i've heard some men say things like "even Godly women will try to destroy you" or "even good women are bad, just to a lesser degree"
i want to put it out there that i don't believe that at all as much as i have griped about women, i still separate the good ones from the bad ones.. all women aren't bad.. its just that most are i can also show u in the bible where all women are not bad proverbs 31-10:12 "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." so there you see that there are more bad women than good ones... because it says "who can find a virtuous woman?" meaning they are rare and it also says "the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her" ...that means he has nothing to worry about with her.. so when i hear men saying "you still have to watch out for the good ones" i know they are way off "she will do him good and not evil all the days of her life" see, this tells you that there is a woman out there who will do u good for the entire duration of your existence on earth when men say "female nature is just bad and even the good ones try to trip you up" what they don't realize is that they are actually excusing women's bad behavior because if they can't help it then A. she has no hope of becoming a better woman to you and B. YOU AS A MAN HAVE NO HOPE OF GETTING A BETTER WOMAN so i always want men to understand that there are some good women... i will admit they definitely are more rare than the bad ones.. but there are some good ones and sometimes we as men should tout that fact...... because the good woman is the bad woman's worst nightmare as long as the good woman is present somewhere, the bad woman has to rethink her actions just wanted to put this thought out there oh and before i go i want to clear up another thing i've heard men say about women that is false i've heard some men say that women are incapable of loving men and i've heard some men say that women are not commanded to love their husbands these are not true titus chapter 2 verses 1-5 Speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. this clearly says older women should teach younger women to LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS meaning women do have the capacity to love us and they are actually supposed to learn how to do it and DO IT when you say things like "women can't love us" you are in a way making things worse on yourself because you are teaching yourself that you must accept one of two options: 1. deal with their crappy behavior or 2. be alone but if you are honest and you say "there are some good women even if they are rare" and "women have the capacity to love" then you give yourself a third option which is........... GET A GOOD WOMAN... (which again, is the bad woman's kryptonite)
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