have you ever noticed how often women say things like "i want something real this time" or "i want a relationship, not just sex"
all this means is she has a pattern of flings that were based on sex these women are not serious about relationships so why do they say they're serious about relationships when they really aren't? they see their friends in actual relationships and at times they think they may be missing something by comparison so they decide to say they "want something real" so they can have you approach them like a gentleman and they can tell their girlfriends they went on a real date the problem with this is they are telling YOU to be a gentleman, meanwhile she herself is still the same woman she's always been at heart.. this is why all she does is destroy the relationship, treat you with disrespect, lie to you, deceive you, cheat on you, etc.. because she lacks the self awareness to realize she is the reason she has traditionally been treated as a fling a respectable person would say "i have had a string of lust-filled friends with benefits relationships and i don't have commitment and can't build a family on this, so let me change MYSELF" but what women do is they say "i'll just tell the next guy that i'm not that type of girl and i'll tell him i want a real relationship" so what this does is it puts her responsibility onto you.. its really her responsibility to get her mind and heart right wih God so that she can be a wife, but instead she throws it onto you and tells you to TREAT HER like a wife in other words- they think they're not wife material because they haven't been being treated like wife material by "stupid men" ..but the fact is they aren't wife material because of their own mind, heart, and behavior so this is where the average guy comes along.. he comes along and sees "hey this girl is saying she wants a real relationship." so he reasons: "she's not going to be playing games with me." WRONG since she has never held herself accountable in the first place and she just blamed men for her issues- she is going to do the same thing in the relationship.. meaning she will act the same way she always has and then blame you for all of the issues this is what you will get from her: "its your fault i lied to you" "its your fault i flirt with other men" "its your fault i have no peace" "its your fault i cheated on you" "its your fault i'm always upset and complain about everything" "its your fault i have never truly forgiven whoever hurt me in the past" "its your fault i wear my pain instead of moving past it" another thing to realize about women who say things like "i want something real this time" or "i want a relationship, not just sex" is this: they have gone in and out of "relationships" repeatedly which means she won't have any allegiance, loyalty, or commitment to you she has no "we're going to work this out" button.. all she has is the silent treatment button, the "do it or else" button and the i'm leaving button (which is typically just the "i'm cheating on you" button) if she has left 30 guys prior to you then do you really think she'll have a hard time leaving you? she has developed a habit of just jumping ship whenever she feels like it.. she won't put real effort into anything.. she will likely have one foot in and one foot out the entire time you're with her good luck trying to walk into marriage with this type of woman the truth is she will leave you at the first sign of something she doesn't like because that is what she has always done in "relationships" that have everything except commitment the other problem with this is it adds to women's narcissism.. because if you're used to "i get what i want or i leave" then of course that contributes to you being spoiled and gives you an inordinate affection to self remember: in the last days perilous times shall come. men shall be lovers of their own selves steer clear of women who say "i want something real this time" or "i want a relationship, not just sex" because she is really just saying "i have had a string of fake relationships that i never took seriously" and "i have a history of having relationships based on nothing but illicit sex" which means the chances of you being able to pull a wife out of this shell of a woman are nil
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