i want to talk quickly about mystikal's new rape case
ok the first time he went to jail for rape in 2002 i believe he did it because there was apparently video evidence however this time i kinda doubt it i mean don't get me wrong he could have done it- but from my perspective.. it seems false because this doesn't sound like a setup, it sounds more like she wanted to just have sex with two guys the warrant from the first rape back in 2002 sounded like a setup.. he apparently lured her to his house and smutted her out with two of his friends however this time the incident was at a hotel casino... what i mean is- its one thing for u to lure an unsuspecting person to your house where no one can hear them scream and do whatever u want to them its another thing to have sex with a woman in a hotel room above a casino.. because in this case- if you didn't want sex you probably wouldn't have been there i could be wrong but imo the location shows that she had intent to have sex... but at the same time he does have an old lyric from 1998 that said "i'm the thief in the night that'll slide your drawers off" so, make of that what you will
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in my last "relationship" i got an up close and personal view of what it means to walk in pride
my ex g/f was extremely prideful, she wouldn't acknowledge things she did wrong, she would refuse to apologize or she would give fake apologies like "i'm sorry you feel that way," she would sometimes even (her words not mine) refuse to listen to the Holy Spirit's instructions for her- instead choosing pride, pride is stubborn, pride does no wrong, pride is hard headed, pride wants to prove a point, pride doesn't listen, pride doesn't show feelings, pride has no heart or emotions, pride is all about self, pride gaslights, pride lacks empathy, pride is just an awful, awful thing that does not foster peace or positive relationships with that said lavar ball's refusal to acknowledge donald trump's efforts to get his son back from china's authorities is pride as i watched lavar ball refuse to acknowledge trump, refuse to thank trump, as i watched him dance around the fact that trump called and spoke to authorities and his son, as i watched lavar ball change the subject and deflect and say "if trump helped then what do u want from me" ... i saw my ex g/f and so i was very familiar with his behavior... i've seen his behavior and i know his behavior and its disgusting, and i detest ungrateful people let me tell u all something.. i don't know if i detailed this on the site but i turned in a paper on the modern day men's movements for my final master's thesis and later it was made clear to me that my teacher was a feminist she refused to grade my paper for nearly two months after i graduated.. imagine that... imagine walking across the stage and everything is done and everyone is happy but then you realize you're missing a grade and if you don't receive that grade then you will have to go back to school i begged her that whole time to grade my paper and she kept blowing me off and talking to me crazy in emails.. she finally just told me to redo the whole thing.. she gave me no feedback, she just said redo it.. she really just wanted me to go to another teacher and do another semester.. she didn't want to be the hand to pass this guy with a pro-male stance.. she wanted me to just give up.. but i didn't.. i prayed, got prayer from some people at church, and i had it looked at 3 times and spent $300 to get it professionally looked at i turned it back in, she still refused to grade it i then took a final shot in the dark and copied some of her attitude filled emails and sent them to her boss and the graduation committee and told them that she refused to grade my paper and once i did that she called me the next day and said she gave me a B what is my point? here's my point: after being treated like crap by her for all that time i STILL said thank you to her for finally grading my paper and giving me a B i overlooked all of her crap and still showed her respect for her position and for her efforts even though they were minimal I STILL THANKED HER even though she almost derailed what i believed was a great accomplishment (getting a master's degree) even though she treated me like crap, i still recognized that she eventually came to her senses and i thanked her.. gratitude is important, because the cold hard truth is that no one really owes you anything in this life.. if you can't be thankful then what can you be? nice? polite? gracious? pleasant? yeah NO... scratch all of those... if you can't be thankful then there are a lot of other things you automatically can't be a thank you follows something someone has done for you- a person has shown you some mercy or some love or some attentiveness... so the fact that you can't even say thank you means you are essentially worse than a heathen the Christ follower loves everyone, even his enemies the heathen loves only those who show him love the ungrateful person receives love in some form or fashion and doesn't show anything back.. they won't acknowledge that a good has been given if you don't show those who show u love any love back, then who are you? what type of person are you? i'll tell you who you are, you are a prideful person and the bible makes it very clear that pride comes before a fall oftentimes you can see pride in the way people carry themselves.. with women you often see it in how they hold their head, and how they look at people they deem to be "beneath" themselves well, with lavar ball, you can visually see his pride when he's dancing around and walking like he's the protagonist in a 1970s blaxploitation film.. i mean you can literally see pride all over this guy... i was watching him dance around and i was just thinking to myself- "you've got to be kidding me" and i have to throw this in there.. to all the black people talking about "trump just wants lavar to bow down and praise the white man" ...none of you would say that if obama got some white guy out of a jam and they didn't say thank you... like say obama got some white republican out of a jam and he didn't say thank you.. none of you people would be saying "obama wants him to bow down and kiss his shoes and shuck and jive" .... you would be saying "those republicans are this and that blah blah blah" ..so just cut it out because guess what? race has absolutely NOTHING to do with this if this was race based why would trump even call on their behalf in the first place? all three of those players are black you idiot! isn't that where racist white people want black males? in prison? like give it a rest this situation has nothing to do with race that's the president of the united states, that is the highest office a man in our country can have and he saw fit to help get lavar's son out of a serious jam and he doesn't even have the decency to say thank you let me tell u something.. i HATE ungratefulness and i have nothing good to say about lavar ball at this point i wouldn't be surprised if he became a total joke in the next 5 yrs sort of like how we look at the guy who made the delorian now anyway.. in my eyes lavar ball is a straight up bozo.. and i just wanted speak on his ridiculous words and behavior concerning whether or not he believes trump helped his son the guy legit argues like a female.. just talking over you and saying things that don't make sense and switching subjects the whole time all that deflecting and moving the goal post and actually finding fault in a person who legitimately deserves a thank you is just filth to me done. today i realized something about women and that is that they don't really hear words when you talk to them- it appears that they are using your words to gauge what they believe to be strength and weakness
the less you divulge about yourself, the better off you are with a woman the more you divulge, it seems the less they are inclined to respect you when i speak to men its like they hear what i am saying but its like women are just taking what i say and putting it in a vault of "he is weak" or "he is strong" for example if i say to a man "i like to play video games" he hears "james likes to play video games" if i say to a woman "i like to play video games" she may take that information and associate it with children and so she reasons "james is childish" and that is a strike against me as that gets placed in the "weakness" box if i say nothing about myself and just ask her about herself then i can remain in the "vague" or "mysterious" category and she likes that... when she has to wonder about a man she seems to really like that i've also noticed today- that women appear to make a lot more snap judgments about people than men.. not only are women's judgments extremely fast- but they also appear to be permanent like for example, a man might go to work and see a person do something embarassing and he will laugh at the person but he will still esteem and respect them as a person if a woman goes to work and sees a person embarass themselves, she will be likely to put that person in a category of "screw up" and that person is then locked into that category in her eyes for an indefinite amount of time i think this is why women are so obsessed with their image, because they tend to believe others are judging them as hard as they are judging other people for men we don't really judge people this way, we are more likely to separate things like "she's fat but she's cool" "he's broke but he's responsible" type of thing women are more likely to see a fat man and categorize him as a loser.. or see a broke man and say he's a lost cause this type of thinking is actually like a box or a cage though.. and this is why women are so uptight in comparison to men because of the fact that they judge people quicker, harsher, and more permanently- they either A. are judged the same way or B. THINK they are being judged the same way as men, the lesson we get from everything i've just stated is basically... don't divulge any type of weakness to a woman because she will not process it correctly, and she is very likely to use it against you or hold it against you think about samson and delilah ideally, we should keep our talk with women to a minimum because even things that are not actual weaknesses are likely to be processed as such by women.. and actual weaknesses are likely to be exploited a lot of us men probably haven't been privy to this type of thing because we don't really think this way.. but knowledge is power all in all- we might as well use women's image-conscious mindset to our benefit and give them the illusion they are seeking this is a must see for men and women's general knowledge.. it shows how much the media attempts to masculinize black women (it mostly has a black slant but on some levels it can go for any race because.. well, among other things.. I played horizon zero dawn) ok so right now i want to talk about another thing i am tired of women doing to me in the midst of conversation
let me start with an example so today i was talking to a girl on the phone and at one point she said: "men all do the same things, lie and cheat" i laughed at what she said and she laughed also, and we kept moving along in the conversation my issue with women is this.... if i say "women all do such and such" and a woman hears it, she won't laugh and just hear what i'm saying.. she's going to try and defend all women women have a weird way of hearing things its like if you say something bad about one woman and a woman hears it- she takes it like you're talking about all women and she will go on this huge tirade about how you could be wrong about what you think u see this in the media a lot.. a man may say something about a woman like "you're fat" or something.. and women take it like that man is talking about all women everywhere, whether they are fat or not but anyway.. its like i don't have the freedom to say "women are this or that" without having to hear about it for the next 20 minutes when i say something about women, why can't women just laugh? why do they feel the need to act all high and mighty? the first thing i hear is "you're just bitter" "you're just mad" "you're just blah blah" CAN A BROTHA HAVE AN OPINION OR NOT what if that girl said men lie and cheat and i was like "you're bitter you have problems" like its not always that serious and let me say this.. because i've been wanting to say this for a while why would you feel offended if the thing doesn't apply to you? like if i say "i am tired of slutty women" and you're a female and you're offended- that is because you are a part of that bunch when she said men lie and cheat i laughed.. why should i try to defend men? i don't lie and cheat! i'm not threatened! she can say that all day but i'm still going to walk with integrity! IT DOESNT APPLY TO ME!!!!!! do u women see now how stupid it is for you to defend the worst women? you are lumping yourselves in with them.. only the hit dogs holler.. if i say women should dress modestly and i have to argue with you for the next hour about it- then that likely means u enjoy dressing like a skank from time to time.. true or not? anyway that girl on the phone said all men lie and cheat but i didn't feel the need to defend all men... no part of me felt the need to say "no! you're wrong! your experience was an isolated incident!" but that's what i always hear from women.. they are always trying to convince you that your issue with a woman was an isolated incident, or they will try to convince you it was your fault to begin with "she left u because you did such and such" "she disrespected you because you didn't do blah blah" "women act right, they just don't act right around YOU!" they always find a way to make a woman's negative conduct YOUR fault which makes no sense.. and that brings me to another point i am tired of women and their vindictive ways this same girl i spoke to on the phone today said "my neighbors make a ton of noise so i make sure to make a lot of noise whenever i get up in the morning" why don't women understand that's vindictive? when i had noisy neighbors i didn't say "the way to get them back is to make the same amount of noise or more" i just dealt with it.. sometimes i left my apartment, and sometimes i just tried to go to sleep with headphones on smh the point is- my thought process wasn't "u know what will work? if i stoop to their level! EUREKA!" like women are extremely short-sighted.. and they don't understand how sound works.. my ex g/f was trying to make a bunch of noise to get back at her neighbors above her lol.. since when can people above you really hear what you're doing? all she was doing was bothering her neighbors on the sides, not her noisy neighbors above her the things women do just don't make any sense and i know some moron is reading this saying "james is always mad at women" no.. this is the issue- when you're a male in this society, you grow up thinking all your thoughts and actions are wrong or incorrect .. you're either too weak and a punk or too strong and controlling and overbearing.. nothing you do is correct enough in our society and women just nitpick every single thing you do until you feel like you need to just live in a box and never move an inch to avoid the incessant criticism from female peers and female teachers (who make up like 80-90% of faculty) but here's the thing.. one day you wake up and realize ITS NOT ME, ITS THEM IM NOT THE IDIOT, THEY ARE THE IDIOTS that's why i have so much to say about women all the time because i grew up in this society telling me i'm wrong about everything when in reality its the women who are walking around with no logic, no bravery, no sense of honor, no sense of duty, complete lack of objectivity, and void of integrity anyway back to what i was saying.. proverbs 20:22 Say not thou, I will recompense evil; but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee. get it now ladies? being vindictive is not of God.. it is destructive and annoying its like that manifesto people live by "if someone hits you, you hit em' back" ...its like they don't realize that way of thinking just fosters pride and fighting they also don't realize sometimes things aren't actually meant to be offensive, they are just PERCEIVED as offensive my awful ex g/f was vindictive too.. she used to say "you treat me good i'll treat you better, you treat me bad i'll treat you worse" which was totally retarded "logic" but how can you explain that to someone who is smug about such a dumb statement? AGAIN: Say not thou, I will recompense evil; but wait on the LORD Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. (Romans 12:19) i don't want to hear ANYONE else say to me how good they are at "getting people back" like seriously get over yourself and grow up and just pray the bitterness and resentment off of you and keep it movin.. you're not God and bottom line is i'm just not up for anymore relationships with vindictive women.. they can all go drive off a cliff for all i care i want to talk about one thing i'm tired of
i am tired of this response i get when i say women like to be treated badly like the other day i saw a video on youtube and the title was something like "red flags women need to look for to avoid bad men" so i clicked it because i was saying in my head: "i bet i don't posess any of the red flags women need to look out for" well i watched the video from beginning to end and i was right.. everything she mentioned was something i was not doing so then i left a comment basically saying "i don't do any of this negative stuff, but the problem is no women appreciate it.... as a matter of fact, everything you mentioned in this video seems to be what women like" and i really meant that, everything she said was a red flag was actually what women seem to like and be drawn to.. women say they want good guys but they just overlook good guys and go for guys who have no type of morals or ethics so then she responded and she gave me the response i have been hearing for years "not all women are like that" I AM SO TIRED OF HEARING THIS AND OTHER VARIATIONS OF IT what does that have to do with reality? this is what that's like to me.. its like say i came up to you one day and i said "michigan is cold" and then you said "not everyday" ok you're technically correct but the reality is still MICHIGAN IS COLD so when i say "women say they want good guys but they only like thugs" just be honest about it.. stop trying to damage control it by saying "not all women" because 1 in 1,000 isn't really helping me now is it? like saying "not all" isn't a real response i could say "not all men have a penis" and still be correct.. so stop saying that crap to me! it is so patronizing and annoying at this point the bottom line is that most women are scumbags and liars and they are out acting like idiots.. they are aborting their babies and getting stds and turning down good men... meanwhile- they're wondering why some guy with 10 friends with benefits lined up in his phone hardly pays them any attention i am tired of women saying "not all women are like that" as if that means anything.. if YOU and ALL YOUR FRIENDS are like that then why are you saying to me "not all of us act that way" ????? how would you women feel if you said "i never meet any educated black men with their lives together" and every guy you came across said "that's not true, there's plenty of those" and everyone who said that was an uneducated black male in struggle mode? really how would that make u feel? wouldn't you get tired of the smoke screen? give it a rest!!!!! i'm over your imaginary women you try to dangle in front of my face! "don't give up james, there's one out there" "james don't give up on women yet! i know you've seen 1,000 skanks, but there's a good woman out there somewhere" "james keep trying.. some women appreciate gentlemen and don't take your efforts for granted" "james come on keep being a good man, all women aren't offering you leftovers after the basketball squad has had their fill" GIVE IT A REST I AM OVER YOUR CRAP.. SAVE IT FOR SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES YOUR RHETORIC! save it for someone who still believes good women exist in this climate because all of this jibberish i'm hearing is beginning to look a lot like gaslighting DONE. check out this comment i just ran across on youtube.. it's relevant to a lot of the things i talk about here on the site i was surprised that this happened to a woman.. when i say "this" i mean the whole "i'll live up to my role after we get married" thing
i've said on here before that that way of going about things is not right- but i didn't think a man would ever actually say something like that.. i imagine he was a narcissist (which isn't an excuse for his actions, i'm just saying) anyway, here was my response to her comment: the bible says men are to love their wives and women are to submit to their husbands.. with that said, my ex g/f tried to run that same game on me that ur ex husband ran on u when he was talking about “ill love u after we get married”... my ex g/f said “ill submit after we get married” smh.. that attitude is NOT of God and is definitely a red flag because when u are dating, courting, or engaged u should be showing that u can (and are willing to) give that person what they are supposed to get from you.. when a person is saying “ill act right later on” it means they have the wrong attitude because they aren’t seeking to give the advantage and that is what we are supposed to do in marriage.. anyway what i told my ex was “how can u say u will only submit after we are married? what if i said i will only love u after we’re married?” she of course changed the subject.. long story short i am not with her and i wanted her but i cant make a grown person act right.. im done with women who dont want to hold up their end of the deal i was thinking a little about how the bible says in the last days people will be lovers of themselves
we appear to be in the midst of that with the vanity we see.. the selfies.. people who are quick to throw others in the trash (aka delete them and block them and treat them like they don't exist), the frivolous divorces, the "relationships" where you agree to everything except patience and commitment, the way we treat our elders.. the way we go on social media and only show the good aspects of our lives etc so i was thinking about this and i was thinking about the "why's" behind it all i will try to speculate i think one big reason why this stuff happens is because of the breakdown of marriage, and lack of marriage which leads to the breakdown of family and lack of family the parents are not content without a spouse and they are out searching and finding more people to have sex with and they are getting hurt in the process... the children of these people are obviously neglected and grow up wanting more validation and attention and so they get it from fronting on the gram or from the opposite sex or whatever people today as a result of the things i have described are constantly feeding their own egos but they are actually less content than people 40, 50, 60 yrs ago for example a girl once told me "if i want attention i can post a picture online and get 300 comments" now that's fine and everything but she is in her mid 30s and single with no kids what i'm saying is.. we are oftentimes substituting true contentment for short bursts of attention/stimulation now when u think about true contentment- here's the thing.. it doesn't only come from receiving (love, time attention, gifts, accolades, etc) IT ALSO INCLUDES GIVING LOVE i think this is where we are missing it today we take and receive but we don't give and we wonder why we are not ultimately fulfilled.. but you cannot just receive and be fulfilled, if you are a vessel you must also give its like when you put in a hard day of work- you feel a sense of fulfillment.. when you go hard at the gym- you have given of your self and you feel fulfillment.. when you pour into others and act unselfishly.. you feel contentment.. we are missing this ingredient today you want sex without kids you want love without commitment you want blessings without God you want attention without friendship "i will let him take me out but i won't cook for him" "i'll smash her but i'll never marry her" this just seems to be what the climate is like today.. when will we remember that we have to give of ourselves for true contentment and fulfillment? anyway... i just wanted to speak a few words on the modern day social landscape here's a little story i don't think i ever told
this is just a thing that happened in my life when i was in high school i was dating a bubbly white girl named chrissy during this time, i used to sit next to a cute black girl on the busride to school... we used to sit next to each other like every day i don't remember her name but she was pretty, she was light skinned, she had a little brother, and she was the same religion as me at the time which was apostolic (i was raised apostolic however as an adult i just consider myself christian or non-denominational or whatever) apostolics are basically just christians, but they tend to be more strict her and i used to talk about whatever, and she was really cool and sweet and really nice to me... this girl actually could've been my girlfriend if i didn't already have one at the time.. well one day we got on the topic of sex.. i don't remember how we got on it- it might've been after prom or something so she asked me if i had sex with my girlfriend... i remember this girl was always single but i was always with chrissy the answer was of course no... but for some reason i wanted to say something other than that... i guess i was just being immature or maybe i wanted to see how she would react if i acted like i had sex so she kept asking me if i had sex with her and i kept telling her i didn't want to talk about it.. so finally at the end of the bus ride she came to the conclusion that i did have sex and i just let her believe that looking back this was just not a smart move for me she seemed disappointed almost to the point of anger the worst part was, she never spoke to me again after that i remember one day i saw her in the hallway and i was like hey what's up! yo! and she just walked into her class like she didn't even hear me or see me (sidenote: this was very hurtful and confusing to me at the time) then a little after i graduated i saw her at kroger one day and i was like hey lets exchange numbers.. she kinda just stood there.. i called her later and she never answered i think she was really disappointed in me.. she must've been thinking i had sex and thinking i was just some sort of scumbag who didn't hold onto his beliefs i guess she lost respect for me and it was just gone after that looking back though, i like her reaction on some level.. while i think she could've been a little more lenient (cuz i would have eventually told her i was just messing around) i still think she was somewhat justified in feeling let down... and looking back- it also shows me she had standards, which is something i respect one day if i get a chance to look in our old yearbook again i would like to look her up and see how she's doing have you ever noticed women always see other women as a victim?
no matter what a woman does, if you tell another woman she will automatically begin to make excuses for that woman or say something like "she's hurt" lol i mean it is to a point of absurdity like for example, one day i saw sherri shepard on the view crying about how she had 5 abortions and you have women like "aww she's so hurt" you don't get pity from me for that... i have never had sex, close your legs women are always obliged to let another woman slide by or cop a plea but if you ask me- this is why women are such scumbags today because no one holds them accountable for any of their actions no matter what a woman does the bleachers are going to cheer for her- its a total joke.. women have an endless supply of support and they have an infinite amount of victim cards to pull i remember when i was in high school some woman killed two of her kids and she blamed it on post partum depression and i remember i was like that's ridiculous and my teacher was defending her and saying "post partum is real" A LOT OF THINGS ARE REAL work stress being emasculated putting on weight lack of sleep being stuck in a rut being lonely being broke the list goes on, but guess what? if a guy kills his kids and blames any of his issues, no one is going to say "give him a break, he was going through a rough patch" what made me realize this whole thing was i was telling someone about something a girl did and they immediately said "well, she must be hurt" like how is that an ok response? like if i say "this girl did something unnecessarily vindictive that hurt me to my very core" and the person says "stop being bitter, she must've been dealing with hurt" like on one hand its totally laughable but on the other hand its not funny at all, because i am demonized for voicing a situation but the person who actually caused me deep pain is totally let off the hook its just utterly ridiculous women LITERALLY get away with murder in this society!!!!!!!! AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO SEES THIS STUFF? i mean a woman can just cuss you out and totally bash you and people will tell you as a man "man up" or "oh you can't take it? you're weak" how is this ok to people? women should not be above the law or even above basic couth conduct anyway.. we have to stop giving women these unlimited victim cards because women have no accountability anymore no wonder there is no wife material for us men out here anymore we really have to put our foot down and if i have to be the only one to speak out and speak honestly, then so be it |
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December 2017
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