I recently saw a thing on youtube where a woman was telling men what to do if their women don’t respect them See.. This is part of the reason why I say don’t try to figure women out.. because of things like this What I mean is.. as long as you are trying to figure them out you are on the defensive.. you have already lost.. you are trying to figure out “what am I doing wrong?” “how can I change?” “how can I be what she’s looking for?” all of these types of thoughts are exactly what the jezebel spirit wants you to revel in This way you are in a state of confusion, you are weakened because you are putting someone else’s whims above your own personal wants, desires, and convictions.. she walks around knowing you are trying to make her happy and keep her and she feels empowered.. but you are exasperated trying to figure out why you need her but she seems to not need you at all quote from cardi b from Wikipedia: The thing is, every man has a switch inside where we can turn our feelings off, but the reason we don’t is because we truly want that woman.. we are hoping that she will “come around” we are hoping she will see that we care and begin acting right.. but she won’t.. she will just act crazier and crazier Like as a man, if you sin against the Lord you will say: “thank you Lord for not destroying me in my sin. I repent for my iniquity and I want to put it behind me and I want to act right.. you have shown me great mercy” But when women sin against us they have no integrity so they will say something like: “I got away with it, I can get away with even more next time” This is why we can’t spend time trying to figure women out or trying to become what they want, because you’re dealing with someone who doesn’t have integrity.. they don’t take your longsuffering as mercy, patience, or love.. they take your kindness for weakness.. they interpret your care as stupidity let me get back to what I was trying to say about the thing I saw on youtube where a woman was telling men seven things to do if their women don’t respect them The problem with things like this are as follows: The bible says a woman is to submit to her husband and a man is to love his wife In other words, if a woman doesn’t respect her man, that’s like a man not loving his woman so some of you may already see what I’m getting at here if a woman doesn’t respect her man, people tell the man- “change this about yourself” “fix this” “ask her this” “be more attentive to this” the list goes on and on.. the guy automatically is turned into a do-bot.. he must bend to attain her love but when you flip it.. if a man doesn’t love his woman.. what advice will people give to the woman? They will simply say: “leave him” and see this is how you know you as a man are being manipulated.. because they are giving you different advice for the same scenario simply because you're a male the fact is- if a woman doesn't respect you.. you need to leave her.. in the same way that if a man doesn't love a woman, she should leave him but they don't want to tell you to leave that disrespectful woman, because they want to exude power and control over you.. ultimately what they want to lead you to is servitude.. they want you to beg and plead for their love, time, and attention while they go and spend time with a guy who doesn’t care anything about them this is ultimately what many women will lead you to if you don’t realize that the things they say are just manipulations.. they will ultimately have it to where she uses u as the guy who does things for her, and she gets another man who she chooses to do things for.. its like the other day I heard someone say that children only really cry if there’s someone around to hear them.. if you put them in another room across the house then they’ll stop crying and just get out the legos or whatever that’s how women are.. as long as you listen to their complaining and nagging and whining, all they do is do it more and more this is why I say don’t try to figure women out, don’t try to understand them, don’t try to cater to their whims, don’t try to make them happy.. because they don’t have integrity, they are self-centered.. so instead of saying “hey thanks for hearing me out” and keeping it moving- the way a man would.. they will say “hey I got away with that, let me keep doing it” WOMEN DO NOT HAVE INTEGRITY This is one thing I have noticed time and time again.. like men operate with respect and honor.. those things are things we live by as men.. its just in us.. these things are written in our dna and we can spot other men who don’t have integrity, respect, and honor and those are men we don’t really regard as real men.. Like judas for example was a man who didn’t have integrity.. they are scumbags This is why I also call women scumbags often.. because they operate selfishly But the thing you see today is instead of it being a patriarchal society where good men get pure women.. its like a gynocentric society where the biggest scumbag type of men get women and the men of honor get leftovers and that’s where you get statements like “nice guys finish last” Women like men who think the way they think.. I’ve noticed this.. its like women like selfish men.. they don’t like the man who operates with integrity.. the man who says “I’m waiting for marriage” is like a clown to many women.. while the guy who has sex with different women every week is fun and exciting to women.. they want men who are similar to them in mindset.. Women like men who lie and cheat and get what they want without regard to right and wrong They like men who operate that way because that’s the way they operate as women This is also why you should beware of any woman who says “all men do is cheat on me” because it is likely to mean she is an insincere person.. the reason she is being treated insincerely is because she is insincere.. this is also why they are able to leave you so easily- because they were never honest with you in the first place.. you showed up to the relationship as yourself while they used their representative the whole time.. they were never genuine The funny thing about insincerity is even if it can’t be seen, it can be felt- so when you meet women who are always being cheated on.. many times they are insincere and disingenuous women.. because men can sense that, and those men may cheat- but that oftentimes makes the woman look like the victim when in reality she is the sole cause of her problems.. because of course- who wants to commit to someone who is disingenuous? Also when women say “all men cheat” another thing u will have to look for is disrespect.. again- a woman saying “all men have cheated on me” makes her look like the victim, but if she is disrespectful to men (which many of these women are) then it makes perfect sense why they cheat.. they absolve themselves of any fault by saying men cheat but the reality is they are not good women flat out Anyway what was I saying… basically do not try to figure a woman out.. don’t try to become what she wants If you do, she will not ever give you rest Just live your own life and let the cards fall as they may Let women destroy themselves.. don’t try to save them because many times (like the song says) they don’t want to be saved Let them go, don’t let their beauty capture your mind Let them just live their stupid and vain lives Maybe one day the Lord will give you a good woman from His hand, just do His will and put your hope in him Remember shadrach, meshak, and Abednego.. what is the probability of standing in fire and not being burned? ZERO But with God that whole scenario changes So when you look around and see no decent women.. understand there may very well be ZERO decent women But with God that whole scenario changes Again DO NOT TRY TO FIGURE WOMEN OUT DO NOT TRY TO BE WHAT THEY WANT DO NOT TRY TO GIVE THEM WHAT THEY ASK FOR JUST DO WHAT GOD TELLS YOU TO DO.. DO NOT PAY WOMEN ANY ATTENTION BECAUSE THEY WILL USE THAT AGAINST YOU THEY WILL USE YOUR LOVE, CARE, TIME, AND ATTENTION AGAINST YOU LET WOMEN DESTROY THEMSELVES, IF GOD GIVES YOU A WOMAN THEN LOVE HER AND KEEP HER BUT LET THE REST JUST WASTE THEIR LIVES, BEAUTY, PURITY, AND WHATEVER ELSE If they want to be with thugs, let them If they want to smoke, let them If they want to be feminists, let them If they want to be argumentative, let them The list goes on When I say “let them” I mean don’t try to love them out of their ignorance and foolishness Let folly have its way with them… getting in the way of folly can be like stepping in front of a freight train Let folly have its way with the wayward and foolish I hope I am conveying this message in a way where it can help men and keep them from many of the headaches I’ve had God bless and stay on your mission men You’re a maverick
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