if a woman makes little insulting comments to u like
"i can find someone else" "you're on thin ice with me" "you're not the only guy who wants me" or if she "jokes" about being with another man (especially if these are repeated) in my experience this is indicative of a few things 1. she doesn't really value you 2. she has no respect for you 3. she has thought about leaving you and the thought of you hurting over it makes her happy (because otherwise these statements wouldn't be in joke form.. meaning they wouldn't be a source of humor or pleasure for her) also, since she is aware that her leaving is likely to cause you pain- this also basically means she knows you care about her... this situation can be really bad because if she knows you care about her but she doesn't value you then this is a situation where she is likely to use you 4. she is either considering another man or already has another man she does things with behind your back i also want to point out that you have to remember not to make excuses for the things women say to you.. don't overlook them.. remember to view women as a potential enemy because that's what they are.. i know as a man you think its weird for someone to act like they care about you but deep down they hate you or resent you but that's honestly how many women are as a man you're like.. "if i don't like a person i'll get away from them" but women have no logic or integrity and seem to have poor impulse control.. also many of them are filled with demons (which is a whole other entry in itself) so it makes sense that their conduct is foreign to you anyway.. i want to explain what i mean when i say don't make excuses for the things women say a "joke" about leaving you is less about the joke and more about A. hurting you B. telegraphing her true thoughts, feelings, and actions also.. when it comes to the statements like "i can find someone else" "you're not the only guy who wants me" i want to point out that EVEN IN THE CONTEXT OF AN ARGUMENT, these statements are not ok you might chalk these statements up to "oh she was angry" or "she said that in the heat of the moment" first of all, if a woman argues with you- drop her... arguing in itself is a sign that she either doesn't know her place as a woman, or she doesn't respect you, or she believes leadership is to be shared second.. even in an argument these statements are off limits.. they're basically just veiled threats.. if every time you two have it out she has a comment that seems to say "you better shape up or i'm going to leave you" or "i can leave u and not care" then that means SHE IS ALREADY NOT WITH YOU she is already not loyal or committed.. so you should drop her because its only a matter of time until her actions catch up with her words if a woman is with you she won't speak to you in an irreverent manner, she won't go back and forth with u in a neverending attempt to one-up you, she won't threaten to leave you, and she won't joke about flirting with other guys, etc so again any little veiled threats disguised as "self confidence" like "i know you're not the only one who thinks i look good" or any "jokes" about leaving you or being with another man are off limits and don't overlook them due to one of the "jokes" actually being somewhat funny, or one of the threats coming out during an argument and remember anything a woman says repeatedly is likely to be a telegraph so once you see it.. you may want to have a discussion and let her know you won't tolerate disloyalty and either get her to open up or just drop her because if she's speaking to you in any disrespectful manner then the relationship is unlikely to get better the relationship won't rise above her disrespect.. there will never be a day where she can say something disrespectful and you two just stay on cloud 9 together.. your relationship will never rise above her level of respect for you
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