in this entry I want to talk about the things women want the most in a relationship with a man
these are from my experiences in life (1 = most important to women, 7 = least) 1. they want their friends to envy something about you this is basically some measure of all the other ones... so in a sense, looks is number 1.. however if she senses that her friends like you despite one or two issues with your looks then that trumps looks for her 2. they want you to have good looks looks encompasses height, amount of body fat, clothing, posture, haircut, etc.. the way a woman treats you is based on what you look like 3. they want you to have income if you don't have income she may have to lie to her friends about that to save face... but keepin it 100, if you look just that good then she and her friends will give you a pass 4. social status women like men with social status because to them it reminds them that you have value.. she doesn't want to be the only person who sees your value.. if she is the only person then she feels pressured.. women have no problem cheering you on when everyone else does too.. but if she's your only cheerleader she feels like you must not be that great 5. some type of ambition ambition is something that helps her to respect you.. if she sees you sitting around a lot she is likely to lose respect for you 6. good personality personality allows her to bring you around other people in her life without worrying you will embarrass her.. bringing you places around people she knows helps her to establish your identity as a couple from time to time 7. treat them well believe it or not, this is the last one.. we men typically lead with this one but women really aren't concerned with this.. of course they want good treatment on some level but this isn't really a deal breaker with women if you have the other things.. the fact of the matter is- she will put up with a lot if you have a good presentation conclusion: if we put some effort into vanity then we are likely to get better treatment from women I think generally, good men lead with character, substance, integrity, care, honor, etc.. but women will look at you like you're some type of boy scout they want a guy with a really good presentation more than anything else- because to her that screams "value" more than anything else look at celebrities.. women don't know those men but they like the pomp and circumstance surrounding them.. the presentation, the clothing, the fact that other women like that man look at the average guy.. he is upstanding and he is honorable but that means nothing to women they would rather chase the man with status and presentation than be at peace with the man who leads with love and substance
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