Women are not mysterious they are short sighted and selfish
You can replace that with stupid and evil also.. take your pick I’ve realized that oftentimes we as men have wracked our brains trying to figure out who women are and why they act the way they act It has always been difficult for us to figure out but here’s the thing.. women are not this huge walking math problem the truth is, just imagine a man.. give him boobs.. now take away logic, reason, integrity, and accountability now make him deathly afraid of being alone, give him fear, give him self-interest, give him various manipulative tactics, and give him a sneaky spineless nature there now you have a woman there is no mystery here all those women you liked in your past were just beautiful scumbags once you realize women operate on a low level, everything all of a sudden makes sense all the lies, all the disrespect, all the deceit, all the arguing, the constant rollercoaster they try to force you on.. everything they do makes sense once you just realize they are just stupid and evil I really mean this.. think about all the things you never understood: “why didn’t she call me back?” because she is selfish and doesn’t care about your feelings and she is talking to some other guy and doesn’t want to be interrupted “why did she literally create an elaborate plan to hurt me?” because she is vindictive and prone to destruction and she likes to see the pain on your face when she pulls the rug out from under you “why doesn’t she ever seem to put effort into us when she said she wanted to be my girlfriend?” you are not even dealing with her, you are dealing with her representative.. she might as well do improv because she is just playing a role, the real her is the one you will see on the last day or two of your relationship “why does she say mean things to me when I haven’t even provoked her?” it is likely a telegraph or a projection.. she is either dissing you saying “I can replace you easily” because she is telegraphing that she has a guy on the side already or she is projecting her insecurity onto you “why did she tell me that guy was just a friend when she could’ve just been honest?” because she is a selfish whore who doesn’t care if her actions grind your heart into dust “why does it take her 4 hours to text me back?” first off she just doesn’t care that this hurts and confuses you.. again.. let me say it one more time SHE DOES NOT CARE THAT THIS HURTS AND CONFUSES YOU.. also, she is cheating on you or dissing you behind your back or both “why does she expect so much help and assistance from me but she offers me no help when I need it?” she is selfish and when she leaves u she wants it to be made clear that you put in all the work and she did nothing which solidifies the fact that she actually NEVER cared about you which will sting because she will essentially “blame” you for caring about her and hurting “yourself” in the process there's no mystery.. these things you used to wrack your brain over all make sense when you realize women are cold and uncaring and only out for self.. They are just not good people... there’s no “if you do this your girl will act right” or “if you accomplish this your woman will be loving and loyal” The truth is women are just largely awful people.. Saying women are stupid and evil is like saying midgets are short.. it just is what it is.. there’s nothing to “figure out” There is absolutely nothing mysterious about a person who is this selfish, short sighted, demonic, prideful, whorish, and whatever else.. women are not hard to figure out when you view them through the correct lens there have been times where I’ve called people and said “my girl did such and such negative thing to me” and some people have said “james u just don’t understand women” since when is it on a victim to “understand” the perpetrator of a crime? many people don't say "wow she did that to you? thats foul!" instead they make u feel bad for not reacting "correctly" or for not preventing her behavior altogether The truth is the reason you can’t “figure her out” is because she was sent from hell to suck the life out of you and leave you with a bitterness that would make lemon juice look like visine she is short sighted and selfish and you will find no positive thing in her.. btw.. the reason i like to say short sighted is because many women don't understand they sabotage their relationships with their own hands... you could give many women the perfect man and she would abuse him and chase him off.. their lack of self awareness and foresight (aka inability to keep a relationship) is something i sum up as "short sighted" anyway, I hope you all understand the jist of what I’m saying I’m saying don’t question yourself, don’t be confused, don’t ask for help, all you have to do is recognize that she is worthless to you and cut ties. bam.... instant headache relief Forget those things which are behind, men. God has better in store for you than whichever hard headed, argumentative, and annoying woman you have recently let go of ONWARD!!!!
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a female wants to be your friend or a female wants to be in a relationship with you
but ultimately you realize all she really wants to do in conversation is disagree with everything you say what is the point of this? i can't be the only guy who has experienced this i am better off alone than with someone who just comes up with endless ways to disagree about things that don't even matter.. they don't just take the spirit of what you say- instead feel they should correct you on semantics me: "kids like toys" female: "not all" me: "that was a good sale" female: "it wasn't a sale, it was a deal" me: "up is up and down is down" female: "not in outer space" I. AM. BETTER. OFF. ALONE. i ran across this today.. best album i've heard in a while i can't wait for this to be every demonic femiskank's reality Women and society work in tandem against the wise, stable, independent man. They know that being in a relationship in the midst of a gynocracy is geared to break men as women are weaponized with feminism, entitlement, and base ignobility. In this environment, men are likely to start white-knighting and obeying females out of a false appreciation for them due to societal female elevation and male marginalization. Once a man has a woman he will be bullied, nagged, and coerced at every turn. The problem that soon reveals itself is that with each step a man takes to please his woman, it’s also one step further away from the wise, stable, independent man he once was.
Men eventually break. They break out of exhaustion from working 60 hours a week and hearing nothing but broken-record nagging along with pure and constant complaining with no reprieve of gratitude. Or they break from receiving undue hostility followed by the withholding of sex for “misbehaviors.” This is relationship entrapment, and the game is geared in a way to where eventually males will lose heart or acquiesce out of exasperation. Women inherently know it’s easier to get a man to do her bidding if he’s too tired to fight any longer. Lack of peace becomes a tool to subjugate the male and domesticate him into a non-threatening and docile pion the government can more easily use, abuse, and dispose of. What women don’t realize is they are actually signing their own death certificate each time they participate in the process. Who will be around as a suitable potential husband in a sea of broken men? Who will believe a woman’s cry for help when all men have been lied to and/or destroyed by a woman’s subterfuge? Who will be willing to raise a child with a woman when she is ready if men no longer have the capacity to love or trust women? Finally, who will protect women when the government decides to show its full hand and turn on its own people? the first video game system i ever had was the regular nintendo
i never beat a game on that thing.. everytime i picked up the controller it was just an exercise in futility the games were super hard back then and not only that but they were created in a way to where many times you couldn't figure out how to progress without getting help from an outside source because the way you'd progress wasn't obvious at all... and as you know, there was no internet back then over time i've been made privvy to all the reasons why games were so difficult back then one reason was because nintendo used to want kids to call their paid hotlines for tips on how to beat games another reason was because they could sell their magazines easier by adding in tips to hard games and another reason was because game creators didn't want children to be able to rent a game, beat it in a few days and then take it back to the rental store.. instead they wanted kids to feel like they had to buy the game at full price to be able to see all it had to offer so... looking back its kinda crazy to me to see that i was really being duped and toyed with throughout my entire childhood here i was thinking i was playing against the game when in reality i was playing against someone else's greed here i was thinking i was an unskilled player when the reality was that the games were all rigged against me from the very beginning here i was being frustrated during times that should've been fun, relaxing, and enjoyable all because some person somewhere wanted to extract more money out of my family's household unfortunately, upon consideration of these facts.. i've realized that the aforementioned setup is perfectly analogous to the plight of adult life -we go into debt for education -prices of everything we desire are constantly in a state of inflation while wages remain stagnant -we want housing but end up paying more in interest than we pay the actual cost of the home -we want a female companion but women have been socially engineered into difficult feminists -the list goes on i'm sure many people wonder why success eludes them i'm sure many people find themselves "inexplicably" alone i'm sure many people remain plagued by feelings of inadequacy because of their perceived "failures in life" but are they failures or is the game actually rigged in someone else's favor.. an enemy we typically do not consider until they've already extracted each and every thing their evil heart has desired from us who profits from my frustration? who fills their wallet with our tears? who is comforted by mass discomfort? these thoughts, as well as how to escape the invisible walls that surround us are certainly worth deep consideration this is about the aziz ansari thing
after their date the girl had buyer's remorse and told him she was uncomfortable the whole time he apologized and kept it movin but that's what i want to talk about.. not only concerning him but also any other men who may find themselves in a similar situation he probably shouldn't have apologized women just don't understand certain things.. like since women don't have honor and integrity there are certain things they just don't comprehend a man may apologize out of respect and concern for another's perspective.. it may not actually mean he did something wrong per se however women don't see that as you being the bigger person women see your apology like: "he's cowering" "he's weak" "i'm able to make him bend" "he is not strong in his stances in life" etc and one thing about women is they want to get away with whatever they feel u let them get away with.... they don't have a "that's enough" button.. they just keep going until the rubber band snaps so what i'm saying is- by apologizing to her in that text message, all it did was make her feel justified in her illogical feelings so since in her mind she was justified, it also made her feel that she could demonize him again in the future if she wanted.. even publicly.. which is exactly what she did she took the apology as validation that her experience was THE experience despite the fact that aziz and 96% of the internet disagree that her experience is accurate to what actually happened other women do this also.. they take apologies as validation.. this is why they want you to walk on eggshells and apologize so much- because it soothes their deeply rooted insecurity.. they also try to see how much "power" they have over you by gauging whether or not they can force you into manufactured shame so my point is this really evaluate your apologies to women.. DO NOT DO IT AT ALL if it is illogical you may be tempted to just apologize to keep peace.. you may say "ok whatever i'll just be the bigger man" DONT DO IT. don't validate women and their stupid thoughts, opinions, ideas, suggestions, and actions just realize women have stupid outlooks and if they threaten to not like you or leave you because you won't meet them halfway then just chuck them the deuces all that "be the bigger man" stuff amounts to is manipulative leverage for others to get their way with you DO NOT APOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN UNLESS YOU TRULY FEEL LED TO DO SO IN YOUR HEART otherwise she will just A. use it against you B. think you're weak and C. feel justified in her dysfunctional perspective one reason why women don't learn or grow these days is because as soon as you put your foot down as a man, instead of taking "rebuke" she just goes and gets another guy u get in a fight and u leave.. but u don't leave to LEAVE.. you leave to teach her that what she is doing is not ok.. your hope is that they will see that you are upset and they will think about their actions, and best case scenario is she will apologize and tell you she won't do the offensive behavior again but what women do these days is they just go get another dude during the disagreement.. this is why women a lot of times never seem hurt and never apologize for things the way a person should why be accountable when you can just get another guy? what is integrity? realize i'm not always right? what do u mean? all they do is call a backup guy they were keeping on standby as a man you wonder why your girl never seems to learn or grow.. she does something massively offensive to you and you tell her you won't put up with it and you leave.. then you think "wow, its been 3 days.. she's had time to think about what happened but it seems like she doesn't care, she doesn't reach out to apologize or anything" the fact is she doesn't care.. she is selfish.. an argument or disagreement or stalemate in a relationship used to be a thing that could bring a woman to repentance, or bring her to a place of being ready to listen.. but today women are so selfish and prideful and "empowered" that an argument, disagreement, or separation is actually a fun thing for them because they are thinking "hey a break, now i have a reason to go on a date with so and so" or "hey my boyfriend isn't acting right so i'm going to bang this guy who's been flirting with me for the past two months" so then as a man, you cool off and you wonder "why hasn't my girl reached out?" "why won't she apologize for what she did to me?" "why doesn't she seem to care at all?" its because she is selfish and sneaky and a person like this can't really ever grow they are always just out for self let me explain this in a little bit of a diff way say you have a child who is outside playing but they're not playing nice so you yell at them and tell them to go to their room well if their bedroom has a playstation and a laptop and legos and action figures and a stash of candy.. then your "punishment" holds no weight.. you sound like the parents on charlie brown to them.. in one ear and out the other basically that's how women are today.. you hope she will see you're really upset this time and she needs to shape up.. but no.. she is just looking at it like a vacation from you where she can be with any other guy you express disappointment in your girl and she might even make the situation worse on PURPOSE so she can have the "free pass" women began working in the 60s, 70s, and 80s and that created a plethora of new male options for women.. well guess what social media did? you guessed it... so go ahead and multiply her pool of eager men by about 100 this is why a lot of times when ur girl comes back u find out she did something crazy and you're like "why did you do that?" and she's like "we weren't together!" and she will likely take it up a notch higher with the manipulation and say something like: "you left me and i was vulnerable" even though the whole reason you left in the first place was because of her classless behavior that she still likely hasn't properly apologized for.... so one 30 second apology has been replaced with her having sex with another guy, and in her mind that decision made sense its safe to say she WILL. NOT. GROW. and they even do this A. without guilt from God because their pride leads them to justify their actions and B. without guilt from you because they will just say "it wasn't cheating because we weren't together, you stormed out remember?" or "you got angry at me remember?" so it's like every argument to them is a license to be with someone else they don't see how their own selfishness and disloyalty lead to broken relationships they think: "i've found a cheat code where growth and maturity and accountability are no longer necessary.. it's called backup men" they are stunting their own growth.. moments where she could learn from self reflection or where she can take time to empathize or understand her man's side of an issue or see where communication broke down or see a hidden pattern are all thrown away in exchange for a fling with a different man this is why women never grow.. this is why the relationship never gets better.. as a man you see the issues clearly so you try and try, attempting to help her to see that things can be peaceful if she would just understand this, or realize that, or put forth an effort in this, etc but she will never get to a place of maturity while she is living this sneaky, manipulative, and deceptive double life.. she will never accept the words you speak or the stance you take or the direction you lead or anything because to her its all a game with no consequences.. like i said- women don't see how this is leading them to a life of constantly having new relationships or flings but never any stable, lasting, loving relationships, or strong marriages with peace a guy tries to love a woman but when women realize that love comes with discipline and correction, they rebel against it i feel i need to say that again.. love comes with discipline and correction no parent who lets their child do whatever they want is a good parent.. its the same with a husband and wife when women rebel against these things- they not only keep themselves from true love.. they are also stunting their own growth and delaying their own happiness and contentment women these days are taking a man's stern discipline and correction as a vacation.. so you can't effectively discipline her.. you can't be her husband as you can see it says "a person who cultivates the land, a farmer" ..this is what a husband does for his wife, he cultivates her and makes her better.. what's another word for husband? groom.. men are to groom their wives and make them better.. show them the way, bring them up to a higher level
but women today say "you can't tell me nothin" "i'm independent" "i don't need you" they are hard-headed and refuse to listen and you can try anything to help them to grow but they refuse **you tell them to stop, they give you backtalk **you ask them to stop, they say "why should i?" **you try to logically explain it, they say "that's the way you see it but not the way i see it" **you give them a back and forth and argue with them.. they just focus on getting the last word so the discussion becomes about one upping as opposed to the actual issue u have with her **you back her into a corner, she changes the subject **you prove her wrong, she gives you the silent treatment **you leave, she talks to another guy and is way nicer to him than she is to you even tho the truth is you love her but the other guy just wants sex so.. with all of this said.. what does all of this information amount to? if you feel that these traits are lurking in a woman, then she's not wife material.. if she hates the husbandman's function, if she rebels against the groom's grooming.. she is not a wife i hope i have made you aware of why nothing you do works with your woman.. it's because she sees arguments and disagreements and stalemates as a license to be with some other guy who she has been keeping on the side you can yell you can argue you can leave you can throw things you can be stoic no matter what you do it doesn't work when women are already fostering and harboring deceit and infidelity in their heart (and smart phone) there was a time where a man could say something and it held weight.. but in today's gynocracy, its like women have an exit plan for everything.. they have no respect for your relationship or anything.. also the abolition of shame and the implementation of government benefits all have helped to "empower" women to rebel against the men God has placed in their lives to love, protect, lead, and guide them, and give them children and stability. women have no sense of honor or accountability so giving them options and power leads us to where we are today.. in a culture of no-fault divorce where women frequently divorce their husbands over ridiculous things (over 80% of divorces are initiated by women) (one woman literally told me she wanted to divorce her husband because her previous last name had a better ring to it... a few months passed and i saw her and she was divorced lol) anyway.. if a woman is feminist, stubborn, contentious, or full of pride or lust, she will be unable to be planted, watered, cut, pruned, or shaped.. she won't grow.. she will always find that backdoor.. she'll always have men on standby in her past, on her phone, or on social media.. and thus she will always have her finger hovering over the eject button out of the relationship this is why nothing you do works, and this is why she never apologizes, and this is why she doesn't seem to care at all she is just plain not wife material so all in all.. this is why women don't learn today.. so if you've tried this and that and that and this and your woman still doesn't seem to act in a way that promotes peace in your relationship, just cut your losses and drop her.. go mgtow and build your life in peace, or find a woman who is submissive, malleable, and doesn't resent or minimize your function in her life respect yourself enough to not cast your pearls unto swine.. if you are a good man, live in that- if no women appreciate who you are so be it- continue to lead.. even without followers.. LEAD. may the Lord bless you if you are a man and this has touched you ** update 3.4.18 ** i came back to say some more on this recently i was going through my emails sometimes i send entries to myself from work to my email and typically i'll post the entry when i get home well i ran across an entry i sent to myself that i never uploaded.. the entry is from three years ago, 3.6.15 well the entry actually goes along with what i said above.. so i thought i'd share it i never finished the entry, i got about 85% done and didn't finish it but i'll try to wrap it up today one other thing i want to point out is this.... this was written when i was less jaded toward women.. you can tell because i was trying to speak as nicely as possible anyway.. again- i wrote this 3.6.15 and never posted it.. and it coincides with what i wrote above, so here it is: I have been on lipstick alley lately reading the confessions a lot Some of them I find to be like.. I don’t know they are just insane I wanted to speak on one I just saw because I think it was worth bringing to the light.. heres the part I want to talk about.. here is her direct quote (its not her whole confession, but this is the only part of it I want to speak on) “for the first time in my life i'm dating a younger man/i'm almost 30 he just turned 20/but whats crazy about it is i think i'm falling in love and that was not the plan/i just had wanted someone to be with when my main guy acts stupid” Ok I just want to talk about this way of going about things in a relationship. Obviously she is keeping multiple dudes on deck so that she can sort of shield herself from being hurt.. like: “oh u don’t want to take me out? That’s fine cuz I got another guy who wants to take me out and since ur acting up I’m going to let him bang me too!” She has guys on deck so that disappointments and disagreements lose their sting.. instead of them hurting or instead of her being alone, she can just go to the next guy and have her way she may feel that this works for her for the short term, but I want to dig deeper and explain what I feel is wrong with this way of going about things First I want to say that I am not saying she won’t find what she wants while living this way, because of course stranger things have happened.. but I just want to explain how I feel she is kinda missing out Its fairly simple.. its like this: EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS BOUND TO HAVE SOME UPS AND DOWNS I don’t know if there is any relationship that is just ALWAYS happy, peaceful, fulfilling, fun, etc. Remember the Bible says that love is first PATIENT. This is what she is mainly disregarding when she goes off with another guy anytime her “main guy acts stupid” She is not acting with patience.. so while she feels she is sort of getting over on her “main guy” in reality she is cheating herself out of the benefits of patience, such as maturity and wisdom and learning proper love and care and how to foster a long term relationship I understand we all feel bad when our significant other does something that feels like a violation.. but patience is what will allow for that situation to turn back around in our favor.. maybe not in every situation, but to say “well I didn’t get my way so I’m going to this other person” is not the way to get, have, or keep a serious long term relationship If she is just out to have fun and doesn’t care about having a relationship then that is one thing.. but in that case why have a "main guy" at all? Because if she does want a good functioning long term situation, then she will have to learn how to be patient and flexible This is also something we go through in our relationship with God. If we don’t get our way sometimes we are like “screw it, I’m going to get alcohol” or “forget it- If you’re not giving me a wife I’m getting a prostitute” or whatever crazy thing we concoct But if we learn patience it can help our understanding and we can remain in our place without falling out and coming back or whatever So I just wanted to speak on that.. she is keeping herself from getting hurt and from being vulnerable but she is also keeping herself from having a stable and lasting relationship believe it or not, men know when women are doing things behind their back.. he might not have evidence but your relationship will die from the lack of sincerity.. you can't gain ground (i.e. trust and love) when you are running around like that ok i'm back.. this is sad to me.. it's sad that this is what we see today.. women keeping one man for a relationship and another man for a fling and 5 more on standby i know my ex cheated on me just based on how she acted and it caused me a lot of pain mostly after the relationship because i started to see her lies unfold once i stopped hearing her lies i was able to see and think clearly again and all i could really see was her cheating on me once you get out of the relationship you no longer have them lying to you and so you see all the places where they were deceptive and the picture gets a lot clearer anyway.. if you're a man reading this i'll just say this A. don't get in a relationship without God's "ok" B. if you're already in a relationship and its starting to feel weird.. either leave, or pray, or do something as simple as ask to see her phone if a woman makes little insulting comments to u like
"i can find someone else" "you're on thin ice with me" "you're not the only guy who wants me" or if she "jokes" about being with another man (especially if these are repeated) in my experience this is indicative of a few things 1. she doesn't really value you 2. she has no respect for you 3. she has thought about leaving you and the thought of you hurting over it makes her happy (because otherwise these statements wouldn't be in joke form.. meaning they wouldn't be a source of humor or pleasure for her) also, since she is aware that her leaving is likely to cause you pain- this also basically means she knows you care about her... this situation can be really bad because if she knows you care about her but she doesn't value you then this is a situation where she is likely to use you 4. she is either considering another man or already has another man she does things with behind your back i also want to point out that you have to remember not to make excuses for the things women say to you.. don't overlook them.. remember to view women as a potential enemy because that's what they are.. i know as a man you think its weird for someone to act like they care about you but deep down they hate you or resent you but that's honestly how many women are as a man you're like.. "if i don't like a person i'll get away from them" but women have no logic or integrity and seem to have poor impulse control.. also many of them are filled with demons (which is a whole other entry in itself) so it makes sense that their conduct is foreign to you anyway.. i want to explain what i mean when i say don't make excuses for the things women say a "joke" about leaving you is less about the joke and more about A. hurting you B. telegraphing her true thoughts, feelings, and actions also.. when it comes to the statements like "i can find someone else" "you're not the only guy who wants me" i want to point out that EVEN IN THE CONTEXT OF AN ARGUMENT, these statements are not ok you might chalk these statements up to "oh she was angry" or "she said that in the heat of the moment" first of all, if a woman argues with you- drop her... arguing in itself is a sign that she either doesn't know her place as a woman, or she doesn't respect you, or she believes leadership is to be shared second.. even in an argument these statements are off limits.. they're basically just veiled threats.. if every time you two have it out she has a comment that seems to say "you better shape up or i'm going to leave you" or "i can leave u and not care" then that means SHE IS ALREADY NOT WITH YOU she is already not loyal or committed.. so you should drop her because its only a matter of time until her actions catch up with her words if a woman is with you she won't speak to you in an irreverent manner, she won't go back and forth with u in a neverending attempt to one-up you, she won't threaten to leave you, and she won't joke about flirting with other guys, etc so again any little veiled threats disguised as "self confidence" like "i know you're not the only one who thinks i look good" or any "jokes" about leaving you or being with another man are off limits and don't overlook them due to one of the "jokes" actually being somewhat funny, or one of the threats coming out during an argument and remember anything a woman says repeatedly is likely to be a telegraph so once you see it.. you may want to have a discussion and let her know you won't tolerate disloyalty and either get her to open up or just drop her because if she's speaking to you in any disrespectful manner then the relationship is unlikely to get better the relationship won't rise above her disrespect.. there will never be a day where she can say something disrespectful and you two just stay on cloud 9 together.. your relationship will never rise above her level of respect for you i have an entry coming up
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