i've noticed something about modern media and popular opinion.. they are against marriage
look at what they tell women in their 20s they don't say "avoid relationships," they say "avoid serious relationships" (that could lead to marriage) but flings are just fine and encouraged they don't say "avoid sex outside of marriage" they say "avoid marriage" "don't get tied down" "don't settle" (more on don't settle at the end) they don't even really say "don't have kids" instead they say "don't be a traditional wife and mom, you have to be your own woman and be strong and independent" ..independent of what though? exactly, a husband in other words- society is against the concept of marriage over anything when it comes to youthful relationships and family.. according to this society, you can/should do anything except get married and live a traditional lifestyle ok now i'll speak on this whole "don't settle" concept people talk about i want peeps to really hear me on this if a person doesn't ever settle, then the person is never settled a lot of women think that concept is a great.. but the truth is, they aren't selling these women on getting high value men, they are selling them on never being settled this whole thing about "never settling" is leading many women to a path of never being settled.. never having a proper companion, never having a fully trustworthy companion, always worrying about how she is being used, worrying about how her new man will get along with her kids, not wanting to have sex but feeling like she needs to to keep a man, not having the stability that comes with a husband, running around looking for love, being perpetually insecure because it's a pretty inevitable part of the rejection that comes with dating, not having the security of marriage, i could continue yall have to understand, this whole "never settle" thing sounds good on the surface, but its leading some women to never being settled.. aka a life of searching and lack as opposed to a life of peace and contentment we have to look deeper at what is being suggested to us.. the bible says that people in hell have no rest day or night.. people in hell are never settled yet this society has women championing that phrase and speaking it over their life in other words, this society is continually inviting women to exist in a living hell and to anyone who thinks this is cap, just take a step back and look around
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