this is what happens when your wife isn't a dumb arrogant argumentative whore she gives you the room and the motivation to believe and make it
did u hear what was said? "did she ever tell u come on, its time for you to man up and get a corporate job and make more money?" "NO, NEVER AND THATS THE BEST PART" u can tell his girl was trustworthy and held him down and was there for him in ways that allowed him to flourish.. she wasn't contentious or difficult even when things didn't look the best meanwhile my ex g/f was telling me i didn't have enough of a plan even though i was in grad school with a career path selected.. she also said she didn't want to live in the city i currently live in because there's "not enough black people," she told me "you need to work on your arms, i like guys with big arms" .. she complained about everything how about you go find another man with big arms to pump and dump u since u cosign the concept of friends with benefits, aka sex without commitment, aka WHOREDOM one of the worst things also was telling people she complains about everything and then having people tell me "its not that bad" emotional abuse isn't that bad? since i'm a guy it shouldn't bother me? i should embrace being dishonored in my own household because its the 2000s and not the 50s right? that whole ordeal really showed me who i should run with and who i should keep at a distance anyway.. kudos to that man........ because you have a good trustworthy, loving, and respectful wife- you are able to fly as high as the Lord allows you to you don't have weights in the form of attitude, disrespectful comments, lying, cheating, and vindictiveness holding you back from (and distracting you from) greatness
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so i had an appointment with a barber today but he text me and canceled on me last night
so then i called another barber and he was like "i can't do 4pm i got somewhere to be" ok.. so then my options were getting thin so i contacted a barber i don't like going to because i have to get my face cleaned up for a meeting so i call the guy and he agrees to cut my hair at 4 i get there at like 3:50 and this guy literally took a walk in at 3:58 let me repeat that I HAD AN APPOINTMENT AT 4 BUT HE TOOK A WALK IN AT 3:58 and i feel like that confirms this shuck and jive routine i've thought i've seen him do around non-blacks in the past let a non black person come in and he's going to laugh at their unfunny jokes, and shuck and jive, and put them in the chair ahead of appointments like a good little faggot should then at the end of my cut he owed me $17 back for my change but he handed me $15 i knew what he did immediately and i could've stood there and counted it and said give me my $2 but i just said screw it .. i didn't want to deal with him acting like he didn't have anymore ones or whatever other clownish thing he would've done some of these barbers in this city are trash.. they're such a hassle sometimes women can't handle any of the attitude and rude, dismissive behavior they dish out this chick has done this to so many guys and finally someone did it back to her why was she so rude to those men in the first place? women's anger blindsides men because we don't know why the anger is there or where it comes from when it's unprovoked but it all goes back to what i say about women only liking men who don't like them.. there she was constantly texting a guy who ignored her but all the guys who approached her? she just dissed them and exposed them and treated them like dirt we men have so much patience for women but they don't understand patience they only understand that boomerang.. that taste of their own medicine this was just really interesting to me.. there's a lot i could say on this but... i'm gnna let it marinate for a minute i was thinking about making this "what men do wrong part 3" (be bad fathers) but for me- that series is more about like dating, attracting, and keeping women.. fatherhood is a diff topic anyway peep if interested, this video made me think.. and i'm not sure what my conclusions are yet but wow this was nuts saw this at walmart the other day i was so surprised... i've been watching this show off and on for like the past 6 months or so on youtube.. i like it a lot i didn't really have any money to get it, how about one of u buy this for a brotha right quick definitely want to cop whenever i have some money to spend
gotta get off this bachelor wage smh lol i want to talk about a mistake i made in my life mainly about 2 yrs ago
the mistake i made was calling peace boredom... not so much with my mouth, but in my heart my life 2 yrs ago was going really well and i found myself in a place where i didn't really have any issues.. i had just gotten a new car, i had a 4.0 gpa in grad school.. i had no financial issues whatsoever.. i mean literally i was good a wise person would recognize that as a time of peace and blessings and they would just appreciate it and build on it or find something fun to do in that time of relaxation and normalcy but what i did in my heart was i basically said "wow everything's in order, this is boring" again- i want to make it clear that this was not conscious on my part.. it was just a subtle belief/approach i had deep down that i didn't realize.. but looking back i can see now that that was one place where i went wrong because of this "boredom" i got on a dating site against better judgment and that was how i met my ex who put me through awful torment for months if you find yourself in a place where you feel "bored" or you feel like there's nothing going on, or you feel like you want excitement, or whatever- my advice is take a step back.. take a breath.. realize there are worse things than "boredom" such as chaos, unrest, lack of peace, dealing with bad decisions, regret, etc really sit back and realize that.... and then once you've marinated on it then ask yourself.. am i full of discontentment at a time when i should be content? chances are you may lean toward "yes" ...since that is now established and you've calmed back down.. decipher between positive and negative steps to alleviate yourself of your boredom/discontentment positive steps are like: -go to an event -do a creative thing -call an old friend and see if they want to meet up -use your free time to pray negative steps are like: -run with your old group of friends who you already deemed to be a bad influence -go have a sex fling with someone -start drinking -try to start a relationship (without God's leading) so i hope this helps someone.. if u get "bored" in life try not to look at it as boredom... instead try to view it as peace, normalcy, and stability if you view it only as boredom you are likely taking a positive thing for granted and setting yourself up to make a bad decision look at the difference in mindset: "i'm bored i never get to do anything fun, man screw this i'm about to......" "i'm in a really stable and peaceful place, and i have a lot of time to myself, what's something i can do with this free time?" as you can see.. these are totally different mindsets and one is leading to a positive outcome while the other is leading to a negative one so don't insult your quiet life.. maybe those "boring" moments could be used to write a book that could one day become a best seller.. who knows approach the mundane with gratitude... remember the alternative is almost certainly worse little shaman has hands down one of the best channels on narcissism this one spoke to me very deeply.. had to post it here to keep it close by i'm just going to put both of these in the same entry cuz i don't want anyone thinking i look at people based on race.. this is just observation not prejudice.. i always try to say "i'm not a race based person" on my race entries so people understand that
also white and black are in parentheses in the title because i really resent those labels as they are dehumanizing.. by that stupid "color logic" biracial people are gray smh.. these labels don't pay homage to a person's religion, culture, heritage, or even ethnicity or place of origin anyway both of these have been swimming around in my head for a while one thing that irritates me about some white people is how they see life through this liberal and conservative view.. its so irritating to always see how they put everything into a category like for example one white guy literally said to me that trayvon martin was a "wannabe gangster" simply because he wore a hoodie.. since when does wearing a hoodie mean you are trying to be in a gang? if you only see things through this "us vs them" "red vs blue" "left vs right" mentality then i guess those types of short-bus thoughts make sense to you its as if they don't see actual humans, they only see categories.. one category is white people who have money, and everything else is a crazy threat that must be bashed, made fun of, or done away with if you see air jordan shoes and you immediately associate them with "black gangster" you have a serious problem its like no matter what they put u in a category if u like rap then you're a degenerate thug if you're against racism you're a crazy social justice warrior if you feel that the erosion of the middle class is negative, you're a socialist if u are this you're that, if you're that you're this a fistfight in an upper class high school is a minor scuffle.. a fistfight in an inner city school calls for police and guns, along with dogs and metal detectors if ur a vegetarian you're a tree-hugging leftist maniac hippie.. if you eat bbq you're a red blooded republican good old boy i honestly think they get this crap from watching that divisive and biased fox news crap all day every day well i have a news-flash of my own... YOU DONT HAVE TO VIEW EVERYTHING THROUGH A MAN-MADE AND PURPOSELY DIVISIVE LENS their rhetoric gets old QUICK and doesn't allow them to see the truth, only the narrative +++++++++++ one thing that irritates me about some black people is this crab in a barrel mentality where putting someone else down supposedly brings you up i think this comes from prison culture.. like the whole "prey on the weak" mentality where you catch someone slippin in any type of way then its your job to pull their card someone wears something that's not up to par then u gotta roast them u cried? you're weak u only banged one girl last month? you're lame u brought your girl flowers? you're a sucker it even gets to a point where if you're being too nice you just get taken advantage of.. just being nice in itself is like an invitation to pain one way i've seen this recently was on the tekashi 69 interview on the breakfast club.. everyone in the comments seemed to just love how "tekashi shut charlamagne down!" they seem to have this thing where being able to shut someone down or make them look bad is like some type of great virtue being able to disrespect someone really efficiently is considered "power" smh.. meanwhile the jews are all out in their community trying to figure out how to help eachother lol .. which mentality/approach do you think is better? how about when safaree was on angie martinez saying he got robbed, he was emotional about it and now there are black guys on youtube laughing at him saying he's weak and a crybaby, when the truth is he had a gun to his head and still made the interview and kept it 100 its like black men are literally socially FORCED to walk with this phony bravado 24 hours a day by their own culture.. they can't be regular human beings its like there's no room for error- with error being "divergent behavior" or what i like to call freedom to be yourself they don't seem to realize a culture based on constant one-upmanship is a culture without solidarity you can't constantly try to take a jab at the next man's "faults" and expect there to be unity, "brother" |
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