i was on a forum today and this guy posted something that reminded me of something i posted on there months prior
i will post everything here to show u how real a lot of the things i say are.. not to toot my own horn but just to show im not just talking when i say what i say to start off, here's a forum post i did months ago: has a woman ever left your life and had u sittin there like: "how is it that i can like her so much but she likes me so little?" or "how can i like her so much but she is willing to throw me away so easily?" like when ur with someone and ur having fun u kinda assume that person is having fun also.. but when they just throw u out the window- u think to yourself- "there's no way she could've liked me the way i liked her.. because she just cut me off like im nothing" and u just think "dang she must've just been acting the whole time" or "dang she must've just been tolerating me and nothing else" any thoughts, stories, or insights? ok, now that you've peeped that.. let me move on to what the guy posted today: I have damn near been working out nonstop since my last break up My heart broke like a MF and the only good distraction been pumping iron, doing pullups, push-ups, sit-ups.... I'm getting ripped but I still want the bitch back mane damn The relationship ended right on time, I ain't gonna lie... But damn I wish I could still be friends/cordial at least, she won't even talk to me. (I got a suspicion that the bitch don't have the backbone to tell me she found someone else.) I done did more pushups than I can count today, I ain't cheat or nothing. Shit a got damn shame... But these gainz making the pain bittersweet. Best relationship I been in, I thought we was going all the way with it. Had me feeling like a king when it was going good. ok so there u were able to see that he is experiencing today- something that i brought up months ago... when i bring up women's behavior, im not just talking anyway.. the last thing i want to show is what i said in response to his post today.. here's what i said: u just experienced something i talked about in this section like 2 months ago.. my post is still up, its called "when they throw you out the window" the only way i can understand it is they had to've been pretending the whole time and that in my opinion is a trauma-inducing slap in the face i have a theory that if u watch how women act in the beginning of a relationship, it can help u to see if she's going to try to pretend or not what i mean by that is, if you see that she just lets u talk and she says almost nothing, she's probably not just "a good listener" she is actually trying to learn who u are and not tell u who she is i feel like that is what blindsides us because she has the ability to mirror us, know what we like and don't like.. and this way she can actively hide anything we don't like, and show us anything we do like, and have us thinking we hit the jackpot.. thus securing our interest until she decides to leave her reason for leaving could be nearly anything since she never divulged any real information about herself to us until she leaves, she is likely just using the man for his benefits until she ghosts him.. i mean how else can u explain why everything is perfect one day, and the next day they basically hate u? the benefits u provide her are things like attention, affection, compliments, dinners, protection, vacations, fixing things, moving furniture, etc whenever u provide a benefit, there's usually someone who wants the benefit without giving the proper reciprocation thats what these women are ok im back.. so there u have it, and for anyone who wonders why i post this stuff.. in the end, im just all about understanding u get tired of women doing things that leave u confused and frustrated, so i'm all about getting an understanding and exposing whatever i learn hopefully it helps guys to not be manipulated and/or played in the future
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