some guy on a forum was saying he wanted to fight his ex's new boyfriend
i don't want to get into the situation but i will just say the reason was because he was lied to and the two of them played him for a fool i left a comment explaining how i got past bitterness and anger in the realm of relationships.. i decided to share it here: op it may not feel like it.. but you dodged a bullet women may play us for a moment, but in the end they play themselves move on and live your best life.. its funny that u would post this because i was just thinking about this today i used to be upset that my ex was such a liar and it was like i never understood how much she was lying to me until we broke up and she wasn't there to gaslight me anymore it was kinda eating away at me.. so let me tell u the two things that helped me move past it 1. if she did u wrong, try to think of times when u did wrong to others.. it doesn't have to be in relationships, it can just be if u stole something, or punched someone who didn't deserve it think about wrong u've done in life for at least 5 minutes.. when the 5 minutes is up, chances r u will not see your ex the same here's the psychology behind it lets say u are 40.. lets say when u were 20 u were stealing a lot.. now lets say now that u are 40, some 20 year old steals something from you.. u may not pop off on them because u know u were the same way at that age it just helps u to calm down if u feel like u've been played 2. think about a time when you took an L.. but then u bounced back.. like for me it was- i bought a printer and it only lasted like 2 months.. and even in that 2 months it seemed like it was begging for ink every other day so i finally cut my losses and tossed that thing in the dumpster... once i threw it away i felt better immediately now think about your relationship the same way just like the printer, u thought she would be good but she was horrible, and she played games with u- but now its time for u to cut it loose and move on and just see it for what it was.. a bad purchase, not something that will follow u throughout life, just one bad purchase that was frustrating, and u may have lost some money but u are free to move on from here hopefully these will help u, they helped me.. and now when i see women doing scandalous things it doesn't bother me anymore because i know ultimately they are the ones on the wrong track in life, not me
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