i know I've barely been back long enough to say hello but i have been wanting to get something off my chest recently
I've just wanted to talk about how we identify ourselves as men we oftentimes fall into this trap where we get our identity through what women think of us but i believe its time out for that we have to be able to be ourselves even if people threaten to not like us because of it women can cause us to stop playing video games women can cause us to overspend for things women can cause us to stop being content with the success we've garnered they can cause us to compare ourselves to others they can convince us that our clothes aren't nice enough they can convince us that our cars aren't nice enough they can convince us that we are boring and not entertaining enough the list goes on but we really have to get back to who we are.. i think the reason why many of us men begin seeing ourselves through the eyes of women is because we want them so bad and we've been ignored by them for such a long time so when we truly want them, we think "ok if i become what she wants then she will want me" but that won't work.. all that will do is make her continue to move the goalpost you have to be yourself and live your best life and not allow a woman to move you this mindset is what keeps you as the leader of your life.. the captain of your ship and the captain of whoever seeks to sail with you you want to be the leader and not co-captain.. u want to be the sole leader of your operation and you doing your own thing the way you feel it should be done (of course within the Lord's guidelines) is what will keep you in the driver's seat don't give women too much power and/or influence over you.. when they tell u video games are immature, blow them off.. when they tell u that you need to broaden your horizons aka "spend your time and money and take me on a vacation" when you know you don't feel like it, tell them no.. when they try to mold you, just stand firm in who u are and why and don't allow them to sway you even if they try to redecorate your place.. we have accepted that women decorate in our society but the truth is if its your place she still needs your permission my point isn't "say no to everything" my point is, u be the captain of your ship.. there is no co-captain, there is one captain and everyone else is a passenger.. this mindset will allow u the room you need to be the man you were destined to be
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