check out this comment i just ran across on youtube.. it's relevant to a lot of the things i talk about here on the site i was surprised that this happened to a woman.. when i say "this" i mean the whole "i'll live up to my role after we get married" thing
i've said on here before that that way of going about things is not right- but i didn't think a man would ever actually say something like that.. i imagine he was a narcissist (which isn't an excuse for his actions, i'm just saying) anyway, here was my response to her comment: the bible says men are to love their wives and women are to submit to their husbands.. with that said, my ex g/f tried to run that same game on me that ur ex husband ran on u when he was talking about “ill love u after we get married”... my ex g/f said “ill submit after we get married” smh.. that attitude is NOT of God and is definitely a red flag because when u are dating, courting, or engaged u should be showing that u can (and are willing to) give that person what they are supposed to get from you.. when a person is saying “ill act right later on” it means they have the wrong attitude because they aren’t seeking to give the advantage and that is what we are supposed to do in marriage.. anyway what i told my ex was “how can u say u will only submit after we are married? what if i said i will only love u after we’re married?” she of course changed the subject.. long story short i am not with her and i wanted her but i cant make a grown person act right.. im done with women who dont want to hold up their end of the deal
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