this is about the aziz ansari thing
after their date the girl had buyer's remorse and told him she was uncomfortable the whole time he apologized and kept it movin but that's what i want to talk about.. not only concerning him but also any other men who may find themselves in a similar situation he probably shouldn't have apologized women just don't understand certain things.. like since women don't have honor and integrity there are certain things they just don't comprehend a man may apologize out of respect and concern for another's perspective.. it may not actually mean he did something wrong per se however women don't see that as you being the bigger person women see your apology like: "he's cowering" "he's weak" "i'm able to make him bend" "he is not strong in his stances in life" etc and one thing about women is they want to get away with whatever they feel u let them get away with.... they don't have a "that's enough" button.. they just keep going until the rubber band snaps so what i'm saying is- by apologizing to her in that text message, all it did was make her feel justified in her illogical feelings so since in her mind she was justified, it also made her feel that she could demonize him again in the future if she wanted.. even publicly.. which is exactly what she did she took the apology as validation that her experience was THE experience despite the fact that aziz and 96% of the internet disagree that her experience is accurate to what actually happened other women do this also.. they take apologies as validation.. this is why they want you to walk on eggshells and apologize so much- because it soothes their deeply rooted insecurity.. they also try to see how much "power" they have over you by gauging whether or not they can force you into manufactured shame so my point is this really evaluate your apologies to women.. DO NOT DO IT AT ALL if it is illogical you may be tempted to just apologize to keep peace.. you may say "ok whatever i'll just be the bigger man" DONT DO IT. don't validate women and their stupid thoughts, opinions, ideas, suggestions, and actions just realize women have stupid outlooks and if they threaten to not like you or leave you because you won't meet them halfway then just chuck them the deuces all that "be the bigger man" stuff amounts to is manipulative leverage for others to get their way with you DO NOT APOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN UNLESS YOU TRULY FEEL LED TO DO SO IN YOUR HEART otherwise she will just A. use it against you B. think you're weak and C. feel justified in her dysfunctional perspective
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