i think i've talked about this before but i want to touch on it again because someone on youtube asked
"when did u first realize there was something wrong with the person you were with (the narcissist)" i just want to post what i said here's what i said: 1. she said she wanted to lose weight and i said "you don't need to lose weight i like you how u are" she went completely off on me.. she said i never support her in anything and really brow beat me... i remember being sort of shocked initially, but later i thought: "this woman is crazy because she actually was upset at me for liking her exactly as she is" they say narcissists will use you as a punching bag, i think this^ was an example of that 2. she said she wanted a peanut butter cup one day.. so the next time i saw her i gave her a reese's.. she was like "why are u giving me this? i never would have asked for this, maybe it was one of your other girlfriends who asked for it and ur getting us confused" ..and she listed a number of candybars she would have preferred.. because i "must've heard her wrong" because she "doesn't even really like reese's" ....i finally said ok and i just put the reese's on my kitchen counter top.. when she left, i looked over at the counter and the reese's was gone this is what popped up when i googled "crazymaking" crazymaking - domestic abuse intended to cause self doubt Crazymaking occurs when your partner tells you what they want, but when you do it, they claim that you didn't do it correctly, or they pretend to not know why you are doing what you are doing (even if they asked you to do it, or suggested it)
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