in this i want to explain two relationship setups and how i believe they only benefit one gender
cohabitation imo benefits men open relationships imo benefit women ok lets proceed: they say cohabitation without marriage benefits men i agree with that men are getting the wife experience without the wife commitment.. also in a lot of these cases, women are paying half of everything he is getting every benefit and she is getting nothing.. she's just getting older and losing smv (sexual marketplace value) and in some of these cases, these women don't even have kids and the man is actively against pregnancy.. so she actually doesn't even get a child my ex g/f chrissy is currently in this situation.. in my opinion these are the female version of simps chrissy has no marriage, no kids, wasted her childbearing years with this guy.. and he's apparently not even a christian.. so she doesn't really get to practice her faith the way she wants.. no offense to them or anything but im just telling u what i was told by her like 2 years ago anyway.. i want to explain the setup that i think benefits women i think open relationships benefit women women already don't like listening to men.. men are like parents to women.. women see men sometimes as being like.. restrictive.. the man brings structure to her life.. without him she is oftentimes all over the place an open relationship is a situation where a woman gets to have her cake and eat it too.. women love doing this dual mating strategy thing where they have a guy for stability and money and a guy for excitement and sex open relationships allow women to do that.. men don't get anything out of this really because as a man u can have other women but a lot of times u have to chase them the woman just calls up whatever guy and bangs him.. the guy however, doesn't generally have it that easy.. he has to go acquire another woman.. he oftentimes will have to go play that cat and mouse game of dating, talking, entertaining, paying for things, etc also the woman will live in a detached state that will make the man dislike being in the relationship altogether the man is possessive over the woman naturally.. the woman isn't that way over the man so the man loses and the woman wins in this setup the man is basically just a guy who pays bills and provides stability, but he is not receiving any purity, dedication, or intimacy from his woman when i say intimacy i mean emotional intimacy because her life will be full of secrets, she won't be open anymore
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