describe" i want to take this time to point out 2 things i noticed about this 1. this was the same guy who sent me a picture of a woman he was allegedly having sex with at a casino/hotel on one of the pictures, the woman was wearing a wedding ring i asked him about it and he said that was none of his business as in, he didn't care if she was married or not in other words.. what im saying is.. it didn't make sense to me that he would try to say "women around me aren't like what you describe" when he was apparently having sex with a married woman that is EXACTLY like what i describe modern women as.. as being manipulative and conniving liars and cheaters another thing he said to me one day was that he was supposed to meet a woman at a concert and as soon as she saw him in real life she avoided him the rest of the night that is actually another way i describe modern women.. they are shallow and rude 2. the other thing i noticed was the race thing.. he's caucasian and i'm african american in other words.. which of us do u think has had worse experiences with women? black women oftentimes say that black men go to white women because we want someone submissive ok so if black women admit that they see black men going to other races because they're actually submissive, then what does that say about black women? it says that more often than not, they're not submissive in other words.... i feel that this was a place where my friend and i had a disconnect he has been dealing with caucasian women who are less likely to be horrific counterparts than black women this is not me bashing black women or giving white women props, this is just the reality we live in.. black women will tell u to your face they will never submit to a man.. they will tell you they're strong and independent etc white women may do those things too.. but they are less likely to be this way than black women.. black women on average are known to be stubborn and obstinate.. white women (while they appear to be on a downward trajectory as evidenced by the existence of mgtow, are still on average somewhat manageable) so my point is.. as a white man, some of the things i say about modern women may be things he either has not yet experienced, or they may be things that he has not experienced to the same extent that i've experienced them so keep this in mind when u tell someone about modern women.. if they don't understand what you're saying, keep their ethnicity in mind.. they may not have the same experiences you've had quick recap: my caucasian friend didn't seem to understand some of the things i said about modern women and instead of understanding what i was saying as being general truth, he saw it as misogyny however A. he was overlooking the dysfunctional women in his own life and B. as a caucasian male, he likely has not experienced the true depths of depravity modern women have to offer, because caucasian women are known to still have some decency, while african american women are known to be some of the worst out there and i'm not saying all white women are good or that all black women are bad, but lets not act like we don't have eyes to see the obvious differences in culture i don't mean this in pride but mostly everything i say about modern women or modern relationships is factual mostly everything i say, even if u initially disagree.. eventually u will see what i told u so even tho my friend and i had a disconnect, it doesn't bother me because lies run but the truth walks
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my ex g/f lies about everything
she always lied back in the day when we were together to avoid having uncomfortable conversations.. but now its like she just lies about everything one of the main things she lies about is she continually lies about receiving messages or emails one time we didn't talk for years and when she reached out to me she said "james, i just saw this email" she tried to say she JUST saw an email i sent 4 years prior.. instead of just saying she never responded to the email, she claimed she didn't see it for 4 years because she happened to be looking through her email or something and finally ran across it that was years ago another thing she used to do was if we would be talking, she would disappear and if i contacted her later and said "why didn't u reply?" she would say something like "oh, i thought the conversation ended" or there was one day she said she was going to chattanooga for a week.. she had said this a few times and i kinda ignored it because i knew in my head she had to be staying with someone- most likely a guy, and i didn't really care to hear about that at the time.. finally she said it again and i said "who are u staying with?" she quickly made up a lie about staying with her old college roommate.. i could tell she was lying by her demeanor i remember there was another time we were talking a lot and spending time together and she up and disappeared and just stopped answering her phone and everything.. i kinda lost it and did something i never do which is, i called her mom and asked if she was ok.. so this prompted her to contact me as soon as she left whatever rendezvous she was on.. so she was in her cab or whatever on the way back and we were on the phone and i started asking questions about where she went.. as i probed, she was just like "i gotta go" and hung up in that moment i realized A. where she had been and B. that avoiding confrontation is a common tactic among women i've since heard it said that oftentimes men lie, and oftentimes women avoid telling the truth, and that seems to be true.. a man may directly lie, a woman will create a facade so that you believe a lie without her saying it, or just avoid the questions altogether even when we first met, i believe i remember the first lie she told me.. we were teens at the time and i think i said something about how the skater look is cool or something and she said she liked to skateboard.. i knew that was a lie from jump because A. imagining her on a skateboard was crazy B. she was chubby and not built like a skater C. she was basically legally blind.. she could see, but she was technically legally blind due to complications there was one time she sent me an email back in the day and she accidentally copy and pasted an email she sent to another guy about me.. so imagine receiving an email from someone , and in the middle of it, u see an email they sent to someone else talking about u i confronted her about it and she said she didn't do that.. i read it outloud to her and she said i was making it up so those are all previous lies from years ago.. the thing is- back then she would lie to avoid tough conversations, and every once in a while she would come to me and admit that she lied ok so fast forward to last year one day she emailed me and i responded.. once i responded, i was waiting for her to send a follow up email.. it took her 17 days to reply when i saw that i didn't respond back to her our next contact was her birthday 2022.. i emailed her saying happy birthday she never replied fast forward to a few days ago, i created a facebook and i messaged her, she never responded i started talking to a mutual friend of ours and in the conversation i said my ex doesn't use facebook, the mutual friend said she had just spoke to my ex that same day so it was obvious my ex was just not responding to me.. i didn't say anything about it, it just came out in the conversation and that was it i guess the mutual friend told her about the conversation we had and so then my ex finally contacted me.. she sent me an email and then 2 more lies came the first one was "i got your birthday message, but i was so sick i forgot to respond" the second lie was "i didn't get the message u sent me on facebook" i know she got the message because its literally still there right now in the conversation thread i looked through her facebook pictures and i saw she had two pro-lgbt pictures.. her and i used to go to church together twice per week, also her grandmother was religious too, so i asked her if she is pro-gay now and what happened to make her start supporting that first she avoided answering the question i asked again and she said she already answered me, and she said she doesn't support lgbt then i sent her the actual pictures from her profile and she said... actually here is a copy/paste of what she said: I think that rainbow image was added to your photo? I don’t remember the details. Still don’t understand why I never got any messages from you. so here she's not taking any accountability, she's saying facebook just took her face and put it on a rainbow automatically.. like facebook is basically photoshopping people on rainbow flags without asking.. also, her explanation doesn't explain why there were two pro-lgbt pictures.. there wasn't just one also, in her reply u can see she's still lying about having not received the facebook message from me that she previously ignored before our mutual friend talked to her on facebook today she sent me a picture of an animal, and just above it is the message i initially sent her anyway... my point in writing this is i guess just thinking outloud im just acknowledging all of this and taking it in i can genuinely say today that i'm glad she and i never worked out as a couple sometimes in the past i used to think "maybe she's the one who got away" but today i can genuinely say, no.. i believe our relationship ended for good reasons she was a liar and a manipulator and also a cheater (the cheating part is a long story i would have to tell another day) i always viewed her lies as like.. a character flaw we could get past.. but today i see her lies as just constant inconsistency, manipulation, lack of accountability, and calloused deception as of today i look back on our relationship and i see the Lord's hand protecting me from her since i've tried to talk her her its been lies and inconsistency non stop.. even after something as simple as me just reaching out with a quick "happy birthday" ..my reward for that gesture is just weirdo head games in my experience, there is no sincerity or truth in her anyway.. just wanted to share.. i'm out for now i keep seeing white-knights out here running to "protect" women and i keep seeing women running around saying they're not protected
who is the biggest threat to the modern woman? the biggest threat to the modern woman is HERSELF a man's primary protection for his woman is going to be protection from herself women without male covering tend to be gullible, destructive, and chaotic again.. A MAN'S PRIMARY PROTECTION FOR A WOMAN WILL CONSIST OF PROTECTION FROM HERSELF the man says only have sex with me.. that is protection the man says dress modestly.. that is protection the man says don't go to that late night party on that side of town.. that is protection i could go on and on, but the jist of it is, the man's presence and the man's love is protection for the woman from herself if you are a woman, ask yourself this how often have you been robbed? how often is rape a clear and present danger? how often are you in danger of being beaten up? ok now when you're single, ask yourself these questions: how often do you find yourself in places you shouldn't be? how often have you found yourself dealing with men who weren't worth it? have you had an abortion? how often do you find yourself lacking stability? how often do you need reassurrance, understanding, or encouragement? how often do you feel aimless and unloved in your life? how often do you wish you had financial assistance or direction? are you on psyche meds? how often do you allow your emotions to get the best of you? how often are you depressed? my point is, the list of outside threats doesn't hold a candle to the list of inside threats.. the outside threats are few and far between, and you have a whole 911 u can call the inside threats will eat you alive from the inside if they are not addressed, they will take your youth, take your health, fertility, chances of happiness, chances of fulfillment, they can lead to regret, emotional pain, etc etc the man's primary protection for the woman is protection FROM HERSELF.. want proof? what does a bridegroom do? he GROOMS HIS BRIDE all this talk about protection from the outside world is secondary to the man's grooming of the wife herself, her mindset, her decision-making, her outlook, and well-being i want people to understand this and stop running around trying shield your girl from outside hazards like some kind of do-bot white-knight maniac.. instead, focus on grooming your wife properly.. with instruction, direction, the Word of God, reassurance, etc stop with this.. "i'm will smith and i'm gnna slap chris rock for my wife" crap.. i've literally even seen men step in and try to "protect" their woman from a tongue lashing from another woman.. mr. diva you need to sit down.. stay out of women's affairs and do your actual job which is groom your wife, your job is not to shield your wife from accountability or snap your fingers in a woman's face for her the real protection is to protect your wife from the inside out... if ur trying to protect her from the outside in, you're out of line i do believe in protecting women from physical threats, but those PALE IN COMPARISON TO THE INNER THREATS AND ISSUES she can manifest all on her own again, the modern woman's worst enemy is herself and one more time: A MAN'S PRIMARY PROTECTION FOR A WOMAN WILL CONSIST OF PROTECTION FROM HERSELF what up.. just want to come through and talk.. i'm not sure what i'll talk about but i feel like talkin so let's go
++++++++++++ this year so far i beat ghost of tsushima, resident evil 3 remake, and resident evil 4 original resident evil 4 was great.. i really enjoyed it.. i actually played it twice back to back.. if i remember correct, the first time took 20 hours, the second time took 8 hours i played it initially when it came out on gamecube back in the day, but i wanted to play it again in my opinion u just need 4 guns for the game.. the rifle, the handgun, the shotgun, and the machine gun the rifle for long range, the handgun for general use, the shotgun for close range crowd control, and the machine gun for when u have a target that's hard to hit i don't want the resident evil 4 remake.. oftentimes i'm not into newer games because they keep pandering to feminism... i actually even saw a clip of the remake and at the end leon told ashley she proved she could take care of herself so u spent the whole game rescuing this chick only to tell her she was so strong and independent that she never needed u to rescue her???? that stuff just isn't for me ++++++++++++ i've had some tough times lately but i don't really want to talk about it let's just say i literally considered suing... made the initial call and everything, but apparently my case didn't sound air tight whatever... the opps should consider themselves lucky ++++++++++++ as for women i haven't really talked to any i started texting a girl from ohio who i met like a year ago.. i kinda like her but like i said, she lives in ohio i also kinda got some feminist vibes from her like for example i asked her if she wants kids and she said no.. i don't actually believe that, i think that's just something feminism tells women to say she looks really good though and so far is down to earth ++++++++++++ ok sooooo i could probably say more but i just got sleepy maybe i can come back with more a little later stay up, playas |
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