the bible says wives are to submit to their husbands
what this means is women are to be submissive.. if she isn't then she isn't marriage material a woman's submission is not relegated to marriage, a woman must be a wife even prior to getting married just like a man but be a husband prior to marriage.. women will say "i want a man who has money already, has status already, has a home already, has education already, etc" because it would be out of line to marry a person who doesn't have marriageable qualities so women are to be submissive in spirit yes even prior to marriage.. if she is loud, bossy, and defiant prior to marriage then what do you think she will be after? so i basically said all of that to say this when you meet women who say "you can't handle me" or "i need a man who can put me in my place" or anything that sounds like A. a challenge or B. "i will act crazy and it is your job to make me stop" what they are saying is they don't and won't ever take accountability for their actions one day my ex was insinuating that she only acted certain ways because of me.. so i said "so everything bad that you do is my fault" she literally said yes now i know you are reading this and saying "wow james why did you put up with that?" but i didn't know someone could really be that unreasonable for me it was almost like if someone said "i'm going to kill my boss" ... i wouldn't actually think they were serious but looking back its like.. she was serious in that she legitimately refused to accept any accountability for the things she did any woman saying something like "you're not man enough to handle me" or "i need a man to put me in my place" is a woman who is placing her gender role's responsibility onto you again, the bible says wives submit to your husbands.. a woman is to have a meek and quiet spirit she is supposed to carry herself a certain way to facilitate a healthy relationship so when they say "handle me" or "put me in my place" she is saying the following: I WONT CONDUCT MYSELF PROPERLY OF MY OWN VOLITION, INSTEAD YOU FORCE ME TO DO IT, and "you force me to do it" basically means "wrestle me for everything" "i will always put up a fight" "you will have to deal with my mouth" etc this is why men are giving up on women men must do their part in a relationship and women must do their part.. but women are offsetting the "burden" of their gender role onto men saying "i'm not going to act right unless you force me to" is the exact same as saying "i am a grown child" or "i will never grow up" or "you take accountability for my actions, not me" a woman should want to be in her place naturally.. her asking you to put her there is akin to a child asking you to change their diaper.. meaning if they know enough to ask then they also know enough to have the self control needed to "handle" themselves when women say things like these it means they were not given proper discipline as little girls and so they are inviting you to act as their parent.. they do whatever they want while you run behind them a woman telling a man to put her in her place or learn how to handle her is like a man saying to a woman "make me want to go to work today" or "i'll be a provider when you give me a reason" the fact is, your gender role is something you should already be doing regardless.. it's stupid to ask someone to force you into it.. "i'll be a woman only if you wrestle me into it" "i'll be a woman if you argue me into it" or my favorite: "i'll be submissive if i get my way first" (what is there to submit to if you get your way? idiot) all of this crap is just manipulation women use to put their gender role, job, and responsibility on the other person.. so they load men down with the responsibility of both genders and then they wonder why none of their relationships work the man with this woman must remain a man, meaning be a leader and provider and protector.. but he also must deal with his wife's antics and figure out ways to get her to comply, he can't just come home and have respect, he has to figure out how to make his wife want to respect him THAT DAY (because even if he gets her to play nice today, tomorrow she will be popping off at the mouth again)... he must wrack his brain trying to keep his woman in line.. sounds like a great life right?.. go out and fight in the world then come home and fight your stupid wife i wrote this quickly so i hope the words were understood i hope this helps someone who is going through it with one of these crazy women if you are in this situation i've described.. cut her loose because staying with her is enabling her and further making her feel like her foolish behavior is ok because it is tolerated and you can't talk sense into them because even arguing is tolerating you have to just leave them and replace them.. or just leave them
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this entry goes with the one i did about drake's "nice for what" song not too long ago.. that entry was done 4.15.18 and it was called "drake:turning idolatry into art" in that drake song, he was basically questioning why women should be nice to men basically simping.. enabling women.. cosigning their dysfunction.. cosigning their devaluing of men as if they needed any help doing that this entry goes with that because its along the same lines recently i saw a video on youtube where nick cannon basically says that he created an album called model music (in other words its geared toward women) its meant to (again) enable women in their narcissism when he talks about the single he said the first single is called "f*ck him" meaning he is talking to a woman and dissing her boyfriend, man, husband, or ex (note the lyrics where he uses her relationship problems as a way in for sex) i want to make it clear that one major issue with his stance/sentiment with making a "f*ck him" song is the fact that women oftentimes act on their emotions
meaning there are times where a man must tell his woman "no" or put his foot down, or tell her something she doesn't want to hear.. this doesn't make this man her enemy anymore than it makes a parent a child's enemy when that parent says no or gives discipline so for him to step in during a time when a woman is in an emotional state over her man's headship, is essentially like him playing devil's advocate men like nick cannon diss other men in order to bring those women closer to themselves.. this is the same issue i have with guys like derrick jaxn.. they make fun of a woman's man during a time when that woman is vulnerable and then they use that space as an opportunity to suggest something that is a bad idea "your man is just mad because other men like you.. i would never do what he did to you" "your man is probably insecure because he isn't packin downstairs.. you need a man who can satisfy you" "your man doesn't understand what he has on his hands, let me show you how special you are, let me buy you a drink" again- they use these moments as opportunities to enable women to feel justified in their illogical emotional states.. these guys come in and bash her boyfriend and then suggest she find a guy more like himself (which is pretty much a direct invitation for her to provide him adulation and worship) ..or he is suggesting she cheat on her man with him i.e. baby don't worry about him, "drink this and feel better for tonight" the TRUE conversation should be "tell me what happened between you and your man" once she tells him then he should assess whether that man is trying to establish order or if he is being abusive.. (actual abuse is highly unlikely btw especially in a gynocentric society) then once that is assessed, an attitude, stance, or solution should be given it should NOT be used as an opportunity to selfishly divide a household.. lets face it- women are the more gullible and vulnerable sex.. and men who take advantage of that are spineless (aka snakes) anyway, one thing to know about nick cannon is he is a master simp.. remember, he is the same guy who ran and got mariah carey's name tattooed all across his back he has actually said out of his mouth that he believes women are "gods" ....there is just something wrong with a man who thinks that way if you are rich and famous like drake or nick cannon- then what is the point of simping? if you have high social value then there's no need for you to continue to pander to women, there's no need for you to continue to enable women in their dysfunction.. you hold all the cards yet you are still catering to, and accommodating their foolishness these guys are basically alpha simps it would be better for a man with high social value to use his platform to honor other men and suggest that women treat their man well.... but i guess in a selfish society you will only see men use their platform to undermine other men.. because it feels good to the flesh to take another man's woman or at least plant the seeds to take another man's woman, so that if she isn't yours physically then at least she is mentally anyway.. i wanted to show that this type of stuff is rampant.. it's not just drake enabling women by himself these men like drake, nick cannon, and derrick jaxn are doing the exact opposite of what they should be doing they are selling women a dream in order to have their way with them when you have women literally saying to their men: "drake wouldn't treat me this way" you know women are believing the lies why? because all of these men are single.. these guys are smashing everything in sight, they're not putting rings on fingers.. these men don't honor women all three of these guys are prob running through women nonstop.. under no circumstance should a man who loves a woman and is willing to commit to her be compared to a man who just uses them for his own physical pleasure and ego boost nick cannon just had a child like a year ago.. there's no ring involved with the child's mother derrick jaxn has a child and isn't with his child's mother it's widely known that drake has been out here hittin everything these men are selling women a dream "drop your tired man and get with a guy like me" aka "drop your man and join my harem" or "i'm taking applications for temporary whores" "drop your man and have no strings attached sex with me.. let's bash your man together because it feeds my ego.. risk your relationship and break your man's heart for an illusion" if women think any of these men are going to be faithful they're deceived but women don't think far enough to understand that a man who tells them exactly what they want to hear is a man who doesn't have their best interest in mind anyway.. i just wanted to speak on this.. again, this goes along with my entry i did on drake's idolatry of women because this is pretty much the same thing.. since i wrote that entry i've seen some women quoting drake's "ya had a man, last year but life goes on" this crap is making women feel like their dysfunctional relationship history is normal smh.. it makes them feel like their behavior is a non issue this alpha simp nonsense needs to stop.. and we need to be mindful not to enable modern women to continue their awful untrustworthy behavior I wanted to speak a little more on the entry i did fairly recently called “has the problem presented itself?”
I came to a few more conclusions about it Have you ever heard a person talk about work life and family life and they said something like “after a long day of work I want to go home and recharge” or “your home should be a place of comfort so you can regenerate” or something like that? I have realized my lack of intimacy/closeness is sort of akin to that sentiment See the idea is that you give of yourself at work and receive to yourself at home The recharge you get at home prepares you for the depletion you will have at work Well what I realized is that intimacy/closeness is essentially a recharge When you feel like you’re close to someone or in the pocket with someone, or on the same page, or sharing in a mutual way- that is a recharge for you And that is what I have been missing I think that’s why I have been having a hard time writing at times.. because writing is a pouring out, but if I’m not getting the corresponding “receive” or “pouring in” moments- then it makes sense why I either don’t feel like writing or I have writer’s block What I’m saying here also shows me how bad my last relationship was because I remember when I was in that relationship, at some point I felt an overwhelming need to buy a curb your enthusiasm dvd… looking back I remember feeling a lack of peace and feeling alienated trying to always make her happy but none of my needs were being met.. and of course at the time I didn’t fully understand what was happening, but looking back I can see I got the sudden urge to watch curb your enthusiasm because I wanted to feel like I could relate to someone again My g/f at the time was not providing me with any type of understanding or validation.. so looking back I can see why that show became so important to me.. because I always feel like I can relate with larry david's character on curb your enthusiasm- so it was like a subconscious band-aid at the time.. that show was validation and understanding, relatability for me.. it was familiarity, and as pathetic as it sounds.. it was a form of closeness and intimacy for me- or at least as close as I could get at the time.... because the show was giving me what my g/f refused to give me- because she was constantly disagreeing with me and complaining and in so many words essentially telling me I didn't measure up to her standards I think my ex had checked out of the relationship and was just tolerating me for whatever reason, and on the surface she was still “there” but beyond the surface, she was gone and her heart was somewhere else.. now with hindsight being 20/20, what were then just my subconscious feelings are now clear indicators of the fact that intimacy had left the building who knew something as simple as buying a show on dvd was a sign of both lack and dysfunction in my life? but looking back- what could've tipped me off was the fact that I wanted to watch it so suddenly and so much more than normal So I just wanted to speak on that.. I now acknowledge that intimacy in many forms can be an emotional recharge, and we sometimes manifest our lack of it in ways we wouldn’t expect this even sheds light on my inexplicable exhaustion I’ve been dealing with, especially considering the inverse of my current situation- which constitutes a serious and lasting boost of energy received when getting into and enjoying a good relationship what do u guys think? Do you think this is a legit assessment? Ask yourself.. have you been having trouble concentrating? Have you been having trouble doing your hobbies such as writing, doing art, or exercising? Have you been exhausted for seemingly no particular reason? Do you go home and just want to sleep or have you stopped seeing the point in doing things? Do you have meaningful closeness/intimacy in your life? Do you receive validation from those around you? Or do people constantly find ways to disagree with you or discredit your thoughts, opinions, and contributions? Trust me, with these two entries I think I’ve found the problem We need to reestablish intimacy in our lives .. we need to make it a priority to get back to a healthy and balanced life I hope you guys understand what I’m saying I’ve basically typed out the overarching plot to the movie “the scent of a woman” Sometimes we are blinded to what our true problems really are semen carries hormones and dna
also it is widely known that if sperm from one man comes into contact with sperm from another man, those sperm will fight also, in the act of sex men give and women receive so from a physical, spiritual, and mental lens- its like a man is leaving his imprint on that woman i think this is one reason why it's far worse for women to be promiscuous than it is for men they are essentially ruining themselves for the prospect of a real relationship once they are done with "mr. right now" if men give and women receive then that shows that women take things in, so they are staining themselves more and more with each new encounter 80% of divorces are initiated by women.. how much of that percentage is because she has been imprinted by one or more men prior to her marrying that man whom she is currently with? i think this is oftentimes why women never seem to be content or satisfied they say they want "more" or they want "change" or they want this or that.. and oftentimes they can't even seem to put into words what they want.. but i'm sure one reason why they can't really put into words what they want is because their thirst doesn't come from the forefront of their mind.. their souls are crying out for that initial imprint, or at least one of the imprints women nag, whine, and complain, and have attitudes and you wonder why but i think many times- their spirit misses the man or men who have imprinted them and they now walk and live with a void she has been taken to the heights of emotional and physical fulfilment and filled with another man's dna.. when i say dna i really want you to realize this is a man's very makeup and blueprint.. often her computer is running his programming whether she knows it or not i think this is why many times the things women say and the things women do are so incongruent this is also at times why women seem inexplicably standoffish.. again.. different men's semen when introduced to eachother don't shake hands.. they fight.... so regularly, when we see women who seem off or crazy or inexplicably irritable when we are just legitimately trying to be nice.. we are essentially seeing another man's programming manifest into action you have to wonder if this is why women say they want a good guy but they go for the bad ones... because while they know mentally that a commitment minded man is the best option- their soul cries out for a man who will be similar to the one who had his way with her and kept it movin, because he reminds her soul of those initial imprints... because she has indulged, it is now the drug she continually desires to go back to the good man who was commitment minded who took her to dinner and dropped her off back at her home before curfew like a gentlemen didn't imprint her a woman who receives men doesn't typically understand that it can be synonymous with losing herself whoever sins sexually sins against their own body when you see these women who couldn't be happy even if they tried, i want you to think about what i'm saying when you see them and you just wonder why they are always upset, or why they can't seem to be satisfied, or why they go from one relationship to another over and over.. think about these factors this was a good word.. i'm posting this for myself cuz it spoke to me i'm reading a good book called "in sheep's clothing" by george simon
its not a book made for men, its just about dealing with manipulative people in general, but imo its a good book for men because it delves into manipulation tactics and imo most women are manipulative as i read this i'm just having flashbacks to my last relationship constantly.. especially when he talks about the covertly-aggressive personality a covert-aggressive is a person who wants power and control over others but does not want anyone to know it this is the type of person who u will likely just get a weird vibe around because what they say never sounds 100% like the truth because its not.. seeing as how they want to show u anything but their true selves their coercing, arguments, indirect responses to simple questions, and hollow rationalizations amount to nothing but veiled power struggles one quote i like is where he says "Dealing with covert-aggressive personalities is like getting whiplash. Often, you really don't know what's hit you until long after the damage is done." this has been my experience that's a big part of the pain because once everything is over you look back and you see what happened.. so you tell someone and they say "who cares, its over" but what they don't realize is it essentially just started for you, because you are just now seeing the truth of the situation ++++++++++++++ i bought god of war on ps4 that game was amazing its EXTREMELY long.. i played it thinking i'd beat it in like a few days... NO. that game is HUGE.. i got it 4.21.18 and i just finished it like yesterday i finished the main story and i'm only 52% done with the game i started playing it hoping it would get my mind off of life and stressors i've had a lot of issues in my life but i'm hoping the Lord will have mercy on me and allow me to get a new job and move to memphis like i said a few entries back i had a skype interview the other day that went well and it's in my field.. so i am hoping the Lord allows me to get that job anyway.. god of war is great i highly recommend it if you play games for the sake of time, if its your first playthrough i kinda recommend sticking to the story because this game will get massively long if you take on too many sidequests just know after you beat the story, the sidequests will still be there and they're a LOT of fun anyway just a quick update on some things i've been doing i have sat here for over an hour trying to get my thoughts out
i think i have found the root of my issue as to why i haven't been able to concentrate or focus or write the way i typically would i think i'm dealing with a lack of intimacy the more i think about it.. the more i realize intimacy is the missing ingredient to my life i don't mean sex- i just mean closeness when i stand back and look at my life, that is just something i totally lack, and i think affects me in some deep ways i highly edited this segment of scripture below.. i edited it just to give the story as opposed to the corresponding details
i just wanted to make a quick point thats why i edited out some parts if u want the full story go to esther kjv i just wanted to post this to show that mgtow isn't new.. feminism is a woman who is in pride basically.. she has contempt for her husband.. and mgtow is a reaction to feminism mgtow is knowledge, awareness, and new boundaries, rules, and standards its saying "ok since you refuse to do right- here is what's going to happen from here on out" its letting go of that broken down car you loved to get a new car that actually works properly 10 On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded the seven chamberlains 11 To bring Vashti the queen before the king with the crown royal, to show the people and the princes her beauty: for she was fair to look on. 12 But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment, therefore the king burned with anger 13 Then the king said to the wise men, What shall we do unto the queen Vashti according to law, because she hath not performed the commandment of the king 16 And Memucan answered before the king and the princes, Vashti the queen hath not done wrong to the king only, but also to all the princes, and to all the people that are in all the provinces of the king 17 When this deed of the queen becomes known abroad to all women, they will despise their husbands in their eyes and thus shall there arise too much contempt and wrath. 19 If it please the king, let there go a royal commandment from him, and let it be written among the laws that Vashti come no more before the king and let the king give her royal estate unto another that is better than she. 20 And when the king's decree shall be published throughout all his empire, all the wives shall give to their husbands honor, both to great and small. 21 And the saying pleased the king and the princes; and the king did according to the word of Memucan 2 Then said the king's servants that ministered unto him, Let there be fair young virgins sought for the king: 4 And let the maiden which pleaseth the king be queen instead of Vashti. i had to post this.. this was definitely on point the awful women she described reminded me a lot of my last relationship.. my ex was always like out of pocket and of course my care for her was taken advantage of instead of appreciated bravo to this woman for speaking wisely on such an important issue her solution is legit also.. just ice them.. don't deal with them at all on any level.. these awful women feed on attention and also your attention is how they get their claws into you
so give them NONE.. live your life alone and in peace if God gives you a woman worth something then great.. if not, great because in your solitude at least you still have peace anything is better than one of these demonic women like what she described even my 10yr old nephew has seen the beginnings of these women at his school a girl told a boy she would be his girlfriend long enough for him to get her valentine's day gifts and the next day she broke up with him they are ultimately selfish and it carries on into adulthood and like the woman in the video said.. they can't be told no a "no" to them means "it's time to be vindictive" or "it's time to cheat" or "it's time to threaten to leave" they are utterly useless |
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