so to my surprise.. the girl who joined the block party the other day ended up emailing me this morning
she was like "hey are you ok? i've been calling and texting you" i was prepared to not talk to her anymore when i blocked her, but since she took the time to email me i took that into consideration i responded back to her and i said i didn't respond because i blocked you because you kept saying "ok" or "oh ok" over and over and i felt like u were just basically saying "whatever" to me and i got tired of it she had two excuses.. one of which i think was false and one i think was true the first excuse was: -sometimes i'm busy working and i have to respond with something quickly (i don't buy it) the second excuse was: -sometimes i don't agree with you but i don't want to argue so i just say "ok" not only do i believe that, i also think it falls in line with what i was saying.. which was that she was using "ok" as her way of saying "whatever" of course the way she explained it made it sound better but ultimately she was just saying "ok" like "alright shutup" or "fine whatever" i told her i'm all for not arguing but just saying "ok" all the time gets old and sounds condescending when i'm trying to carry a conversation if i say "i'm going to play basketball" and u say "oh ok" then thats fine if i say "i found the cure to cancer" and u say "oh ok" then thats not cool.. it should be common sense to know things like this imo on some level i could stay upset but she somewhat redeemed herself a little because she said she's used to talking to me every day and she wanted to speak to me during the time we didn't speak.. she basically somewhat said she enjoys talking to me and i add value to her life what's so odd about this tho is its the exact opposite of what she was SHOWING ME prior to me blocking her i don't know why women think its ok to make men feel unimportant, and then when the guy finally leaves they get upset.. like to me thats ridiculous anyway i unblocked her i gave her my side which was "i'm tired of u talking to me in a dismissive way" and she gave her side which was "that wasn't my intent" or whatever i guess i let it go so we are on decent terms again for now
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