here is a youtube video based on one of my comments i left on a video the comment he reads here was mine.. he legit made this video the same day i left the comment inadvertently, this is more confirmation that my ex cheated on me as well.. since he said it was likely that she was doing that based on my comment its also more confirmation that she was straight demonic lol btw here's the comment in written form: the main problem i've had with stuff like this in the past is: if i didn't fix whatever problem she concocted then we wouldn't speak, because she would just give me the silent treatment.. but when i would come to her to fix the issue she would consider that to be weakness on my part.. so it was like she was using my love and care against me... so i don't know that i can cosign staying with a woman like this.. the bottom line is they're not submissive and they have no humility.. i get what ur saying about "stand your ground and she will come back around" but my thing is.. DO YOU WANT HER BACK? how long until she pulls another stunt? she doesn't have a submissive heart so why even contend with her ? i've dealt with it enough to understand its a trap and a cycle.. to me, her games aren't a sign for me to act more alpha or whatever.. to me her games are a sign that she is worthless ok the comment is over but i want to clear something up.. when i said "stuff like this" what i was referring to was women who only submit when you act a certain way.. for some they want you to choke them, for some they want you to cuss them out, for some they want to bring u into an argument, for some they want to provoke you and have you act unbothered, for some they want you to "put them in their place" etc the problem with this like i said was "how long until she pulls another stunt?" and when she does- her requirement of an emotional response will likely be worse than the first time... maybe at first she just wants you to raise your voice.. but who is to say that next time she won't want you to manhandle her? they are bringing you down to their level.. they want u to act like an ex-con before they respect you.. that's not a good woman i've said before that we want to please women so bad that we try to live up to whatever character they want us to play but that needs to just end to me "ending it" doesn't mean passing all of her tests... ending it means cutting her out of your life once you see the unnecessary tests.. at the very least she's telling you she doesn't trust you and at most she's a rebellious, manipulative, liar, and a cheater (because all of those essentially go together) women don't want a man who only loves them sometimes, so you also don't want a woman who only respects you sometimes.. so don't even bother.. either she does her part fully or she is worthless so should a man only love when its convenient? should he revoke his love on whim? or should he love her as Christ loved the church? should women only submit when their man acts like 2pac? or should she submit to her husband AS UNTO THE LORD IN ALL THINGS? this was the root of my comment all of that "act masculine" "act alpha" crap is borderline pua (pick up artist) talk.. imo u can avoid all of that and just drop her and A. be alone or B. find a woman who actually legitimately respects you, your words, and your actions.. without you having to yell, or turn up, or shake her, and even without having to ignore 30 minutes of her nagging and complaining to pass her test of seeing if she can throw you off or not... if she's testing you at all she's showing you who she is.. look at samson and delilah for further reference done.
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