i think i just figured out why women lie about how they look online
when i say "lie" i mean.. this is why they post pictures at angles trying to look slimmer than they are.. and why they post pictures only from the neck up etc i used to feel like i didn't understand women because when they do this, they are actually missing out on men who like how they actually look for example, i'm not into skinny women, so if a woman posts pictures that make her look skinny, i may skip over her.. so that woman has then missed out on a guy like me who likes her how she is so i never understood why they would do such a thing, because essentially they are setting themselves up for rejection well, the thing is this.. i think i may have made a mistake thinking that women actually want men who are interested in them, or men who are "in their league" i think a more accurate assumption is that women want what they can't have.. women want to chase, women want someone who has higher status than they have etc etc they don't want a guy they can just get, they want the guy who is just out of reach, because in their minds it upgrades their status one easy way to see this in society is lizzo saying she wants someone in the nba or nfl.. lizzo can get a guy who likes her for her or a guy "on her level" but she doesn't want that guy, she wants the guy who is above her level.. she wants the guy who would typically never look at her.. because if she gets with an athlete, then in her mind it makes her have the same value and status as one of these 23yr old instagram model chicks the athletes typically like so i just wanted to put this out there women put out these pictures to look thinner to use a false bait to attract a better looking/ higher status man.. and they know its a roll of the dice but in their mind, its the only way to win because getting a guy who just likes them isn't a win, its too easy in their minds, its not a challenge, its not exciting, its not new.. they only want higher levels than what they should be able to get so they use the false bait and roll the dice "ok he might see how fat i really am and leave, but if he doesn't then i win.. i get to enjoy the higher status and act like i deserve to be in the higher status because he accepts me" i believe women don't just do this with weight but also with things like upbringing (he has a good family and upbringing meanwhile she was raised in poverty with just a single mother) or also things like morals (he tries to live right and go to church, but she's been banging different men and smoking weed and getting abortions) ...they also do it with money and career.... so everything i've just detailed here are the types of things women lie about.. because they know they have a lower status than you but they don't want you to know that so they lie about the amount of effort they put into eating right or exercising they lie about their upbringing and background they lie about their sexual past and how they feel about things like drug use or abortion they also lie about their careers and money.. making them sound more grand than what they actually are because they want to "come up" without you knowing the role you play in that come up i hope this sheds light for any men who read this.. feel free to leave a comment and let me know what u think again, i realize i was wrong to think women wanted men who are interested in them.. they want the guy who isn't because deep down, oftentimes she knows he isn't interested because he can do better.. if she wins him over then to her its a challenge, status upgrade, and an ego boost if the coveted athlete accepts lizzo, then she can look at the 23 yr old instagram model and say "see, you got nothin on me" whereas if the athlete does not accept lizzo then she must accept her spot as the goofy fat chick who doesn't typically command a ton of attention lol in their minds its about status
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