i did not edit this yet.. maybe later.. if i edit it, i'll remove this sentence
i want to give my thoughts on when women don't give u a chance its one thing for a woman to not like u.. that's fine.. but i'm talking about, when they don't give u any type of chance at all.. like where they are always avoiding you or acting like they didn't get your call, email, text, etc like they won't even have a conversation with u at all in my experience, women like these oftentimes aren't in good relationships if she won't give u a chance it means she won't really have a conversation with u.. so in other words, she is rejecting you based on appearances.. she's not rejecting you based on information she gathered about you.. she is rejecting you based on outward appearances, like height, income, etc etc if a woman turns u down based on appearances, on the flip side of that- oftentimes they will chase a guy based on appearances.. so a lot of these women end up alone or in unfulfilling relationships because the truth is, "mr horrible" typically isn't so horrible and "mr perfect" typically isn't so perfect a more genuine person would at least chop it up, have a conversation, give u a chance to speak or whatever for example.. if u work the same job as a woman, she may think "we both make $35K i'm not interested" but if she had a conversation with u she might find out you trade stocks on weekends or something or she may not like that a guy isn't 6 feet, but if she at least gave him a chance, she might see that he's really funny i'm not saying people need to be with unattractive options but im saying people should look at the whole picture for example.. if i only looked at appearances, my dream girl would basically be meg thee stallion or a porn star or something.. because they look really good, have big butts, big boobs, etc but if i look at the whole picture and i factor in character, relationship with God, humility, goals, etc.. then all of a sudden meg thee stallion and porn stars no longer look like the perfect options so this is my assessment of women who don't give u a chance at all chances are they only look at appearances, and oftentimes they lose because of that, because there is more to the equation than what is on the surface for example.. a woman could be with a man who is handsome and 6ft6 so she feels like he's strong and has value... but when that same man gets her pregnant and tells her to abort the kid.. that's not manly.. that's no strong.. he's not taking care of his responsibilities, he is showing her he only cares about himself.. not her trauma that is sure to follow, not the life of the baby, nothing so if u meet a woman who doesn't let you get past "hello" she is likely ONLY looking at outward appearances, don't feel bad, she might have some growing to do as a person again.. i want to point out, this is not about rejecting someone after you get to know them.. this is when you are rejected and that woman never let you even get to a conversation she effectively knows nothing about you as a person
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