so i'm watchin judge judy and this woman is suing her ex boyfriend for money
ok i'm not going to get into the specifics of the case but i want to point out that this woman was bitter about him leaving her she had 2 kids, he had no kids, and she relocated herself and her kids to get a place with him he ended up leaving her u could tell from her speech she felt like it was his responsibility to be there "well your honor.. when he abandoned me" here's my issue with this YOU WERE NOT MARRIED TO HIM YOU RELOCATED YOUR SELF AND YOUR KIDS TO LIVE WITH A GUY YOU MET FROM THE INTERNET where is his responsibility? where is his allegiance? where is his commitment? from a guy's perspective she was ASKING TO GET PLAYED yeah he may make u think he wants to marry you or make you think it'll be a permanent relationship or make you think this or that.. but where is his sacrifice? what has he shown you? where has he been inconvenienced? like come on, why do women think men are going to commit without commitment seriously if he's not willing to marry you now then what makes u think moving in with him will make him want to marry you? at that point WHAT DOES HE GAIN!? and i'm not saying it NEVER happens, but for the most part, if you move in with a dude and he's getting all the benefits of a wife then there's no reason for him to marry you at that point.. as a matter of fact he will probably lose respect for you MEN WANT A WOMAN THEY CAN RESPECT, no guy wants to marry a jump-off.. he may play with a jump-off but he doesn't want to marry her.. THIS IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE what irks me is like.. how can u possibly be that dumb? how could he have ABANDONED you when there was never a commitment in the first place? those aren't even his kids.. did he abandon you or did u play yourself? i mean dang women talk about having "women's intuition" how about women's INTELLIGENCE how about that!? HOW STUPID CAN YOU BE!!!!!!
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