so derrick jaxn has been caught cheating shout out to tasha k.. her channel is gold lol i want to just give my experience with derrick jaxn if i remember correct, when i stumbled across him at first, it was a decent video but soon after, i realized he was pandering anyway.. when i was with my horrible ex i remembered feeling like she was cheating on me a lot.. something just felt wrong sometimes when i would be around her.. and she started doing things like i remember i would contact her at times when she shouldn't have been busy but she would still ignore me i just remember asking her if there was someone else but she said no.. she assured me there was no one else at all and it was all in my head well anyway as u can imagine- we had issues in our "relationship" so one day we decided to put the past behind us and sort of start over.. we decided this and i'm thinking "ok clean slate we will just enjoy each other and not have the same issues we've been having" well a few hours later she sent me a text saying watch this, its really good.. it was a derrick jaxn video.. i looked at it and the whole video was about how if u don't do certain things in a relationship your girl will cheat on you once she knew i saw the video she text me and said "i wonder if you knew something was going on" to be 100% honest with whoever is reading this.. i don't like sharing that or remembering it.. it was extremely hurtful.. it cut me to my heart so anyway as you can tell, it was basically a confirmation that she had been seeing someone the whole time i suspected she had been seeing someone but as soon as i started asking her "what wat that supposed to mean" and stuff she started gaslighting me again.. basically not confirming or denying, just blowing smoke basically so that was my experience with derrick jaxn.. a very hurtful situation.. and i don't blame him for the situation but i do believe he somewhat contributed to some negativity because he was giving women (including my ex) a cosign on all of their nonsense however something happened where i stopped dissing derrick jaxn.. i couldn't believe it but he really helped me to heal one day here's what happened.. throughout that horrible "relationship" my ex used to always tell me to "put her in her place" this was always the stupidest thing in the world to me.. to me it sounded like she wanted me to basically like yell at her, or cuss her out, or slap her or something i never knew what she was talking about because under no circumstance ever would i tell someone to put me in my place i had absolutely no idea what she was talking about i got online, and found that derrick jaxn believe it or not was the only person who really talked about it in depth and his video made me feel so much better because when i listened to it- i realized i wasn't the dysfunctional one.. she was this video helped me to heal SO MUCH because i had been beaten down for so long and told "you don't know how to put me in my place" so many times i just didn't know what to do with myself i didn't understand what she was saying or why but she just continually pecked at me with this stuff so derrick's video was exactly what i needed.. it revealed the truth, that she was just broken, damaged, immature, childish, and ignorant i never signed up to be someone's parent, i wanted a girlfriend derrick showed me the truth of what my "girlfriend" was.. a lost child disguised as an adult woman so those were my experiences with derrick jaxn.. i used to think he was a moron, but once he helped me heal through that video- i never dissed him again but as for his cheating.. that's for him to deal with i do think he has been a hypocrite and i think he has been more destructive than constructive to black relationships but if he stops the hypocrisy and lies i do believe he could offer some genuine help.. because i believe his video that helped me was genuine but yes i do believe he has been very destructive by telling women they don't have to put up with anything when we already know women are fickle.. so to add to that is just to keep men and women apart.. and another problem is- he always made women think if they left their man, there would be some tall, football player looking, six figure making, long wiener having guy right around the corner and its just not realistic AT ALL especially in a climate where most of these women are single mothers so anyway do i think derrick got what he deserved, being exposed by tasha k? yes do i hate him? no.... but yes i do believe he got what he deserved
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