women and their need to manipulate, play games, and create false narratives (must watch for men)8/30/2017 this is a deep mgtow concept.. guys listen and become wiser its about how a woman's need to play the victim affects us as men as women continually attempt to pass their guilt onto us
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today i was reminded of a dream or vision i had about my ex while we were still together
in the dream i was trying to talk to her but she was paying attention to these other guys who were around her.. there were like 4 or 5 guys around her i was trying to get her attention but she was just ignoring me and flirting with those guys.. so i turned to walk away and as i was walking away i looked up and she was in front of me.. and she was being nice and giving me a hug and being sweet to me so i was like cool i got my normal g/f back! the only weird thing was i didn't understand how she moved from one spot to another so quickly so then as we were leaving, i looked back and realized she didn't move quickly- there was actually two of her.. she was still with me and she was still with those other guys also and that was the end of the dream now the reason i am posting this is to hopefully help someone with what i am about to type in that dream as you can see- it was like it was saying i was with someone who was two-faced when i had this dream i was used to writing my dreams down but i honestly don't remember committing to writing it down because i was like "nah, my babe doesn't act this way" now here's what i want to tell you- whether she acted that way at that moment or not didn't matter.. why? because here's what i didn't realize at the time: MAYBE THE DREAM WAS FOR THE FUTURE i didn't feel any doubts about her at that time but as time went on, she was seeing people behind my back and sometimes ignoring me or giving me the run around.. so what does that tell you? so my point is this: IF YOU HAVE A DREAM ABOUT SOMEONE, EVEN IF IT DOESN'T APPEAR TO MAKE FULL SENSE RIGHT THEN AND THERE- YOU STILL NEED TO WRITE IT DOWN AND KEEP IT BECAUSE IT MIGHT MAKE SENSE WITH A LITTLE TIME AND IT MIGHT SAVE YOU FROM DANGER, LOSS OF ENERGY/CONFIDENCE, LOSS OF RESOURCES, AND/OR SAVE YOU FROM HEARTACHE i hope this can help someone who reads this God bless and good luck too true not to post this sounds soo familiar to me.. even down to the suicide thing because my ex was even talking about that
i also like how he said he didn't know about any of this when he went through it- but he got understanding later on... i had the same experience.. when you meet someone like this it is just confusing until you start going on youtube and seeking understanding everything you type in will lead to narcissists, people with personality disorders, people with past traumas they didn't get past, people with the jezebel spirit, people with borderline personality disorder, manipulative and controlling people, and a few more for example i remember i started typing in things like "won't apologize" or "phony apology" (i'm sorry you feel that way).. or "always upset" or "arguing all the time" etc etc and little by little the picture unfolded more and more at first u really just think "hey maybe i did something wrong, i'll try to do better" so this actually makes u insane because you are sympathizing with a maniac and their "logic" ..over time you realize you're not the problem at all- its all the other person and their discontentment with EVERYTHING i was blessed i never had sex with her- i feel like if i did, i think i would've been trapped.. physically, mentally, and emotionally.. keeping sex until marriage is one of the best things ever- trust me another thing i like is that he said you will find something satanic in their background.. this is something i didn't find in a blatant way however she did have a yin yang tattoo which is a symbol of taoism.. which has nothing to do with Christianity.. and also she was into astrology (which God mocks in the Bible when He said something like: "which astrologer can save you in the day of trouble?") <---that was a paraphrase i had to post this because, this video is sooo true i legit dealt with this all the time with my ex g/f.. she did this to me so many times i could keep talking, but just watch the video, this chick explains it perfectly i remember finding a lot of narcissism recovery videos on youtube one day and being like "why are there so many videos on this topic?" let me tell you- if you ever get in a relationship with a person with a personality disorder, or a borderline, or a jezebel, or narcissist- you will see why there are so many videos on the subject bottom line- they turn love into war.. and they don't fight fair I'm cloud air.. I thought this was one of the most sensitive butthurt comments I've ever received lol
Why do women make being called pretty such a big deal
“do you think I’m pretty?” “my dad never told me I was pretty” “don’t call me cute, call me beautiful” Even when women talk about other women: “she’s a pretty girl” “beyonce is gorgeous” “rihanna is beautiful” Women say women are beautiful as opposed to like “a great writer” or “a great singer” If women like another woman who is 90yrs old, they won’t say “that 90yr old woman represents a great thing” instead they will say she’s beautiful.. that doesn't make sense though because when you turn down a woman based on her looks, a woman will say "looks fade" ... so how can a woman say someone who is 90 is "beautiful" if looks fade? like which is it? do they fade or not? and another thing, before i move on.. saying "looks fade" to me has never made sense.. the reason this doesn't make sense to me is because people say it whenever they are telling you not to care about looks.. but everything fades.. life fades, should u kill yourself because of it? your new clothes get old.. should u stop buying new clothes? a new car will get old.. should you just drive a jalopy? like under what circumstance does something getting older mean you shouldn't get it, like it, value it, or appreciate it? i have never understood that.. i mean really imagine this conversation me: "i don't want that girl she's not cute to me" person: "james, looks fade" me: "you know what, you're right- since this is the case- i should completely disregard my lack of attraction.. i was so stupid 5 seconds ago, thank you for enlightening me" like i really don't get what people hope to achieve in saying "looks fade" the other thing i don't get about that statement, is they say it as if only the girl will get older.. like as my girl gets older i'm going to obviously get older too.. its not like one day i'd look up and see that my girl is 80yrs old and i'm still in my 30s.. like if we get older together, then what is the point of saying looks fade? if u get older, i get older too.. when ur 100 then i'm 102.. so what is this crap about "looks fade" if we are growing old TOGETHER? as if one day i'd look at my wife and say "you know you got 20 years older and i'm no longer happy" like if she has gotten 20 years older, then guess what? I DID TOO so how am i going to complain? i never understand that logic.. "you shouldn't care about looks because looks fade" EVERYTHING FADES it just sounds so self defeating to me "why buy the nice comforter? it'll fade" "why put on perfume? the smell will fade" "why try to be nice to people? their memory of what u did will fade" like where is the logic in that? my thinking is: IF YOU WANT SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE TO YOU THEN GO FOR IT.. PERIOD... all this stuff about "it fades" is irrelevant one last point before i get back to my original point IF LOOKS FADE THEN THATS ACTUALLY EVEN MORE REASON TO GET SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE!! WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A 10 THAT TURNS INTO AN 8? OR A 5 THAT TURNS INTO A 3? OR DO YOU THINK "LOOKS FADE" ONLY APPLIES TO GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE? I MEAN REALLY- CHECK YOUR "LOGIC" HERE!!!!! *takes a breath* ok, back to my original points: I feel like women make a bigger deal of looks than men but women always get on men for having ANY type of standards in looks I remember one day I was sitting next to my ex g/f and we were watching this video game reviewer I like and he happens to be overweight and she said “turn the channel, this guy’s a loser” Umm…. Excuse me? He is reviewing things from his home. Meaning he is a homeowner. He has a car. He has a graphic design job. He also has hobbies i.e. we are watching his youtube show. She called him a loser just because he was overweight and maybe not dressed in the best clothing But this is my whole point with women.. they think looks equal character Like saying someone is attractive (in a woman’s mind) is like saying they are acceptable behaviorwise However, I have seen a lot of attractive women who are unacceptable in their behavior.. its basically like 95% of what I complain about on my site But here’s the thing.. when a MAN expresses his opinion on a woman’s looks.. if it’s not 100% positive, a woman will be the FIRST one to say “looks don’t matter” or “you’re being shallow” This is after all these women were running around saying they wanted to bang that guy Jeremy Meeks with the mugshot In their minds, his looks justify his actions I just feel like women are the biggest perpetrators of lookism But when men do it- they are immediately demonized A guy can say “she’s just not cute to me, she’s cool and I’m not dissing her but she’s not cute to me” And women will consider those fighting words unless she considers that particular woman some type of rival or enemy It is such a frustrating thing when women are with all these tall guys with 6 pack abs but when you say you want a woman who has this trait or that trait- you are immediately demonized and called shallow Women are the first ones who will tell you you are ugly or not dressed well, or need a haircut, or need to hit the gym… but they are also the first ones to cry and complain about it when they are overlooked for some of the same reasons Like ciarra said to me that I was shallow because I didn’t want a particular girl I told her about because I don’t think that girl is cute.. I said to her “well I have my reasons for not liking her and you have your reasons for not liking me, what’s the difference?” Of course women never look at things logically so instead of saying “yeah james you’re right” she said “my reasons for not being with you have nothing to do with looks so you’re shallow and I’m not” My point was, who is she to judge what is and isn’t an important factor? I never said “ciarra, you’re shallow for not liking me” I just let her do her Also- for the record, she said she didn’t want to be with me because I’m too religious which in my opinion is actually WORSE than not wanting to be with someone because they aren’t cute.. because saying I’m too religious- you’re basically saying “you follow God too much” I'd also like to point out that that could've been a lie- she could still just flat-out not like me because of my looks but not have the ability to say that anyway... Women are a joke. by the time modern women get to you, they have banged a lot of guys.. they've had long relationships, they've lived with men, they've had pregnancy scares, some have had abortions, they have done so many things with men and they oftentimes have nothing to show for the years of effort.. they told their family about the last guy and the guy before that- you come into the picture, and you're no longer THE man in her life.. you're just ANOTHER man.. basically- by the time a woman gets to you, you are getting scraps
think about it like this.. in the old days.. you had prostitutes, and you had women who were wives... well today they are basically the same thing so say you marry a woman this very year.. it will essentially be like marrying a prostitute, whore, or harlot, of yesteryear you never meet a woman who has saved herself for you so you're not getting her best, you are getting whatever is left of her after her emotional traumas.. so you (the good man) are trying to talk to a woman but you realize she has a ton of walls up i'm not saying women can't recover from their sexual past, previous hurts, broken hearts, lack of trust, and lack of vulnerability.. but to recover from all of this takes God.. God can rehabilitate women, but let's face it.. women typically do not have the relationship with the Lord that they need i heard someone say it like sex is like an adhesive, like a band-aid.. but each time u are with another person, you detach it and try to reattach it to someone else.. but each time the glue is less and less sticky.. after a while there is no more attachment... oftentimes (because of what i just described) modern women have no vulnerability or attachment or genuine love to offer.. she is just there i cosign this, what she's saying is true.. definitely went through this with the ex and her toxic logic |
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December 2017
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