i saw this article today on a website.. i thought i'd share it because it resonated with me as being very true, because i actually had this exact same experience when i was in high school/early college
i reached out for advice on how to get girls and realized a lot, if not all of the tips are ways to manipulate or lie.. a "how to" on taking advantage of someone how to show yourself as being person-A when ur really person-Z upon learning this i had the same reaction the author of this story had.. which was: "yo i don't think i care to be like these guys anymore" or- "sorry but i like being able to look myself in the mirror every day" lol anyway check it out.. its just food for thought, but like i said.. i was amazed at how similar our experience was in this area: Kiss The Girls... And Make Them Cry? One of my best friends in high school, (I’ll call him Mike) grew up in a single-family home. Mike never knew his dad, and his mother was wantonly promiscuous. All three of her children were born out of wedlock… to different men. She raised them to follow in her footsteps. Her two daughters were versed at using their beauty and bodies to manipulate men. The three women would tell Mike all of the time that he was going to be a heartbreaker and they trained him how to be one. They showed Mike how to seduce women and how to gain control of a woman’s emotions. Although he was still in high school, Mike had become a master of seduction! When I saw how the girls swooned over him, my mind was made up… I wanted to be like Mike! He agreed to school me on the rudiments of being a player. Me and countless others boys always wondered what Mike said to these girls to get them to fall in love with him and to have sex with him. I sincerely thought he was going to show me some super smooth moves and give me some dazzling words to say. Instead, the only thing he taught me was how to be a liar! He told me to lie about everything: my age, the grade I was in, and anything I could think of to convince a female to have sex with me! He showed me how to instantly get a girl’s attention and how to look a girl in the eyes and say, “I love you,” even though I didn’t love her. He instructed me on how to evade her or break-up with her after I got into her panties. He showed me other tactics such as how to turn a virgin out, how to manipulate girls and how to date two or three females at the same time. After he was all said and done, I no longer wanted to be like Mike. From Protectors To Predators... From Princes to Pimps Multitudes of males in our society are like Mike… they have been indoctrinated to be predators rather than protectors, players and pimps rather than princes, and knights. not saying ALL dating advice is geared to manipulate or take advantage, but some of these guys are only out for self.. at the expense of any girl's heart they will take what they want a girl might say to herself "i just give and give and give and all you do is take" (wait for it).......EXACTLY! when i realized how sleazy some of these guys really were, i came to the conclusion- "screw it.. i'm just going to be me.. if girls don't like me then cool" and there's a real freedom in that.. ya kno?
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