here is a longer version of my previous entry.. the thoughts are fleshed out a little more
i posted the entry here, then i went on the forum i go to and fleshed it out more.. after i fleshed it out i decided to come back and post it here.. so peep if u want to see more of my thoughts as i go into a little more detail: women and their requirements (cousin edition) i saw my cousin recently and i couldn't figure out why she is single at 33 with huge boobs (i'm not trying to be funny, i don't see her often and when i saw her this recent time i couldn't help but notice her boobs were legitimately gigantic.. and no they r not implants) anyway, all im saying is- i know men must be hollering at her so in my mind i couldn't figure out why she is single i got a glimpse of why she might be single though when she said: "i'm a homeowner now, i can't be with a man who doesn't have a house.. he might not be able to keep up" not only was that rude to say to me (because i live in an apartment), but it also is just a thing where she is disqualifying a lot of good men imo, it's just a weird requirement, because how many homes do you need? if he has a house and you have a house, one will likely have to be sold anyway.. so if you have a house, then why do u need your spouse to have one? i could see if she said "he needs a job" but no- she said he needs a house women paint themselves into a corner with their requirements and then wonder why they have no options whenever they get something, they think u should have it too.. or even worse, sometimes they don't have a thing but they still think u should have it.. i've heard women say things like "i know im fat but i can't be with a fat man" its like they're not willing to work with u on anything.. its just "have this" or "be this" or we won't speak this same cousin had the nerve when we were at the table to say something about how she wants to have a kid one day.. meaning she wants to find a man worthy of having children with and settle down.. but how r u going to do that with these exclusive requirements? i mean what percentage of black millennials are homeowners? to me, "he needs to have a house" is a frivolous request.. if he has a job and is educated, is God-fearing and loves you, then who cares if he has a house? he can A. move in your house and help pay mortgage there B. u two can move into his apartment, or C. u two can both leave where u live and get a new place together if you comment, respond to this however you want- but please somewhere in your response say whether or not you think her needing a man to have a house is necessary or not
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