if a woman is in counseling or therapy for a prolonged period of time, she is not relationship material
as a general rule i would say the cutoff point (and i feel like i'm being fairly generous) is about 2 years i did counseling myself so i'm not against it.. it helped me to unravel some things from my past that were affecting me in the present i was in counseling for less than 2 months.. i think people can be in it longer depending on the level of trauma they have.. but once people get past (in my opinion) around 2 years.. its generally no longer a means to an end, but a way of life when you meet these women who have been in therapy for like 5 or 6 years, those women are certified nuts.. they are also incredibly self absorbed.. they want to keep talking about themselves and they don't want any judgment.. so a lot of times they are also very stubborn when i say stubborn what i mean is, they don't want to hear anyone telling them the truth, they just want to do things their own way.. they want to be able to do something ridiculous without hearing the truth about it.. because the therapist isn't going to say "you're acting like an idiot" so my point is- women who have been in therapy for these prolonged periods of time 5, 6, 7, 8 years and beyond are not relationship material one thing you have to understand is this.. they are telling their therapist everything they aren't telling you so your relationship is basically doomed from the start.. they don't come to you with issues and problems, they go to their therapist.. how do u achieve emotional intimacy with someone who is dealing with all of their relationship issues outside the actual relationship? these women are worthless, they are hollow beings.. you can get with them and try to love them but they are essentially on a different planet.. they do not have their feet planted in your relationship.. their confidant is on their payroll again i'm pro therapy but watch out for these women who make it their way of life, they are legit crazy, self centered, and unable to grow i cannot stand these women.. i've actually had women tell me "i'm not telling you, i'm telling my therapist" ok well just date your therapist, skank i just want to point this out.. if a woman tells you she has been in counseling a long time it is a serious red flag that you are dealing with someone who refuses to grow that person is stuck in an arrested development, they're adult children.. they have no accountability and your relationship with them will be horrible just wanted to share this red flag for everyone to avoid
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