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ok so another reason why you can't please her is because she can't feel a few years back here on the site i remember saying there are some women you can't seem to please.. they just seem to have no interest in anything, you take them out and treat them well but they never seem excited and they never seem particularly happy and they never grow attached to you i remember wondering why that was well, what i'm about to say is part of the answer many women today can't feel the reason they can't feel is because some male in their past hurt them and they are just ruined by it imo this is part of where the term "damaged goods" comes from.. because women get hurt and it's like they never get over it, they take it with them and in many ways it just plain ruins them altogether because it continues to manifest in their actions for years when you come into the picture- you meet this girl and you try everything to win her affection but she never seems to warm up to you.. you see this and for a while you just try harder but over time you just realize something isn't right you begin to see that she will never show you that she cares or that she appreciates you or that she is beginning to enjoy spending time with you as much as you enjoy spending time with her everything is available with these women except their heart their heart can't be won.. it's just plain off limits as a man, when you see this the best thing for you to do is to cut ties you can tell her you care all day everyday but she either won't believe you, or won't allow herself to believe you.. you're better off being with a woman who has the capacity to care, attach, love, and reciprocate another thing to note is a lot of these women actually think they are empowered by not caring and not being able to attach so the very thing that is repulsive to you is the primary thing that she is proud of about herself.. this means she is completely worthless to you because you can't teach her that not caring is not a strength.. she won't view it as you removing a roadblock to love, commitment, and solidarity.. she will view it as you trying to "weaken" her by the time you meet a woman she has gone through many emotional highs and lows with previous men, so when you meet them they are like a numb shell and they've built an insurmountable wall she can't feel anymore lets break this down: can't feel = lacks true emotions oftentimes the primary ones you will find to be lacking are sadness, empathy, and basic contentment the lack of these then equals out to her feeling numb more than the average person... being numb = boredom and/or emptiness this woman can be awful because she may actually seek to feel something... she might say something like "i need some excitement" ...she may be the type to flirt with other men, and/or cheat, or she may be the type of woman who picks fights and won't allow you to have peace etc.. because just having a regular day with you is boring to them they can act like everything's good for a while but when they start causing issues oftentimes it's because she can't feel... she is numb and must be on an emotional rollercoaster just to feel something.. this is why you always feel like she's testing you and/or is totally unpredictable this is part of the reason why i say women lack self awareness because many times they think not being able to feel is a good thing.. they reason "if i lock my emotions away and become a cyborg then can't be hurt!" ..but this numbness is the same thing that causes them to always have turmoil in their lives and never have steady peace or a steady relationship.. it also causes a total lack of emotional intimacy for her and the guy (i would say especially for the guy) note, being unable to properly "feel" is not just mental and emotional, it's also physical which is why many women say they are not satisfied sexually.. women go from man to man thinking it won't affect them but it does so watch out for women who cannot feel because this is a category of women you will either not be able to please or will have a very hard time pleasing they have had pleasurable sex with men, they have had their hearts broken, they have played and they have been played, they thought someone was the one but realized he wasn't, some of these women have children by previous men, some have abortion memories, some have been engaged, some have stds, some have been divorced, some have a complex, they have been through it all what i'm saying is, by the time you get her, she is used up and oftentimes just numb take nicki minaj for example.. in the past few years we've seen her go from safaree, to meek mill, to nas (no telling who else behind the scenes) and she also has at least one known abortion under her belt imagine you're next in line for her.. do you think you're going to get a woman without baggage who is open, vulnerable, and ready to love you? even worse yet, look at amber rose.. how sincere do you think she really is in any relationship she's in? even look around at women you know in your own life the bottom line is you can't properly or fully please a woman who can't feel... and many of these women are numb to a man's love, touch, time, attention, compliments, etc you take her out, you show her the best you have to offer, you try to keep a smile on her face, but her heart isn't even present don't waste your time.. if you realize a woman can't feel, cut her loose.. she can't feel she can't attach, can't care, may not be grateful, may not even be able to grow you deserve better than to be with someone you can never please you're worth more than an empty shell
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