when you are dating someone, what is your age range?
i think anything 5 years younger or 5 years older is ok i have dated both and sometimes there are issues but i wouldn't exactly say they are too big to handle if the age diff is over 5 yrs then even if there's no problem right now, there may be one down the line anything within a 4 yr difference should not really pose a problem at all 5 yrs is like the cutoff point tho.. an age difference larger than that imo is when there is a gap that may not be able to be closed this is my take on it^ as you age, the way you think changes.. so having an age diff over 5 yrs can stop u from seeing eye to eye not all the time obviously, but generally i say stay within that 5 yrs younger/5 yrs older range
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would u stay with a person who cheated on you?
my take on that is just no.. no questions, no explaining away.. just no.. don't even waste your time recently i've been seeing people who take their spouse/significant other back after they cheat i do not condone that at all.. i don't care if ur boyfriend/girlfriend, i don't care if ur married, and i don't care if u have kids together i just don't see a point in being with someone who has cheated on you to me it is just so awful.. especially as a guy.. as a guy i think its worse when a girl cheats than when a man does why would u take a cheater back? what would be the point? people are like "maybe u can salvage.." NO, there is nothing left to salvage if a girl cheated on me i'd be left with a pain that i'd always be trying to suppress, and she would have guilt that would make her try to "make up" for what she did but the fact of the matter is SHE WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO i say if someone cheats on u its just over period.. have some respect for yourself.. it doesn't have to be like "screw u for cheating on me" but just move on with your life if you have kids then too bad, u still need to move on because there will be tension in the house.. the only way there wouldn't be tension is if the person being cheated on just allowed the cheating to happen and ignored it completely like "yes please continue to walk all over me" these are just my thoughts on cheating whenever i see people saying they want to take their cheating spouse back i always think they are making a mistake not saying its always easy to say no to temptation.. but its just something u have to do your mind has to be made up u don't sit and wonder "maybe if i just cheat once" or "maybe if we just kiss" .. no u have to make it up in your mind not to cheat i am pretty liberal if there are no labels in your relationship, (which is why i sometimes date multiple girls at once) but once you guys both agree that its exclusive then it needs to be exclusive so just for the record if anyone wanted to know my stance on cheating i say don't take them back, you will regret taking them back- especially if you're a guy.. your jealousy and torment will eat you from the inside out, nothing is worth that why does everyone talk about people like steve jobs and his fellow billionaire peers as if they are some kind of amazing humanitarians ?
i sometimes wonder if i'm the only person who realizes how annoying apple products can be sometimes most of the things they make tend to be proprietary to the point of being annoying their products function in clunky ways a lot of times.. they always try to be aesthetically pleasing to the point of them being absurd.. like whats next? a keyboard with one button? itunes looks like a spreadsheet they make $600 phones yes they are successful, but i don't get this weird fascination and borderline worship of steve jobs and his peers if i sold a $600 phone i could probably make it do something fancy too! like what's the big deal? they talk about these men as if they create cures for diseases or something.. um HELLO they are business men! making them out to be much more than that (imo) is frivolous talk my fave. thenks baybz
sidenote: no one really knows that i record their voicemails.. meh, sue me lately i haven't wanted to talk about anything serious.. i just want to talk about music or things that are light-hearted or whatever
today is no different.. i am not sure what people would rather me talk about.. serious or lighthearted, so i just say whatever i feel like saying so today i decided i would talk about one of my favorite dates i ever had i went out w/ a girl named ashley this was in 2008 the way i met her was she contacted me on myspace and i remember all her message said was "do u like white girls?" LOL i remember thinking that was a hilarious message, but i kinda liked how it was somewhat blunt she was pretty to me.. she was blonde and heavier but still very pretty.. nice body, very good with presenting herself since she was a hairdresser and had an 'eye' for that sort of thing anyway we talked for a bit then when it came time to see her i had to drive to murfreesboro, but instead of meeting at her house we decided i'd just meet her at target cuz i knew where that was i got there a little early so i sat down and i was chillin then she came up out of nowhere.. she was smiling and she was very relaxed and i sensed she wasn't judging me too hard.. i liked her within like 10 seconds i really appreciated her being so cool within that first little few seconds of meeting.. it didn't feel like a business deal or like she was being hesitant or anything.. i got a feeling like she was happy to see me or something and that meant a lot to me i tend to be pretty reserved sometimes so its good for me to have someone who is more like.. happy or bubbly.. sorta like if you've seen that 70s show.. red has kitty.. they are basically completely opposite of each other.. i am a 'red' in need of a 'kitty' i sometimes find myself in torment over the way i see the world or whatever.. so i need that balance cuz i can be angry or antisocial or whatever so i need someone who has a good attitude to help me chill out and enjoy life and stop me from overthinking everything this was a hot day.. i hate bright sunny days, so if i go out with a girl and she makes me forget that i am in this horrid weather then i know she is a winner we went to get in my car and she had coincidentally parked right beside me so i saw her car and saw that it was a mess and she looked at my car and she said "wow ur car is so clean" LOL as small as it was, i liked that segment, because for me personally, i'm not really attracted to girls who appear 'perfect' or whatever, so if her car is messy or something then to me that can be a plus appearing perfect is kindof a turn off to me.. it makes me think she should be alone, like if she's perfect then why does she even want to be in a relationship? if u have every area in your life covered then how can i compliment you or help u at all? ..its like i no longer have a real 'role' anymore.. like instead of being a real important part of her life, i'm relegated to being a mere garnish or decoration also a lot of times i see outward 'perfection' as a form of dishonesty.. like for example: if a girl is the perfect weight has the perfect job has the perfect social life perfect education background everything is 100% clean at all times perfect everything then i don't believe her ..call it a 6th sense or call it cynicism, but i think she is hiding something ANYWAY so we drove to see the batman movie 'the dark knight' this movie was pretty wack to me, however in the theater she was receptive to all my attempts to get closer to her oh also she paid for her own ticket.. which i would've paid for, but she beat me to it.. but i appreciated that she was not toting around that entitlement stuff i don't mind paying for everything but if a girl is willing to pay for her own stuff then that shows me she's not just being selfish or not just using me after the movie we went to ihop which i paid for at ihop she told me more about herself and i liked what i heard.. she was so down to earth and i liked that she had a good ear for music and she really impressed me with her choice of hip hop i remember she said her favorite rapper was papoose which really blew my top wait a minute lol, i just remembered she also told me she liked shwayze which kinda put a damper on the night smh.. i was willing to let bygones be bygones tho lolz i also liked that she was upfront about certain ups and downs she was dealing with like she was positive about her future, but she was irritated about her present.. i like that she was just being honest with me about her life she was honest and positive simultaneously which is actually the perfect balance.. cuz a lot of times u get honest and negative, or positive and dishonest u know what i mean? so i was really drawn to her even more so then we went to her house and sat on the couch watching tv for a bit and it never got boring or stupid, like we were still just interacting or whatever and not really watching tv anyway fast forward, when i left it wasn't awkward or anything after this was all over she called and texted me like a maniac lol so it was good to know we both had fun 10 out of 10 indeed frappucino happy hour is back at starbucks
may 4-13 3-5pm i haven't had starbucks in a while and i think i've been losing weight because of that but i still might go to get a drink half off.. especially if its too hot outsidez the group project is coming together still
the thing that has been holding up the process the most has been my slow writing this is bad yet also good in a sense its bad because i've been writing so slow its good because this is kinda how the process tends to work and i'm getting it out of the way u try to write and u wrestle with writer's block and doubt for a while once u break through tho.. its on i am feelin like i'm breaking through like no one can stop me.. like i'm getting into that groove again i love a good song with good lyrics.. so i like to try and put that out i would say i'm not very happy with the stuff we've done on this project but its ok because its not my project i look at myself as a hired hand in this endeavor but the "payoff" for me is it gives me an opportunity to 'oil the gears' so to speak so once this is over then i will be back in full lyrical shape i've already surprised myself with some of the things i've said on a few of the songs so i feel like my plan is working one thing i've also noted is my ability to stay away from corny lines u know how sometimes u listen to a rap and a line is so corny that u kinda cringe ? yeah not trying to toot my own horn but for me, if something sounds iffy- i don't say it if u say something corny then it may be a while before u can live it down lol i find that a lot of wack lines only appear because people are trying too hard if u keep up with my blog then u already know how i feel about trying too hard or trying to be cool once this project is over i really just want to get to work on my own material.. meaning beats of my choice, my editing, my sound clips, my everything oh one other thing.. people keep telling me i should go back to making my own beats i want to do that however if u were in my shoes u'd understand why im not doing it right now i ran into a lot of frustration and technical difficulties and so i decided to take a break i do definitely want to make beats again one day but a few things (which i will not detail at the moment) must happen before i do that again i really appreciate the people who tell me to make beats btw i already have a head full of ideas for when i start making beats again so hopefully we can get it poppin soon anyway just wanted to talk about writing for a bit this is a 5 minute documentary on james rolfe (a filmmaker) when he was in college i thought it was well done.. it captured a lot in such a short amount of time |
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