so in my entry yesterday you can see what i said about invalidation well a funny thing happened, when i got up a few hours ago, i looked up a video on cobanermani.. cobanermani is a video game youtuber and i never watched his videos but i used to see them here and there and i just kinda knew about him from seeing him around on youtube well he apparently quit youtube so just out of curiosity- i looked him up to see why he quit and i came across the video below what's funny about this video is it is the exact same type of situation i was in in my relationship with questa.. everything he explains is what i dealt with.. lies, manipulation, gaslighting, etc etc etc and one thing that really stuck out to me about this video is he used the word "invalidation" multiple times if you want to see what it was like for me being in that horrible "relationship" just watch this video.. i never expected this video to be like a mirror of my situation with questa but that's basically what it is
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