the best way to understand any confusing behavior from a woman is to assume the worst
this is a legitimate rule i've discovered from many dealings with women over time everything a woman does that is confusing can be explained if you just assume the worst to any guy reading this.. if you are wondering "why" this is one of the most important things i've learned in the past few years... here's the thing, a woman who truly loves and respects a man with sincerity will not do weird things.. when you call she will answer, when you probe she will open up, when you give she will reciprocate, when you put in effort she will be happy, when you pull back she will be upset, when you need her she will be there, when you go through something she'll be by your side, she will cooperate instead of compete, even if she does somehing lame like lie to you- she will eventually come around and tell you the truth so when a woman is not being consistent in these ways then you know she is out for self.. she's not in the relationship for the same reasons you're in it this is why i don't agree with people when they say "it takes two to ruin a relationship" because the truth is sometimes there's just one person ruining it sometimes you go in it for love and for the long haul while the other person goes in for selfish and/or superficial reasons that won't hold up past 3 to 6 months when a woman does something weird or inconsistent .. like say you call her and she doesn't answer when you KNOW she should be able to pick up the phone.. its confusing UNTIL you assume the worst.. once you assume the worst you know what's going on she is counting on you not assuming the worst.. she is counting on you believing whatever flimsy excuse she tosses your way but let me tell you- from my experience, anytime a woman becomes confusing, that in and of itself means that she doesn't have your best interest in mind here's what we men oftentimes do.. "she is confusing and driving me crazy, how can i get her to calm down? how can i get her to see that she is being inconsiderate?" when you look at that thought process, its like we are trying to fix a problem someone else is causing.. and women are hoping we do this because it allows them to do whatever they want while we are blamed for it its not my job to make a grown person act right.. its not my job to make a grown person see the error of their ways, if they can't conduct themselves properly then i should just find someone who can women are the more sensitive gender so she already knows she is being inconsiderate and she knows her actions are inconsistent.. she is just trying to play dumb and keep you strung along for the ride for whatever reason.. maybe because you are emotional support, or financial support, or attention, or all three.. but the reality of it is.. women have two modes.. act right, and act wrong once they start doing little things that cause your eyes to squint from unease or confusion- that's when you have to do one of two things 1. assume the worst and catch them in the act of whatever you are assuming (because she will not tell you the truth) 2. leave her altogether and find a woman who is going to walk in loyalty, love, and humility towards you and your relationship any men reading this i challenge you right now test me on this think about any situation from your past where a woman did something confusing now assume the worst THERE IS YOUR ANSWER.. there's no more confusion here are some examples of confusing behavior that can be understood by assuming the worst: why didn't she answer the phone? she was with another guy why didn't she call me back? you were never the only one why did she visit her cousin out of town with me, then go back to visit her cousin again without me the next day? she wanted to tell her cousin things about what she does behind your back why does she always get so upset over nothing? she has the temperament of a child.. you thought she had a bad week, but she is literally just an overgrown kid why does she keep telling me not to compare her to other women when i don't even do that? because she compares you to other men why does she keep details of her life a secret from me? because she doesn't trust or respect you why did she say she had to go all of a sudden when i asked her details about her business trip? because it wasn't a business trip, she stayed with a guy and they had sex the whole time why was she upset yesterday but now she's super happy? because the guy she was seeing behind your back finally reached back out to her ASSUMING THE WORST IS THE SHORTCUT TO UNDERSTANDING EVERYTHING THEY DO believing a woman's flimsy excuse only leads to more confusion, frustration, and exasperation the reason why this "assume the worst" technique works is because a good woman won't leave you confused.. she will be eager to reassure you of her love and commitment so when you run into a confusing and inconsistent woman, it means she is out for self this is why assuming the worst accurately explains all of her behavior if you've been going through it with one of these modern women, i hope what i've said here helps shed light on the situation
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