one thing that kinda pisses me off is when i see a young couple who doesn't get married because of what their families might think, or because they think they don't have enough money, or because they think they're not old enough or whatever
i don't agree with the stuff most people say to young couples.. they say things like "you don't know what love is" or "you can't get married right now ur just a baby" look, if they want to get married fck it let them do it.. what do you expect people to do? you tell people to not fornicate then u advise them not to get married like wtf sometimes i think about the girl i had when i was 20 and i think about how special our relationship was.. i walk around now and no one understands me or gets me for who i am.. she did tho sometimes i really regret how our relationship fell through.. i go through life and no one gets my jokes, no one even WANTS to get to know me or anything.. i've taken girls on dates and just sat and watched them act like idiots.. my old g/f really understood JAMES you know what i'm sayin? i could make the dumbest joke ever and she would laugh or make fun of me in a loving way.. i hate that people tell you that because ur young, u shouldn't appreciate that kind of stuff its backwards.. i really don't agree with anything in society and some days it really pisses me off right now i know a couple and they're both 20yrs old.. they've been together for a few yrs and one of them told me "i can't wait to get married and get on with my life" i didn't say anything but to me i'm like man DO IT like seriously what the fck are you waiting for? you're old enough, you love who ur with, they understand u, they don't have baggage, they're in tune with you, you can get an apartment or house together and save money, you can still do school, you don't have to have kids until u feel like it.. like WHAT THE FCK IS THE BIG HOLD UP WHAT R U WAITING FOR? i think about my own life and i think i would have been in better shape had i stayed with my ex and if our relationship hadn't gotten screwed up we'd be doing really well today we had our issues but in my mind if we would have manned up and went to counseling we would've been cool.. and there are a lot of resources for that.. relationship counseling, marriage counseling.. these things are common and not to be frowned upon a lot of times we give up on relationships when they just need something small.. like throwing away a car when all it needs is an oil change... ngga take your ish to valvoline and have them get u back on the road here are my thoughts on family: their opinion isn't worth anything.. if they just don't like someone because of some petty reason then distance urself from ur family.. if they have REAL concerns.. then hear ur family out and take the right steps here is an example of petty ish: "i don't like ur boyfriend because he's black" here is an example of a real concern: "ur girlfriend has 2 kids by two different men and you have a good job and no kids.. are you sure she's in this for the right reasons?" now.. here's my view on the money issue.. F*CK MONEY don't make money your God.. be wise with it but when you need to use it to your advantage then you just have to do that.. like for example.. how many of us would be in college if we didn't have loans? we have to take out the loans in order to make progress.. i know it sucks balls but sometimes it might be necessary to spend a little something in order to just jump a certain hurdle if you spend a lot then pray to God that He will help you to pay your debts back and work to free yourself of the debts at the same time tho.. be responsible.. do u need a huge wedding? if your love is really that strong why not just go to the courthouse and make a deal with ur spouse.. "look, we'll get married right now, but in 5 yrs when we're financially stable we'll have a big wedding" now ur married and u have 5 yrs to plan a perfect wedding.. what the fck is wrong with that? why do people think they need to just sit around single for 10 yrs saving up for a wedding? by the time they get the money issue together then the relationship is probably over because there was no true commitment for such a long time i'm so tired of gay nggas talking about how bad they want to be married and straight people avoid it for every reason under the sun.. look, that ish is RIDICULOUS.. its totally morally effed up and backwards.. gay nggas want to do the wrong thing the "right" way and straight people want to do the right thing the wrong way.. .. LETS DO THE RIGHT THING THE RIGHT WAY!!!!!! lets get it together, if God gives you someone, appreciate them and put them in the position they should be in of your wife or husband.. stop with the bs rhetoric and this blog could kinda go for people who want to have kids too.. if you want to have kids then do it.. don't let people tell u kids suck all the life out of you or this or that.. look if thats what u want then go ahead.. children are a blessing.. don't let people tell u they are a burden with no benefits overall stop letting society and miserable people tell u what u can/can't should/shouldn't do if you're living right then DO WHAT YOU WANT if you're in sin then that's a whole diff thing, i'd never say its ok for someone to sin cuz i don't want to see anyone end up in hell, but if what ur doing is right don't let people talk u out of that ish
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Demetra Todd
4/6/2011 05:46:01 am
Wow! You are totally right about everything in this blog! My parents don't like that I date black guys and I have told them that I love and respect them and their opinion but its my life and my happiness. I'm glad I looked at your blog. You are pretty cool! LoL!
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teh pool boy
4/6/2011 07:42:31 am
wow thanks baybz i appreciate the positive feedback! .. and yeah i understand what u are going through i dated a white girl for a few years.. and her and i had people on both sides talking bad about the other..
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