i was thinking about something concerning my ex g/f that i wanted to get off my chest
basically it's like this.. one thing i've noticed about women is they will sometimes say they want something, but the reason they want it a lot of times won't be obvious.. it'll be deceptive one example i've used before is your daughter may say she wants to eat at mcdonald's for dinner, but the truth is she just wants to go there because some guy she likes works there i just want to talk about a time when i think my ex did this to me i believe she did this to me when she used to say she didn't want to live in my city "spring hill" because "there's too many white people" i used to think that was stupid because spring hill is a really nice area, almost every building is new, there's almost no crime, people are friendly, anything you could need is here, there are good schools, no nearby prisons or toxic waste dumps or anything.. there isn't even a traffic problem so i thought.. who cares if black people are the minority here when its such a nice area? but here's what i realized: "there's not enough black people here" actually meant "there aren't enough people here i could potentially replace you with" we all know how much women like attention, and we know they don't want to be accountable for their actions.. so living in an area with more black men in her mind likely meant "relationship security" if i said something she didn't like she would have someone she met in a grocery store on standby.. if i told her no when she wanted a yes she could just call up the flirty guy who gave her an oil change the week prior basically "there's not enough black people in spring hill" really meant "i can't replace you as easily here as i could in a place with more black people" or "i can't talk to other guys as easily here as i could somewhere else" one crazy thing is my ex g/f chose to live in a more hood type of area and then she kept complaining that someone was breaking into her house and taking dumps in her toilet when she was gone.. one day she said she woke up and the tv was on when she specifically remembered turning it off before she went to sleep i filed a police report, and she bought an alarm to put on her door, and so you would think she would see this and say "maybe james was right, maybe the safety of the suburban area is more important than the diversity of where i currently live" but no... why? because if you're a female who is two hours away from where you grew up- which would you choose.. the part of town where you go to the store and get what you want and come back home? or the part of town where you go to the store and 4 or 5 guys compliment you, flirt with you, and ask for your number before you get home? i believe since all her backup men were technically two hours away, she wanted opportunities to build up more of an archive of standbys and backups here having men who are legitimately checking for her was like a way to keep the "upperhand" in our relationship.. that is how women keep the status of "the one in the relationship who cares the least" ...having nearby backups was important to her because it's a roundabout way to escape accountability and to always have an out you wonder why you get in an argument with your girl and she seems unaffected, its because she knows she's going to use it as an opportunity to date someone else this is how women escape learning and growth during moments where they should be thinking about how to work with their man, they instead just frolick with a new one so what do u all think? am i on track here? was it really about diversity or was it about options and opportunity? so this is just a reminder to all men, to remember to think about your girl's true motives/desires because they can truly be deceptive
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