i might actually have empathy but i can't when they're obviously not living the way they're supposed to the girl said "how come everytime u have sex with someone they leave?"
that's like saying "how come everytime i rob a bank i go to jail?" who told her to bang all these dudes? she acts like she was scammed, but she takes no accountability for bussin it wide open.. my point is, what she's doing is wrong in the first place so why does she expect a good result? "i whored myself, now why don't they love me?" that makes ZERO sense also, her wanting a man to stay after sex is really just her way of saying "i want to be able to reject u, instead of you reject me" because if she TRULY wanted to ensure a man stayed after sex, she would wait until marriage i also feel like that is the worst possible way to bargain... 9 times out of 10 the guy wants sex, and the girl wants a relationship.. so it makes no sense for a woman to freely give away her greatest bargaining chip, and then say "let's bargain" lol a lot of dudes are obviously going to be like "u gave me what i want, there's no reason for me to pursue u anymore"
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i like that new juice wrld album called fighting demons
it came out a few months ago if the Lord allows i want to hit yall with an album review so look out for that in my experience women aren't really there for you as a friend
i want to give some examples i won't say any names but each situation represents a different female i was cool with who really isn't there for me anymore -just wants to criticize and judge whatever i say and not share anything about her own life -didn't return my last email, but when she's in town she will hit me up and want to chill.. no real consistency as a friend -talks when i reach out but otherwise never speaks to me.. if i don't reach out we never speak at all, ever -always ignoring me when she feels like it.. we get to a discussion she doesn't want to have and immediately she says "ok" and i know the conversation is over.. i don't really say it but its really hurtful.. it just always feels like she's basically saying "i can do without you" that's how her actions feel -answers when i call maybe 20% of the time.. returns missed calls about 10% of the time.. also has a short fuse and will go off on me for anything -stopped talking to her, our last conversation was a situation where i felt like she was saying things about me that were negative so i said "that's YOUR opinion" and she said "do you not want my opinion? we don't have to talk... do you want to not talk? because its not a big deal to me" ...i didn't say anything i just blocked her.. that was hurtful.. again it felt to me like she was saying "i don't care if we never speak" or "i don't really value you at all" -sends her representative to talk to me.. doesn't acknowledge me and doesn't engage with me.. we could be face to face and she has a way of making me feel like we're a thousand miles apart i can think of one girl who treats me well everytime we speak though.. so thank the Lord for her everything the manosphere says about modern women being tied up with certain men while good, single, marriage minded men are alone is true women have a ton of intrinsic value and it's like they're just bent on destroying it with these man-whores
dude is not asking for anything crazy, just a fair amount of reciprocation and good behavior and women can't be bothered (i know because i glanced at the comments) women can't take their own medicine.. he has a lot of backups, prenup, his other house, etc.. he has set it up to not be taken advantage of, and he has set it up to where if the woman acts up, he's unaffected..
this is EXACTLY what women do to men.. women can dish it out, but they can't take it.. women are out here with hidden bank accounts, backup dudes, ex-boyfriends they say happy birthday to etc... but let a dude have that same mindset and women wanna complain about it i saw all these youtube videos at different times and they're all about successful black males.. but what i noticed was none of these guys have black wives no diss to black women but i do think black women as a whole can do better men are tired of that argumentative and combative spirit a lot of black women have men are getting to where they're just not putting up with it at all anymore on any level.. i like black women, they are my preference because to me they have the best bodies but the truth is a lot of black women i've been around have been prideful, argumentative, combative, they don't give u any type of validation, etc when i see these success story videos and i notice none of the men are with black women, to me it's just further confirmation that its time for black women to step it up.. its time out for excuses its time for you all to start being wives again, be feminine again, be wholesome again.. stop with all the rhetoric about how you're independent and you're not going to put up with anything i don't think all black women are bad, but i've seen that a lot of them are basically undateable.. take it from a man who has been wanting a wife for over a decade |
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