I don’t understand what women mean when they say they don’t think men have feelings
I always wonder what makes them think that.. like when they see a man, what are they seeing? Why would a person assume another person doesn’t have feelings? I also wonder.. since gay guys have a feminine spirit.. do women see gay men as having feelings? In my opinion, saying men don’t have feelings is like saying women don’t have a sex drive ++++++++++++ I have noticed each gender asks for things that they really want the opposing gender to say no to Women ask for power and control in the form of “put up with my mouth” or “go out of your way to do me a favor” or “deal with my attitude” They really want a man to say no because they think if a man says no at the right time then he is unshakeable, and he has self-respect, and self-discipline.. they feel more comfortable around a guy whom they cannot sway to the left or to the right because they view that as strength and leadership (and I’ve said before women only see what they deem to be strength and weakness or value and non-value.. they don’t see other aspects of the picture like patience, caring, longsuffering, everything to them is seen through a social lens.. they don’t see honorable behavior and integrity) A man who says “ok I’ll do this because I love you” is seen as weak .. a man who gives a firm no and gives a warning or a discipline is seen as strong This again is why women are always giving themselves to alpha males and shooing away nice guys.. they don’t see the fact that the alpha really doesn’t care about them.. they are ONLY seeing what they deem to be strength and weakness they aren’t seeing love and care and patience and commitment This (again) is why women are ill equipped to choose a man.. because they are only seeing part of the equation they aren’t seeing the fact that one guy wants to marry them and love them and the other will leave them a single mother.. a gang member to a woman is a protector.. nevermind the fact that the gang member will have crack fiends and police showing up at your door at some point Women think “my man has a gun so I’m protected” they never think “well this other guy lives a life where he doesn’t need a gun, so which one is safer?” women don’t think far enough to really see reality So we men have to scale back on our love and make sure its coupled with vigilance.. we have to stop allowing women’s beauty to disarm us.. we have to look at them like a potential threat and treat them accordingly.. this is actually better for us and them.. we will put up with less because we will be willing to let them go before we allow them to give us a headache.. and they will respect us more when they see our boundaries Anyway.. I went on too long with that. Let me say what guys say they want that they really want women to say no to. Men want to be able to ask for sex and have a woman say no. They want to be able to see that she is virtuous and not an easy skank. I can already hear someone’s thoughts as they read this.. they’re saying “that’s not true.” Well why are easy women disrespected and devalued so much then? Why do rappers call easy women hoes? Why do nerdy men call easy women whores? From the high status guy to the low status guy, one thing remains the same and that is the fact that easy women are not to be valued. Men are oftentimes hoping a woman will show some fortitude. Men want women to show some character. How many times have men pursued sex from women and then as soon as they got it they lost interest? Even in the bible there was one guy who wanted a woman so bad that he wouldn’t even eat, and then he banged her and the bible says after he took advantage of her he hated her more than he loved her. This is something women should just say no to, say no to sex out of wedlock.. a virgin woman has the highest value to a man who seeks a wife I saw one GORGEOUS young woman a few years ago. Her value was immense, she could have gotten any guy imo.. well a few years passed and now she has two different kids from two different men and her value is not what it once was. Many men who saw her as a potential trophy wife now see her as a charity case not good for anything outside of banging. She should have kept her legs closed and kept her value. And I can hear a woman’s thoughts now… some woman reading this is thinking “ok I’m just going to not get pregnant” .. no.. DON’T HAVE SEX OUT OF WEDLOCK PERIOD If you do you will ruin yourself.. if you’ve already done it, STOP And men, if you’ve been a “nice guy” STOP.. make women prove themselves to you.. they view things from a social lens and they see power and control and strength and weakness.. if you lead with love they will view it as a weakness or vulnerability.. you want to be invulnerable to them and their crap and whining and complaining.. stay focused on yourself and your vision, if she sees u try to make her happy she is not likely to be appreciative of it, she is likely to A. take it for granted and B. use it against you Women are like those people who treat poor people like crap and treat rich people like royalty.. remember that and proceed accordingly.. u want to be seen as valuable to them so I recommend holding back otherwise they will put u in the “thirsty” category and treat u like dirt I know u have a good heart and u think they will see it but in their mind your love and care and concern makes u “too available” I don’t recommend being fake- I just recommend literally holding back and treating women like potential enemies BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT THEY ACTUALLY ARE unless they’ve proven otherwise
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