so anyone who follows this site knows about the things i tend to talk about one thing i have talked about is the fact that as men oftentimes we feel better about ourselves when we stop chasing women its like a weight lifts off our shoulders i talked about this a few different times.. usually in a personal way.. like how letting go of my ex was a great blessing i thought i was clutching something i wanted to keep.. who knew i was clutching my biggest problem in life ANYWAY i saw this video today and its a perfect example of what i talk about when i say men are typically better off when we let go of the notion of chasing women, pursuing women, and trying to impress them check it out and i will give the rest of my thoughts ok so that was the perfect example of what i mean when i say a lot of times men are better off letting women go u can wake up and hear hurtful criticisms or you can just be alone and have peace you can hear "your shoes are ugly" "you need to make more money" "you're awkward" "all my exes were taller than you" etc or you can just be alone and here's the crazy part.. 9 times out of 10 you are nice to this woman who talks to you this way you didn't go up to her and say something disrespectful that warranted a hurtful criticism.. no, you just tried to take her on a date, you introduced yourself, you gave her a compliment, you expressed interest in her am i lying? i'm 100% telling the truth so then what's the answer? the answer is don't put yourself in this position in the first place if that means you remain alone, then so be it this man in this video is giving himself a complex.. he probably felt normal going to that get together.. but he probably won't feel normal when he leaves so i hope u guys understand that this is what i mean when i say you're better off just playing video games at home, or going to the gym, or doing a hobby, etc... i hope u guys understand i'm serious when i say this stuff women are highly critical and rude and they give you no grace or anything.. they are ready to diss you at any moment.. you could take them to a romantic dinner but they will still diss you for something you have no control over.. you might show them a great night and on the way home she might tell you you have a big nose or something this is just how they are today.. they are disrespectful, they have no couth or anything they are horrible so that's why i always say be able to walk away.. protect yourself.. protect your heart, protect your ego, protect your money, time, energy, etc so i truly hope u guys now fully understand that when i say your playstation is oftentimes a better date than a woman, i'm not being hyperbolic the playstation won't cut you down, dehumanize you, devalue you, make you feel bad for things you can't even control, compare you to others, etc this video was a perfect example of a situation where a man needs to just simply remove himself.. have some self respect and that is largely what i would recommend when it comes to modern day dating and relationships just remove your presence because you aren't being treated right.. you're not being respected, you're not being thanked, you're not receiving affection, these women have walls up, they aren't open or loving.. they are mouthy, combative, disrespectful, ungrateful, and stubborn no need to get mad, no need to argue, no need to be bitter JUST. REMOVE. YOURSELF.
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