one of the worst things a woman can do is have sex outside of marriage
when women do it, it causes men to not feel comfortable with them as a longterm partner... which is what women ultimately want- that longterm partner type of validation and security another thing it does is it ruins the man's sense of ownership over that woman.. that sense of ownership is like a glue that keeps the man close to her women complain and say things like "you don't own me" but then they turn around and say things like "i want to be yours" or "i'm his" or "he caught me" which are statements that show possession a man's protection and love for a woman are like a possessive type of thing.. why would you attempt to protect and value and pour into something you don't take ownership of? a man needs to feel like a woman is really "his" to feel secure and to feel like she is really worth sacrificing for so this is where many women screw up they go out and have sex with different men and then when they finally find husband material, the husband doesn't feel nearly as comfortable with her as would be necessary for a lasting commitment he imagines her having sex with the men in her past and it ruins his whole image of her.. she's not perfect in his eyes anymore and they both suffer for it she doesn't get his pure love and he doesn't get her pure love the best thing for women to do is really just wait for marriage the reason i talk about this with women more than men is because women don't seem to care about this as much.. men are the ones who take sexual past seriously.. women on the other hand just don't seem to care, they think things like "he's sexually experienced, this is great" while men think "she's sexually experienced, she was some guy's whore" its really hard to see a woman like a sweet princess when u know she has taken on multiple wieners... i mean.. it really plays on your mind.. you're thinking of her sweating, you're thinking of the bed creaking, you're wondering what she said to him, you're thinking about what secret thing they shared and if they are still keeping in contact, you wonder if he satisfied her more than you and if she misses him, you feel like your interactions with her are now tainted a woman having sex outside of marriage is seriously one of the most destructive things to the concepts of marriage and longterm relationships because she essentially makes herself hard to love when it comes to men, i think men have a different criteria of things that are important ... i think for men its good for us to be able to make money and provide and also protect and have wisdom etc in other words.. while women should make sure not to make themselves hard to love, men should make sure not to make themselves hard to respect btw i'm not saying men should have sex out of wedlock.. i believe we all should try to remain pure.. i just think its worse when women do it based on gender dynamics anyway.. just wanted to speak on this stuff i want all men reading this to just sit back and think on something imagine the last one or two women you really liked now imagine if you knew they were virgins......... what would that have changed for you and for the relationship? feel free to leave a comment and sound off
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