in this entry i want to give one reason why women should think twice about having sex before marriage
this is something i haven't heard anyone else talk about so please listen.. first let me set it up.. i'm going to put the setup between some lines, then i will get to the point ________________ ok so one thing i've noticed about women is they don't really want to make decisions because they seem to have this thing about not wanting pressure on themselves they feel that if they make a wrong decision then the situation falls back on them and they don't want that .. so they shy away from decision making more than men do i believe this is also part of the reason why women don't really put themselves out there when it comes to relationships they generally wait for a man to approach they typically just find a way to get in a man's vicinity and wait for him to bite the bait.. but generally women are not direct because again- they do not want to express interest because they want the man to feel like everything was his idea.. they don't want the responsibility of initiating an interaction or relationship i had to say all that to set it up, now i will get to the point ________________ one good reason why women should not have sex before marriage is because it will keep them from having to be a decision maker when it comes to relationships what i mean is this if a woman is open for business then she can be approached by 100 guys and then she will be placed in a position to have to choose from 100 guys if a woman is closed for business then she she can be approached by 100 guys BUT some will not stick around when they realize she is not giving up the goods.. so she will only have to choose from men who actually take her seriously as marriage material because the men who don't take her seriously will leave if sex is genuinely not in the picture so there is my point by not having sex before marriage a woman essentially does two important things 1. decreases her bad options 2. makes clear what her good options are so let me do a quick overview of what i'm saying here if a woman has sex outside of marriage- men will be with her just for sex.. this wastes her time and makes her good options basically invisible.. because how can she know who is who.. the commitment minded man approaches her the same way as the guy who only wants one thing so if she has 100 guys who are interested, that woman must legit choose from all 100 to find out who to be with this puts her in the position of the chooser, which i believe is somewhat stressful to a woman she must choose.. and if it fails, everything is basically her fault now lets look at the woman who doesn't have sex before marriage (sidenote, this must be genuine.. the men must know sex is not an option whatsoever- it cannot be wishy washy, if its wishy washy then this woman will be in the same position as the previous woman) ok so this woman makes it clear she will not ever have sex unless she is married since this is so clear, men have 2 options 1. exit stage left 2. stay around and enjoy a relationship until he feels ready to marry so she starts off with 100 guys off top, lets say 75 leave since there's no sex on the table.. does that sound bad? if you believe that sounds bad let me explain something THIS WOMAN NOW HAS 25 MEN WHO ARE ACTUALLY WILLING TO POSSIBLY MARRY HER ONE DAY DO YOU WANT 100 MEN WHO WANT YOU FOR SEX OR 25 MEN WHO ARE WILLING TO PUT A RING ON IT? ok so we have now established this woman has 25 men who are about more than just sex now all decisions are much easier because they all like her for her so she can rest in that and now all she has to do is look at things like drive, motivation, attractiveness, career, money, etc so she can pick the one with the best attributes out of the 25 and she doesn't have to think "well i'm making this decision on my own" because these men have shown they actually care by sticking around in a sexless relationship their presence alone shows their care.. sort of like how if a woman stays with me when i'm broke- it shows she really cares.. just like how tashera was with dmx.. she was with him well before his fame and money so anyway.. this whole method that i've described moves the woman from a stressful position of choosing from 100 men who could be just out for one thing to a position of choosing the best of the bunch of men who are commitment minded and genuine yall can tell me if u feel this makes sense or not i feel that this makes perfect sense, and it sounds to me like a winning strategy for single women i could say more but hopefully u all get the jist of what i am saying
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