i told someone i hate it when people diss people for dating outside of their race
i think its born out of insecurity, ignorance, and jealousy, and that causes unwarranted hate/negativity toward an innocent party
sidenote: i may explain the 'ignorance' aspect of racism on a future blog because it has to do with a skewed and therefore false belief
sidenote #2: if u are one of these people who does this and u are single then u seriously need to change or u will remain single.. stop trying to justify your own crap and change right now.. ask God to forgive u for hating on people and being a racist
anyway.. with time the conversation went to just hating on people in general
i thought about haters a bit
people who hate on u are generally going to be the people closest to you
u get green money then they get green envy
unfortunately this is just pretty much a fact of life
and its not just relegated to money it could be like two girls grow up and one is pretty and the other one isn't.. so the ugly one hates on the pretty one
it can be a lot of diff things
now.. we have established who hates on u.. but who do u hate on?
i thought about it.. i really thought about it and for real i can't remember hating on anyone
no joke.. hating on people is not something i get into.. not saying i'm a perfect person.. i don't believe i am good or wise but hear me out
hating on people is a covetous thing.. and "thou shall not covet" is indeed one of the 10 commandments
u are mad at them because they have something u want
there is no reason for this because God gave u your own lane.. why do u want to be in someone else's lane?
even if they have something u want u have to focus on how you can get that thing for yourself, not focus on "they have it but i don't"
how do u get something u want?
write it down, and make it plain, and pray to God about it in secret.. also remember key scriptures such as "faith without works is dead"
the worldly way is to tear other people down and bring them to your level.. to destroy their happiness so they can be unhappy with u
the right way is to recognize God gave you YOUR OWN LIFE, YOUR OWN PATH, and He will direct you, you just have to allow Him to u feel me?
ok so if this is for anyone just remember God has your back in this and u don't have to be covetous.. (which creates hatred, envy, contention and more)
trust God and u can be happy and content in your own lane!