I recently saw a thing on youtube where a woman was telling men what to do if their women don’t respect them See.. This is part of the reason why I say don’t try to figure women out.. because of things like this What I mean is.. as long as you are trying to figure them out you are on the defensive.. you have already lost.. you are trying to figure out “what am I doing wrong?” “how can I change?” “how can I be what she’s looking for?” all of these types of thoughts are exactly what the jezebel spirit wants you to revel in This way you are in a state of confusion, you are weakened because you are putting someone else’s whims above your own personal wants, desires, and convictions.. she walks around knowing you are trying to make her happy and keep her and she feels empowered.. but you are exasperated trying to figure out why you need her but she seems to not need you at all quote from cardi b from Wikipedia: The thing is, every man has a switch inside where we can turn our feelings off, but the reason we don’t is because we truly want that woman.. we are hoping that she will “come around” we are hoping she will see that we care and begin acting right.. but she won’t.. she will just act crazier and crazier Like as a man, if you sin against the Lord you will say: “thank you Lord for not destroying me in my sin. I repent for my iniquity and I want to put it behind me and I want to act right.. you have shown me great mercy” But when women sin against us they have no integrity so they will say something like: “I got away with it, I can get away with even more next time” This is why we can’t spend time trying to figure women out or trying to become what they want, because you’re dealing with someone who doesn’t have integrity.. they don’t take your longsuffering as mercy, patience, or love.. they take your kindness for weakness.. they interpret your care as stupidity let me get back to what I was trying to say about the thing I saw on youtube where a woman was telling men seven things to do if their women don’t respect them The problem with things like this are as follows: The bible says a woman is to submit to her husband and a man is to love his wife In other words, if a woman doesn’t respect her man, that’s like a man not loving his woman so some of you may already see what I’m getting at here if a woman doesn’t respect her man, people tell the man- “change this about yourself” “fix this” “ask her this” “be more attentive to this” the list goes on and on.. the guy automatically is turned into a do-bot.. he must bend to attain her love but when you flip it.. if a man doesn’t love his woman.. what advice will people give to the woman? They will simply say: “leave him” and see this is how you know you as a man are being manipulated.. because they are giving you different advice for the same scenario simply because you're a male the fact is- if a woman doesn't respect you.. you need to leave her.. in the same way that if a man doesn't love a woman, she should leave him but they don't want to tell you to leave that disrespectful woman, because they want to exude power and control over you.. ultimately what they want to lead you to is servitude.. they want you to beg and plead for their love, time, and attention while they go and spend time with a guy who doesn’t care anything about them this is ultimately what many women will lead you to if you don’t realize that the things they say are just manipulations.. they will ultimately have it to where she uses u as the guy who does things for her, and she gets another man who she chooses to do things for.. its like the other day I heard someone say that children only really cry if there’s someone around to hear them.. if you put them in another room across the house then they’ll stop crying and just get out the legos or whatever that’s how women are.. as long as you listen to their complaining and nagging and whining, all they do is do it more and more this is why I say don’t try to figure women out, don’t try to understand them, don’t try to cater to their whims, don’t try to make them happy.. because they don’t have integrity, they are self-centered.. so instead of saying “hey thanks for hearing me out” and keeping it moving- the way a man would.. they will say “hey I got away with that, let me keep doing it” WOMEN DO NOT HAVE INTEGRITY This is one thing I have noticed time and time again.. like men operate with respect and honor.. those things are things we live by as men.. its just in us.. these things are written in our dna and we can spot other men who don’t have integrity, respect, and honor and those are men we don’t really regard as real men.. Like judas for example was a man who didn’t have integrity.. they are scumbags This is why I also call women scumbags often.. because they operate selfishly But the thing you see today is instead of it being a patriarchal society where good men get pure women.. its like a gynocentric society where the biggest scumbag type of men get women and the men of honor get leftovers and that’s where you get statements like “nice guys finish last” Women like men who think the way they think.. I’ve noticed this.. its like women like selfish men.. they don’t like the man who operates with integrity.. the man who says “I’m waiting for marriage” is like a clown to many women.. while the guy who has sex with different women every week is fun and exciting to women.. they want men who are similar to them in mindset.. Women like men who lie and cheat and get what they want without regard to right and wrong They like men who operate that way because that’s the way they operate as women This is also why you should beware of any woman who says “all men do is cheat on me” because it is likely to mean she is an insincere person.. the reason she is being treated insincerely is because she is insincere.. this is also why they are able to leave you so easily- because they were never honest with you in the first place.. you showed up to the relationship as yourself while they used their representative the whole time.. they were never genuine The funny thing about insincerity is even if it can’t be seen, it can be felt- so when you meet women who are always being cheated on.. many times they are insincere and disingenuous women.. because men can sense that, and those men may cheat- but that oftentimes makes the woman look like the victim when in reality she is the sole cause of her problems.. because of course- who wants to commit to someone who is disingenuous? Also when women say “all men cheat” another thing u will have to look for is disrespect.. again- a woman saying “all men have cheated on me” makes her look like the victim, but if she is disrespectful to men (which many of these women are) then it makes perfect sense why they cheat.. they absolve themselves of any fault by saying men cheat but the reality is they are not good women flat out Anyway what was I saying… basically do not try to figure a woman out.. don’t try to become what she wants If you do, she will not ever give you rest Just live your own life and let the cards fall as they may Let women destroy themselves.. don’t try to save them because many times (like the song says) they don’t want to be saved Let them go, don’t let their beauty capture your mind Let them just live their stupid and vain lives Maybe one day the Lord will give you a good woman from His hand, just do His will and put your hope in him Remember shadrach, meshak, and Abednego.. what is the probability of standing in fire and not being burned? ZERO But with God that whole scenario changes So when you look around and see no decent women.. understand there may very well be ZERO decent women But with God that whole scenario changes Again DO NOT TRY TO FIGURE WOMEN OUT DO NOT TRY TO BE WHAT THEY WANT DO NOT TRY TO GIVE THEM WHAT THEY ASK FOR JUST DO WHAT GOD TELLS YOU TO DO.. DO NOT PAY WOMEN ANY ATTENTION BECAUSE THEY WILL USE THAT AGAINST YOU THEY WILL USE YOUR LOVE, CARE, TIME, AND ATTENTION AGAINST YOU LET WOMEN DESTROY THEMSELVES, IF GOD GIVES YOU A WOMAN THEN LOVE HER AND KEEP HER BUT LET THE REST JUST WASTE THEIR LIVES, BEAUTY, PURITY, AND WHATEVER ELSE If they want to be with thugs, let them If they want to smoke, let them If they want to be feminists, let them If they want to be argumentative, let them The list goes on When I say “let them” I mean don’t try to love them out of their ignorance and foolishness Let folly have its way with them… getting in the way of folly can be like stepping in front of a freight train Let folly have its way with the wayward and foolish I hope I am conveying this message in a way where it can help men and keep them from many of the headaches I’ve had God bless and stay on your mission men You’re a maverick
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i want to say this really quickly
this is for any men who are trying to figure a woman out the very fact that you don't understand her is a sign that she isn't the one for you if you're trying to figure her out you've already lost do not try to figure a woman out.. just live your life.. i know its hard because you see women whom you consider to be beautiful and you feel powerless when it comes to attracting them but guess what? we live in a gynocentric society God can provide you a good woman so put your hope in Him but do not try to attract women yourself because women will just drive you insane... why? here's why: as a man, all you want to know is what will make her happy or make her want to stay with you.. but everything she will tell you she wants will either A. be a lie B. be true but still get you friendzoned or C. not be enough and she will just want more as soon as you accomplish or give her what she deemed to be the standard remember, God is not the author of confusion so if a woman's actions don't make sense to you then she isn't for you the bible says to follow peace also so if she is confusing, or if she argues, or if she complains... she is not wife material i feel i need to say this again.. men listen up because this will save you a lot of headaches and keep you from heartache: -if you're trying to figure her out you've already lost -God is not the author of confusion so if a woman is confusing to you then she isn't for you -the bible says to follow peace so if she robs you of peace, she is not wife material don't waste your time.. i know you desire a woman but keep what i have said in mind and you will avoid MANY, MANY problems i watched this and it made me realize something the same way he talks about people liking negativity and foolishness is the same way women like "bad boys" and guys who are not looking for commitment
we can't be mad at this stuff because to be mad at this type of thing is to be mad at our entire existence here on earth it appears we have to accept it.. we have to just change whatever is in our power to change and let the rest handle itself he feels bad to see he can put hours or days or weeks into work and have it be totally eclipsed by one stupid and outlandish statement, because people latch onto that more than his hard work... he's like.. "you all don't want the best songs, the best content, and the best bars.. you all want me to say something ridiculous" and that's how i've felt it is with women.. u can put years into becoming a good man and still be overlooked by a woman because some player with foul intentions comes into her world she becomes a willing participant in his conquest and as a man who wants to build a life with a woman, it makes u feel bad like wow... u all don't want love, care, and respect.. you all want a guy to just use u so seeing this has helped me to see its not just a woman thing.. we as humans oftentimes gravitate to the negative the way of integrity is not really lauded and respected the way it should be.. the quicker we accept this fact, the better off we probably are Thanks to well over 40 yrs of feminism.. women like this are the norm today. Enjoy your welfare, skank.
Btw.. thanks trump! Thanks for pulling the rug from under these jezebel demons. For the most part, I’m against cutting social programs… but when you see how women are using them to cut men out of the picture, destroy families, and proceed living foolish and vain lives- its hard to argue against. Woman speaks out about a tough issue she has and other women say:
I respect you so much for this powerful testimony. You deserve so much goodness. You stand here before us with beauty knowledge and wisdom and encouragement and hope. I adore your strength. Thank you so much, once again you always help me deal with hard things in my life. You are such a wonderful person. You are such a beautiful soul. I can't thank you enough for your testimony. Man speaks out about a tough issue he has and women say: Ngga stop complainin’ i was talking to a girl recently and she was telling me women want good men who pursue them and all that smh
i didn't argue because at this point i'm so used to women lying that its not worth it to say anything back but look at this song from mc lyte called ruffneck.. in this song she talks about the type of guy she wants.. does any of this sound like a good dude who will pursue a woman with love and respect? u tell me again, this is mc lyte's ruffneck copy and pasted off of genius.com's archive... this is apparently what women like: I need a ruffneck I need a dude with a attitude Only needs his fingers with his food Karl Kani saggin' timbos draggin' Frontin' in his ride with his home boys braggin' Lying 'bout the Lyte how he knocked boots last night But he's a ruffneck so that's alright Triple o baldie under the hood Makin' noise with the boys up to no good C-low on the down low cops come around so ruffneck front like he gotta go Evil grin with a mouth full of gold teeth Startin' beef is how he spells relief Actin' like he don't care But all I gotta do is beep him 911 and he'll be there Right by my side with his ruffneck tactics Ruffneck attitude,the ruffneck bastard I need a ruffneck I need a man that's quick and swift To put out the spliff and get stiff Boxer shorts everything is fitting large Body ain't gotta be large to be in charge Pumpin' in and out and out and in and here we go He knows exactly how I want my flow and that's slow Never questioning can he get buck wild He's gotta smack it,lick it,swallow it up style Drink a beer ,sittin' his chair Hands in his pants fiddlin' with his dick hairs He's a rudeboy,a raggamuf Ready to bag another brother that he ranks not ruff enough Cause if it ain't ruff it ain't right And if he ain't ruff,well then he's all wrong for the Lyte I love my ruffneck and ain't nothing going down Or going up if my ruffneck ain't in town I need a ruffneck I need a man that don't snitch like a bitch Shed tears or switch Doin' whatever it takes to make ends meet But never meetin' the end cause he knows the street Eat sleep shit fuck,eat sleep shit Then it's back to the streets to make a buck quick Quick to beg even though gimme gottem here Hit'em wit a bit a skins then he's out of there On the avenue girls are passin' thru Too much of ruffneck so they ain't havin' you Hard boppin' always grabbin' his jock and braggin' about his tec Is the wannabe ruffneck That's the kind you gotta watch out for Just to get a rep he'll pull the plug on the tour Pissin' in corners Doing 80 by funeral mourners Showing little respect Now that's a ruffneck! she has described an immature degenerate thug with little to no self control women like this... they like men who sell drugs, guys who will just bang them and leave.. guys who have no sense of decency.. she called the man a bastard.. she wants a bastard lol this is how stupid women are this is why we can't even take things women say seriously at all.. because this is how they think.. they want things that will destroy them and leave them as destitute used up single mothers.. really think about this- THEY WANT THIS.. THEY DESIRE THIS .. really let that sink in and then when these same women see guys like me who aren't "ruffnecks" then they say "we want good guys" "we want love and respect" "we want flowers and dates" STOP LYING TO ME U DUMB SKANK!!! i'm soooo tired of women and their double lives.. trying to have me be good to them and treat them like a princess while they play the whore for some filthy ex-con man-child i unapologetically hate you dumb whores this. game. looks. AMAZING. day one purchase for me i text this girl yesterday and she didn't respond, so today she text me this this chick acts like a weirdo.. here she is trying to prove she doesn't want to talk to me i guess
i think one of the most destructive things that is taught to men is to pursue women
we've all heard it our whole lives "women like to be pursued" "pursue women" "show her you care" etc etc i realized years ago that it never worked (although i haven't really understood why until recently) whenever you pursue a woman all she does is run away whenever you avoid a woman she chases you this explains why i always ended up with ugly women while the pretty ones always ignored me i seriously used to wonder (not even that long ago) why is it that i always attract ugly women but the ones i really like avoid me like the plague i couldn't figure it out i remember one day i was talking to a girl named toya and i explained it and she said "well treat the ones u like as if u don't like them and treat the ones u don't like as if u like them" while what she said made sense on some level- i still didn't even try it or consider it because my thought process at the time was- "if i pay the ones i like no attention i'll surely never get them... and if i treat a woman i don't like as if i like her then i'll be leading her on" however today i look at this a little different women only look at things through lenses of strength and weakness and value and non-valuable they don't see effort, commitment, care, adoration, etc they only see through a lens of what they perceive to be strength and weakness.. and they consider the ability to leave and not care, the ability to not call, being busy, being preoccupied, not being available as strength they are viewing that as either "he is pursuing his purpose" or "he has women already" both of which make her want you women don't view longsuffering or patience as strengths in a man.. they view a man's ability to leave and not care as strength.. this is why the nice guy always loses, and women chase the guy who doesn't care about them.. because they only see what they perceive as strength and weakness.. nothing else.. if you put up with her out of love she sees you as a weak coward... love, caring, and giving do not register in her mind at all.. this is why she will pay for a hotel with a guy who uses her and ditch you even though you had a nice date setup for her and paid for CARE DOES NOT REGISTER TO WOMEN so anyway.. my thought process today would probably be "just treat all women like you don't like them" whether they are pretty or not the idea that men should pursue women is literally the absolute worst advice anyone could ever give you women HATE being pursued because if you pursue them they will automatically place you in the "weak" and "not valuable" category i used to think women like being treated like crap.. but i've realized that women don't even perceive how they are being treated.. let me explain ok say you hand a dog some food and you're wearing gym clothes.. the dog will eat the food say you hand a dog some food and you're wearing a 3 piece suit.. the dog will eat the food say you hand a dog some food dressed as a dog.. the dog will eat the food your choice of clothing doesn't matter to the dog in that scenario because the dog is fixated on the food that is how women are.. they don't even perceive treatment at all because they only see what they deem to be strength and weakness so you have to see what women view as a trait of strength and exude that... and also remember women are irrational beings- so what does that mean? i'll explain it but let me tell a little story i remember one day i was talking to a girl and she said something that stuck with me we were talking about how we were both single and couldn't seem to find what we were looking for i was telling her my issues and she replied "you just want what you can't have" i didn't want to break the flow of conversation but that was just crazy to me.. i asked her to explain that and she explained it.. but i was still just sitting there like.. trying to make sense of what she said like i said- i didn't really want to break the flow of conversation so i dropped it but i knew that i had stumbled onto something what i realized was that when she told me i "want what i can't have" the reason that made no sense to me was because that's how SHE thinks.. and more importantly? THAT'S HOW WOMEN THINK women want what they can't have.. i have literally never desired something i can't have.. like that makes no sense to us men.. it makes more sense to just get something that we can have.. it makes sense to get something that can be ours to keep in peace but women legit want what they can't have and this is why they hate being pursued -they want the guy they can't catch -they want the guy who is already married -they want the guy who is out of their league -they want the guy who ignores them -they want the guy who is too busy for them i want you all to think about this also in a pursuit... who is in the position of power? the person who pursues? or the person who is being chased? i'd say the person who is being chased is the one in power because they set all the parameters of the interaction.. and so with that said, this is also why women hate being pursued.. because they perceive you to be in a position of weakness the person being chased is in control because the chaser must adjust to the chasee's program.. the chasee creates the standards and boundaries which the chaser must abide by so right from the get go as soon as you chase a woman, she perceives that you are in a position of weakness and this is why they run away.. and women view things from a social lens anyway, so what that means is, when there are any social dynamics at play- chances are she has a greater sense of them than you do.. so in some cases, before you even notice you're being perceived as weak, she has already moved on from you pursuing them doesn't work.. they don't view it like "oh he is showing me he cares, so let me open up to him" they view it like: "he is too nice" "if he has time to pursue me then he has nothing else going on" "if i'm the only girl he has then obviously he is a low value man" "i can jerk him around so i don't respect him" literally the idea that women like to be pursued by men is one of the biggest lies perpetuated in modern society its just a FLAT OUT LIE i will say it again THE IDEA THAT WOMEN LIKE TO BE PURSUED IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST LIES PERPETUATED IN MODERN SOCIETY DO NOT PURSUE WOMEN, if you do they are automatically going to go into "i can ignore you" mode or "i can devalue u" or "i don't need you" or "i'm too lazy to answer my phone" or "i was washing my hair" or "he's too available" etc etc women only react well to your scarcity which actually kinda makes me think women WILL NOT act right unless they believe they have an incentive which come to think of it- supports my belief that women are men minus integrity (and logic) anyway.. the key is to look at what women deem to be strength and/or value and exude that and then disappear.. let her come to you you may be thinking "well what if she doesn't come around?" that's the whole trap many men get caught in.. you're LEGITIMATELY supposed to not care.. women are essentially trying to detect whether you have an abundance mentality or not.. and a man with an abundance mentality probably will not sweat the loss of a woman because he will have more.. that's why women consider not caring to be a trait of a man who is valuable.. women are trying to gauge whether or not other women like you or whether or not you have options through your conduct if other women like you then if they have you they get a status boost.. its the same reason women like men who are already taken.. they have a herd mentality- they want who all the other women want.. if none of her friends see you as valuable you're probably on thin ice now learning this has brought me to a place where i can see how easily women can be used and manipulated but i'm christian and i would honestly rather be alone than partake in sin and iniquity.. because if i partake in that for a woman then that means the woman is my lord as opposed to Jesus so for me- i'm just going to fly solo unless the Lord gives me a good, virtuous, and submissive woman from His hand because His will is perfect.. remember... "art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife" "a prudent wife comes from the Lord" so we have a choice.. to beat women at their games, or just wait on the Lord like diddy said... "i got no time for fake ones" don't pursue women. |
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