would u stay with a person who cheated on you?
my take on that is just no.. no questions, no explaining away.. just no.. don't even waste your time recently i've been seeing people who take their spouse/significant other back after they cheat i do not condone that at all.. i don't care if ur boyfriend/girlfriend, i don't care if ur married, and i don't care if u have kids together i just don't see a point in being with someone who has cheated on you to me it is just so awful.. especially as a guy.. as a guy i think its worse when a girl cheats than when a man does why would u take a cheater back? what would be the point? people are like "maybe u can salvage.." NO, there is nothing left to salvage if a girl cheated on me i'd be left with a pain that i'd always be trying to suppress, and she would have guilt that would make her try to "make up" for what she did but the fact of the matter is SHE WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO i say if someone cheats on u its just over period.. have some respect for yourself.. it doesn't have to be like "screw u for cheating on me" but just move on with your life if you have kids then too bad, u still need to move on because there will be tension in the house.. the only way there wouldn't be tension is if the person being cheated on just allowed the cheating to happen and ignored it completely like "yes please continue to walk all over me" these are just my thoughts on cheating whenever i see people saying they want to take their cheating spouse back i always think they are making a mistake not saying its always easy to say no to temptation.. but its just something u have to do your mind has to be made up u don't sit and wonder "maybe if i just cheat once" or "maybe if we just kiss" .. no u have to make it up in your mind not to cheat i am pretty liberal if there are no labels in your relationship, (which is why i sometimes date multiple girls at once) but once you guys both agree that its exclusive then it needs to be exclusive so just for the record if anyone wanted to know my stance on cheating i say don't take them back, you will regret taking them back- especially if you're a guy.. your jealousy and torment will eat you from the inside out, nothing is worth that
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