i ran across a chick today.. she said she got married and didn't want to change her last name.. but she reluctantly changed it to her husband's name because she saw that he was hurt that she didn't want his name
first of all her guy is a simp.. if a girl doesn't want ur name she isn't worth your time.. he should've kept it moving when she said she wanted to get married and keep her original last name.. i can see a hybrid name perhaps but to just keep ur ish and not change it at all is just symbolically effed up
so back to our conversation.. i was telling her "u see how important your original last name is to you? a name means a lot.. its symbolism its not just a name.. so as important as it is to you, its just-as or more important to your husband that u change it"
she responded with "why? ..because i'm a woman i should change my name? he didn't have to change his!"
at this point i shook my head and walked away..
some people have no understanding of things beyond surface value
here she goes with this stupid "women's liberation" rhetoric
ok for people who don't know.. get online and do real research on the origin of the feminist movement.. it was funded by the government to get women out the house and in jobs so that they can be taxed because before that, u basically had 50% of the population not being taxed
it was a media assault on america to convince women they weren't happy or fulfilled, to undermine a man's natural authority and to subversively disrupt the strongest single unit of america, the family household
"if we take mom out the house, then the kids will have to go to school and we can indoctrinate their children"
this stuff you see on tv about these "liberated" sex in the city women IS NOT REAL.. women are less happy than they were prior to all the feminist ish.. and women are actually less happy than men today (i saw this on an expose about the feminist movement like 2 weeks ago)
women were promised power but instead they just got their responsibilities doubled
this is the nature of satan to promise you something but to add a hidden sorrow to it
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY SINGLE MOTHERS OUT HERE WOULD KILL TO HAVE A MAN WORK WHILE SHE TAKES CARE OF THE HOME!?
if women want to work that's fine, but my point is that the feminist movement was disguised as "liberation" when it was really meant to disrupt people and their values
for example.. i might see a kid with a $100bill.. i could go buy a bag of candy for $5 and tell the kid i'll trade him the bag of candy for that green piece of paper he has.. he would likely say yes and be happy about the transaction but i would know that i outsmarted him
THIS HAPPENS ON A MAJOR LEVEL and feminism is an example of it.. again I AM NOT SAYING WOMEN ARE LESS-THAN OR THAT THEY HAVE NO VALUE OR SHOULD NEVER WORK
but the point is.. stop letting the media brainwash you.. they are shaping your view of marriage and skewing to it look like it is oppressive to you.. "your husband doesn't love you.. he's a tyrant" .. which is the exact same thing they want to do with your view of Jesus and Christianity
on top of that, they get you to leave ur family unit, then they indoctrinate all kids in school with big bang theory, whatever they want to show u about sex education, whatever they want to teach your kids about history, forcing kids to say the pledge of allegiance everyday with their hand over their heart, by the time people get out of high school and college they all think the same and do the same things
both parents are busy with their own lives so now tv is a babysitter.. so now there's even more brainwashing.. happy people have houses like THIS, happy people look like THIS, black people can only be THIS, morals are old fashioned.. trans-gender people are "sexually enlightened" unlike the rest of us BORING people.. marriage is highly unsatisfying.. religion causes wars.. Christians have no sense.. abortion is common and morally right and "standard procedure"
THIS IS WHAT IS IMPLIED ON TV DAILY IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER ON SHOWS AND COMMERCIALS CONSTANTLY
WAKE UP.. this woman i was talking to is so un-intelligent to me that i don't think i can get through to her.. think about it...
what man wants to marry a woman and have her still be separate from him in such an obvious way?
why not be like "he wants me to have his name because he loves me" ??
why are you instead thinking "this is oppressive to my being" ??
THINK ABOUT WHERE YOU GOT SUCH A NOTION.. you are making something symbolic and beautiful and meaningful into something totally different.. but where did u get these ideas? exactly.. TV, and SCHOOL
she said "sometimes i think about divorcing him just to get my name back"
at this point i was just like astonished
like wow you really don't get it at all
these people want to disrupt the natural order of everything.. if you are a woman walking around talking about "i don't need a man" they got you too
there is so much corruption that people aren't aware of
look i feel like i will be here all night trying to explain this
just listen to this and marinate on it
i turned on BET for a minute today just to see what was on and monique was on there telling women to be strippers
"if u make $5 as a waitress isn't that the same as $5 at a strip club?"
"strippers probably earn more than women in corporate jobs"
"don't judge the profession because strippers can make a lot of money and be upstanding citizens"
wow thanks a lot monique.. tell black women that stripping is better for them than jobs where self respect is proper
i'm not stupid i can tell ur reading off a teleprompter and i know someone is trying to reach young black women through you.. you are a mere puppet and you should be ashamed of it
not everything is worth being rich and famous.. i would rather be broke than be on tv and rich and telling young black men something like "don't knock prison.. don't judge it because you can do a lot of thinking in there.. and you'll have a lot of time to work out too"
people really trip me out with that "don't judge it" or "don't judge me" thing too
EVERYTHING IS A DECISION, ASSESSMENT, OR JUDGMENT
should a person just accept EVERYTHING into their life?
its to where people are basically saying "don't use your brain" .. seriously to say "don't judge" is like a disclaimer
"i'm about to say something ignorant so DISCLAIMER! your power of perception and judgment will not be necessary for the remainder of my statement."
seriously its like some sort of way to push a false-guilt onto people.. its also a covert way to say there is no such thing as right or wrong.. people however get so caught up in the false-guilt that they look no further into it and just allow something wildly ignorant to be said
HOW R U GONNA CALL A WOMAN JUDGMENTAL BECAUSE SHE DOESNT WANT TO STRIP AND WHORE HERSELF AND SHAME HER FAMILY? HOW R U GONNA SAY ITS BAD TO HAVE PERSONAL STANDARDS AND SELF RESPECT?
im so tired of people trying to justify everything that is sick and depraved and then they try to tell me IM the bad one.. i tell you there's a better way and you proceed to demonize ME!
this is why i choose not to care what people are talking about.. cuz people don't have common sense and if ignorance is cool then put me on the side with the trekkies